Okungenani kanye empilweni, sonke siwela esimweni lapho asikwazi ukubhekana ngokuzimela: siyagula, silimele, sishaywe, siphange, sishiyelwe ezimweni ezinzima ngaphandle kosizo. Futhi kufanele sithembele ngokuphelele kumuntu ongaziwa ngokuphelele, ngisho nesibayali esingahleliwe. Vele, lokhu kuyingozi enkulu. Kepha kule mibandela, akudingeki ukhethe.
Futhi nokho, ukwethemba lo muntu, ngisho nangokwazi okuphumayo nangokubona okuphumayo, zama ukubuka izenzo zakhe, okungenani kulawule okuncane okwenzekayo.
Yini ingozi yokuthembela ngokweqile?1. Umuntu ovumile ukusisiza ukuba sikwenze ekucabangeni kwe-mercantile. Uyazi ukuthi cishe wonke umuntu owangena esimweni esinzima, khona-ke uzozama ukubonga ngisho nokubamba iqhaza okuncane. Futhi ngikholwe, inani lokubonga kwakho lizokwenzeka!
Nasi isibonelo esivela empilweni. Owesifazane osemusha wehla ngomgwaqo, enganaki amabhayisekili adlulayo. Omunye wabo, ushayela eceleni kwendlela, wahlwitha isikhwama sakhe ezandleni zakhe. Kwakuyipasipoti, imali enkulu, yeqa ukusebenza, eminye imibhalo. I-Passolue yakwazi ukuthola naye bese ikhetha "inyamazane". Ngenxa yalokhu "uMthetho omkhulu" wabuza le ntombazane inani kathathu izindleko zesikhwama salo. Vele, wanikeza. (Mhlawumbe "Phephasterby omuhle" futhi umthumba wasebenza ngebhangqa.)
2. Isihloko singenelele esimweni singaba yingozi kakhulu kubaphatheli bokuqala. E-Psychitary Psychiary kunezibonelo lapho umdali uhlala eqhubeka nemibhangqwana emisha, eyayihamba ezansi emgwaqweni (onqenqemeni lwehlathi, epaki) futhi exabana. Wenza lelo fomu acasulwa yinhlonipho yentombazane, aqhamuka amshaye, wabe esedlwengula le ntombazane, evinjiwe, njll.
3. Umuntu ufuna ngokweqiniso ukukusiza. Kepha ayinawo amathuba anjalo, amakhono, amandla omzimba nangokwengqondo. Mhlawumbe wazenzela ngokweqile, wafuna ukubonakala phambi kwakho kangcono kunalokho okuyikho. Kuyiqiniso, usizo lwakhe lokungasebenzi ngeke lulethe inzuzo, kodwa futhi lubuhlungu.
4. Uvumile ukusiza ngenxa yobunzima bokwenqaba. Kepha empeleni, akukho okuzokwenza (abakwazi, abakufuni, asikho isikhathi). Futhi ulindele futhi unethemba ...
5. Lowo owathi "uzosiza futhi asindise", empeleni isitha sakho, umona futhi singapheli. Ulapha njengoba lapha kwenzeka okuthile okungathandeki kuwe, uzithola usesimweni esihlekisayo, esihlekisayo, njll. Ngikholwe, uzokwazi ukuphenya ngenza isithombe somuntu wakho owesabayo, futhi ngalesi sigameko sizokwazi konke okuzungezile .
Yebo, uma impilo yakho ithatha ukwakheka ukuze ukwazi ukuncika kwabanye abantu: abazali bakho, abafowethu udadewabo, ofunda nabo kanye nozakwabo, balwa nabalingani bakhe. Uma uzethemba kubo. Noma okunye ukuphuma akunjalo. Kepha uma kunethuba elincane kakhulu, kwakukhona amandla, izinsizakusebenza, kuzokuphila - kuyadingeka ukuncika kuwe kuphela. Ikakhulukazi ezindabeni ezibalulekile.
Ithemba liyinkohliso, isimangaliso ehlane, ukuthi umthombo usondele kakhulu. Njengoba kwakuhlabelela ngezikhathi zaseSoviet: "Impilo yonke ingaphezulu, uNadaya alinde." Okuhlekisayo, akunjalo? Kepha kufanelekile ngethemba lokuthi othile, ukuguqula umthwalo wemfanelo ngempilo yakho emahlombe banye abantu? Noma umuntu enomusa kuwe - akanaso ama-ompernt, kube sengathi kwesinye isikhathi ayengafuni.
Ungathembela kuNkulunkulu, isihe sakhe esingenamkhawulo, kepha ngasikhathi sinye empeleni isenzo - ngesibindi nangokunqumela. UNadezhda kuphela kuphela, ongenakho ukholo kuye nasekusizeni lukaNkulunkulu nasekuphakameni - lokhu kubuthakathaka. Ukukholwa kusindisa ukuphelelwa yithemba, kunika amandla, kusiza ukugwema ukwesaba abanamuntu okhungathekile.
Nakekela abantu abakusizile ngokuphelele, ngomusa womphefumlo wakho. Bambalwa abanjalo manje.
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