Ngithinta ngqo ngqo ukuthi zingakanani manje kunezindlela zonke zezifundo zesihloko esithi "Ungayigcina kanjani indoda", "Ungayibuyisa kanjani umyeni", "Ungayiyenga kanjani kanye naphakade" futhi ukuze uhehe futhi ubambe futhi ubambe unake owesilisa .
Kepha zingakanani izindaba ezinjalo esezivele zazinezindaba ezinjalo, ezibonakala zinobuhlakani nobuhle futhi zilungiselela okupholile futhi zilungele zonke izivivinyo, futhi indoda isahambile yathola enye.
Ngiye ngahlula futhi ngacabanga ukuthi kunjalo kanjani ?! Futhi kungani kangakaneli? Ngenkathi angizange ngibe nesibindi.
Amadoda angalungela ngokuphelele, ageze futhi azihlanze. Kuze kwenze nje owesifazane, akudingeki enze lokhu. Noma ngabe uqinisekile ukuthi umyeni wakho akazazi ukuthi isitofu sivulwa kanjani, unephutha kakhulu. Uyokuqonda masinyane lokhu uma kungazelelwe kukudinga! Ngakho-ke lapho owesifazane ecabanga ukuthi ngeke aphile ngaphandle kosuku lwakhe, unephutha elikhulu. Kepha kunamandla, uyaphutha lapho kuqala i-apoxy. Ukuthi ngaphandle kwakhe ngeke akwazi ukuthola lutho. Lapha emadodeni anjalo agijime ngokushesha naphakade.
Benginomngane lapho umyeni wami esehambile. Ubuye wacabanga nokuthi akakwazi lutho. Futhi ukuthi wahamba kanjani ngokushesha futhi umsebenzi watholakala kangcono futhi wafunda ukulungiswa, futhi wathola okuningi. Ngokuvamile, uthole zonke izinkomba. Futhi angimlahle ngisho nakuyo. Sizicabange, kuhle ukuba uphile nomuntu ozokutshela nsuku zonke: "Yebo, awunakumi!". Ngokushesha, ngifuna ukusukuma, shiya ngikhombise ukuthi yini enye efana nokuthi "ubani"!
Kepha owesifazana ongagqugquzela owesilisa ngeke aze ahambe. Uzokwenza konke naphezu kwakho konke. Ngakho-ke, uma ungafuni ukuba indoda yakho ihambe, ngifunde ukungamhlambalazi ukuthi angakwazi, kodwa umgqugquzeli ukuze akwazi ukwenza konke! Futhi ngikholwe, angakwazi konke futhi akwenzele wena!
Nayi enye i-Lifehakov:
- Kusho ukuthi kuthule futhi kumnandi, sicela ubone okungcono kakhulu kunokuhlanjalazwa kanye nezidingo.
- Akunakwenzeka kuMalume Okhukhula Ungashintsha okuthile. Kulula ukuthola enye indoda.
- Ngasizathu simbe, ngithola kaningi ngokweqiniso nokuthi umfazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ulinde izenzo ezivela kumuntu, futhi akazenzi lutho ngokwakhe. Ngiyakuqinisekisa nina bantu, futhi, thanda ukunakwa!
- Hlonipha ukuzethemba kwakhe. Uma engalungile, mtshele ngakho uqobo, lapho uwedwa.
- Uma ubona njengento engezansi kwe-plinth, kungani unakho nhlobo naye? Noma ngabe uthando lapha akukho phuzu lokukhuluma. Kungenzeka kakhulu. Futhi alukho uthando? Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ungakuvumelanisa okuthile.
- Uma ngabe i-ironing yehembe lakhe ingumsebenzi ongathandeki, hhayi isenzo sokukhathazeka, kungcono ukungayibusheli nhlobo.
Ibaluleke kangako esikhathini sethu ukuzizwa njengothando nokunakekelwa ngokuvamile kudala izimangaliso. Uma uqala ukumnakekela, uzoqala ukwenza into efanayo futhi uzophinda ubuyise le nkathi yokubhaka ye-Pipi, okungenzeka ukuthi sekudlule isikhathi eside. Futhi mina uqobo ngicabanga ukuthi akufanele adlule, futhi uthando nokunakekela kufanele kube khona njalo. Futhi lapha ama-50% omsebenzi alele kowesifazane! Hhayi-ke, abaseleyo abangama-50 bazothatha indoda yakho.
Cabanga, akazange anikeze izimbali isikhathi eside. Futhi lapha ucasulwa ngesikhathi kumemeza okulandelayo: "Yebo, awunginikanga imibala iminyaka eyikhulu." Ngeke anikeze. Wamunca. Futhi uma kudlula imbali Timo TIGO: "Yimaphi ama-rose amahle, engikuthandayo ..." Maduze nje i-boquet ebabazekayo izoba nayo etafuleni. Mhlawumbe lesi yisibonelo sebhanali, kepha sisebenza konke. Okungenani leliqhinga alizange lehluleke!
Umthombo