Imvelo isinikeze amathuba amaningi. Kepha kanye namathuba anikeze amandla okujwayela ezenzweni ezithile. Ngeke sicabangele imikhuba ewusizo nembi, zisobala kuwo wonke umuntu. Kepha imikhuba engadingekile icashile kangangokuba kwesinye isikhathi sibona njengengxenye ebalulekile yokucabanga.
Imikhuba engadingekile ephazamisa impilo ezolile
Ngisusa le mikhuba, uzozwa inkululeko yempilo, kancane kancane uzizwe ushintsho, ubumnandi obuningi kanye nenjabulo kusuka nsuku zonke.
Umkhuba wokufakazela ukuthinteka kwawo awukho kanjani empilweni yangempela. Khumbula ukuthi sivame ukulala kangaki ngezingxoxo zangaphakathi. Senza izingxoxo zengqondo lapho sibonisa khona umbono wakho. Sihlela ukukhuluma okuphikisanayo uma kwenzeka umhlangano. Ngakho-ke, sihlala sisesimweni esicindezelayo. Ubuchopho abuhlukanisi izingxoxo ngengqondo nengokoqobo. Futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngisho nangokwengqondo, sivusa iphuzu lakho elifanele, sivusa umzimba ukukhiqiza ama-hormone, isimilo sokuvikelwa nokucindezela.
Ingabe kuyadingeka? Ingabe kufanelekile ukufakazela iphuzu lakho langakwesokudla kulabo abangafuni ukwamukela? Kungcono kakhulu ukuzizwa ukhululekile ebufakazini. Unikeze ilungelo lokukhetha, futhi uma amagama akho engamukeleki, khona-ke lokhu kungukukhetha.
Umkhuba wokugxeka okugxekayo ukusishukumisela ukuba uhlukanise ngezenzo ezimbi futhi ezinhle. Ngenxa yalokhu, singakwazi futhi sijabule, sithukuthele. Zama nje ukuqaphela amaqiniso futhi ungaphenduli kubo. Funda ukwamukela imininingwane njengoba kungukuthi futhi hhayi ukuzama ukuhlola. Akukho okuzoshintsha kusuka ekuhlolweni. Esikhundleni sokugxekwa okujwayelekile, umkhuba wokwelapha konke kulula.
Ilinde ukuphendula ngomusa noma usizo, sethula ngokuzenzakalelayo ukumbiwa kwe- "PITS yempendulo ehlelekile", ehambisana nokuqongelelwa kwentukuthelo. Futhi ukuze ugweme imizwa yakho engemihle, udinga ukuyeka ukulinda impendulo. Lapho-ke intukuthelo ngeke ikopishwe, futhi yonke imisebenzi emihle ezobuyela kuwe izojabulisa ukulindelwe kwethu.
Ukuzithethelela, ngokushesha sizibeka esimweni "ngaphansi kwe-interlocutor". Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, umkhuba wokuzithethelela wehlisa ukuzethemba nokubaluleka komuntu, njengomuntu, kodwa uqinisa ukwesaba, ngoba sesivele sesikulungele ukugcina impendulo phambi kothile.
Ukuzithethelela okulindelwe ngumuntu oza nokumelana nezifiso zawo, sizicubungula ngesisulu sezimo. Bangani, izihlobo, ozakwabo, abaphathi, umphakathi ulindele ngathi. Njengoba nje silindele izenzo ezithile ezivela kubo. Kepha lokhu akukubheki ukunganaki impilo yakhe noma isifiso sakhe, kusetshenziswe konke okulindelwe nxazonke.
Ukususa le mikhuba, sishintsha ukucabanga kwethu. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukulungiselelwa lokho okuyindawo yethu engashintsha. Kodwa-ke, lezi zinguquko ziletha injabulo, vula ukubukeka okusha emhlabeni, kukuvumele ukuthi ujwayelane nabantu abasha, uthole okuvelayo, ngenye indlela ubone impilo, ufunde ukuthanda futhi ukwazisa.
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