"Uma osemusha efinyelela eminyakeni yobuningi futhi ebhaliswe efulethini lapho engeyena umnikazi, usakwazi ukuqhubeka nokusebenzisa izindlu zabazali. Ngasikhathi sinye, uvela izibopho zokukhokhwa kwezakhiwo zokuhlala zamanzi nogesi. Amalungelo okufuna isigaba noma aqokomise indlu ehlukile kulokhu, akanayo, "kusho uMarina Panteleeva.
Kodwa-ke, ngokommeli, uma kuvela ukuthi le nsizwa izoshiya indlu kababa, "izoshiya isikhathi eside" (ngokwesibonelo, izosebenza noma ifunde komunye idolobha), khona-ke abazali babanikazi banganciphisa Kwesokudla ukusebenzisa izindlu zabo nokubuya kuzoba nzima.
"Lapho ingane isifinyelele eminyakeni yobuningi, kanye nanoma yimuphi omunye umqashi angabhalwa. Kuthatha isikhathi esincane futhi kulula ukusisebenzisa uma ingane engeyena umnikazi wesabelo. Ukukhishwa kwefulethi elineminyaka engu-18 ubudala kwenzeka ngokulandelayo: Okokuqala udinga ukuzama ukuxoxa ngokuthula. Awuzange Usize? Siqala ukuqoqa izizathu (ubufakazi) ukuze bakhiphe. Ngemuva kwesimangalo, sisebenzisa ubufakazi futhi sonke siyithumela enkantolo. Inkantolo iyacabanga ngecala futhi izonquma, "ingeza u-Arthur Merkusher, umqondisi woMnyango Wokuhlaziya uMDominfo.ru.
Izizathu zokukhishwa kwemali zingabhekwa futhi ukuthi ubudlelwane bomndeni phakathi kwengane nabazali bangekho, amanothi ochwepheshe. Lokhu kungenzeka uma:
Ingane ayiqhubi ekhaya kanye nabazali;
Ayinikeli kwisabelomali somndeni;
Akukho ukwesekwa okufanayo;
Akahlali futhi ungakhokhi izinkokhelo zokusetshenziswa (kepha lesi akusona isisekelo, kepha yisizathu esingeziwe kuphela sokukhipha).
Esinye isimo uma ingane endala ingenye yabanikazi. Kulokhu, ukwenza ukukhipha ngaphandle kwemvume yalo endaweni yokuhlala akunakwenzeka, noma ngabe indawo yayo efulethini ayiqinisekisiwe. Uma usakwazi ukwazi 'ukubhala' insizwa, namanje ayikwazi ukuthinta ubunikazi bayo bezezakhiwo.
Izakhamizi ezindala zingathengisa isabelo sakhe. Kepha lokhu kufanele uqale unikele ukuze uthenge kwabanye abanikazi, okungukuthi, abazali.
"Kungenye into ukuthi imali ethathwe engxenyeni kungenzeka ingabi ngokwanele ukuthenga izakhiwo ezihlukile zokuhlala futhi umuntu osemusha kuzofanela abe nomuntu omdala ukuxazulula izinkinga zayo zezindlu. Isibonelo, thola, thatha imali ebanjiswayo noma uthathe abavela kubazali bakho, "kusho uMarina Panteleeva.
