Kungani abanye abantu bezuza kalula izinhloso, inkululeko yezezimali futhi bajabulele nsuku zonke, kanti abanye babamba amandla ukuze bavuke ekuseni basuka embhedeni? Isintu kudala sizama ukuxazulula le imfumbe Yini le mbono eyamukelwa yisikhathi esiyinhloko namuhla futhi imaphi amakhono okufanele athuthukiswe ukuze aphumelele?
Kufika kuma-80s wekhulu lamashumi amabili bekukholelwa ukuthi ukhiye wempumelelo yomuntu uvela ezingeni lokuthuthuka kobuhlakani bayo, okungukuthi, iq. Ukuhlolwa kokuqala kwe-IQ kwavela ngesikhathi seMpi Yezwe Yokuqala futhi kwasetshenziswa amaMelika ekukhetheni Ukuqashwa: Babenqunyelwe ukuthi ngubani ozoba yingxenye yokwakheka okujwayelekile, futhi abazothunyelwa kubani ESikhulu Esikoleni. Kepha ukuthandwa komhlaba wonke kokuhlolwa kwe-IQ kutholakala eminyakeni engama-40-50 futhi elandelayo ngesandla sokukhanya sikaHansa Aizenka, oye wathuthukisa izivivinyo zawo ezivumela amaphethini amaningi avumela amanani athile wezemidlalo isikhathi esifushane. Lezi zivivinyo zisasetshenziswa yizinkampani eziningi ekukhetheni kwabantu kumsebenzi wezengqondo nowokuhlaziya. Ngingasho ngandlela thile balinganisa ikhono lomuntu lokuthola izinto ezijwayelekile ezingxabanweni zesimanje zedijithali nasekufeni, ukwenza okutholakele kwesayensi, ukusungulwa, ukubhala izinhlelo eziyinkimbinkimbi zamakhompyutha, njll.
Umbuzo uphakama: Yisiphi isimo sengqondo samakhono anjalo ukufezekisa impumelelo yempilo emqondweni obanzi weZwi? Akukona nje ukwenza imali futhi kufinyelele isimo esiphakeme senhlalo, kodwa futhi nangento evamile yobuntu nobumbano (empilweni yomuntu siqu, embuthanweni wabangane, emsebenzini).
Ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo: Kuyini nokuthi yini ayinikezayoYini-ke impumelelo, uma kungenjalo kubuhlakani? Kuma-90s ekhulu leminyaka elidlule, kuvela ipharadigment entsha ye-paradigm, esekelwe emcabangweni we-EQ - izinga lobuhlakani obungokomzwelo.
Uma unxenxa ukuchaza, khona-ke ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo yikhono lokubona imizwa nemizwa yakho ye-interlocutor kanye nekhono lokuwaphatha.
Kusho ukuthini? Izinga eliphakeme le-EQ lisiza ukuxoxisana, ikakhulukazi lapho amanani aphezulu nawomamotani angasethwa. Umuntu onobuhlakani obungokomzwelo uyathuthukiswa, angadlulisela kalula umbono wakhe kozakwabo kanye nabalingani ukuze bangalimazi, bagxeka kanjani ukuxabana, baphathe izingxabano, njll . Lezi zimfanelo zisiza ngempela ukufezekisa amandla okusebenza kanye nasebhizinisini.
Ngo-1995, udokotela wezengqondo uDaniel Gowlman ukhiqiza incwadi ethi "Ukuqonda Okungokomzwelo", umbono omusha uba ethandwa kakhulu kunqwaba.
Okunye ukuphumelela emkhakheni we-Eq kwaba umbono kaTracy Bradbury ukuthi ubuhlakani obungokomzwelo bungaqeqeshwa - wakuveza encwadini yakhe ethi "Ukuqonda Okungokomzwelo 2.0.
Kodwa-ke, lo mbono uvelile ngalo mbono. Nge-EQ, ungaxoxisana ngempumelelo, uphathe imizwa yakho futhi ugxeke ngokufanele. Kepha kuthiwani uma konke lokhu kungewona amandla?
Manje abacwaningi baqala ukukhuluma ukuthi ukuphumelela komuntu empilweni kunqunywa ngokuyinhloko ngezinga lamandla alo abalulekile - vq.
Amandla abonakalayo nalapho kuya khonaKukholakala ukuthi umqondo owethule udokotela wezengqondo waseFrance uPierre KAAS, owuchaze i-VQ (i-Vitality Quotient) njengekhono lokukhokhisa amandla uqobo kanye nabanye, ukwenza abantu abangemuva kwabo.
Uma i-IQ ne-EQ ingakuqeqesha futhi kukhuphule, khona-ke i-vq nayo? Kunjalo impela.
Cabanga ngomzimba wakho njengesitsha esigcwele amandla abalulekile. Ngezansi kwesikejana kukhona izimbobo, lapho amandla okuphila alandela khona. Lezi zimbobo azihlanjahlili futhi zilimele ngokwengqondo kusukela kwangesikhathi esedlule ezihlobene nabazali, amalungu omndeni, abangane, abalingani, abasebenza njalo nabantu ababi nemikhuba emibi.
"Ungafaka izimbobo zokukhipha" ezisebenzisa ukusebenza kwezengqondo noma ukuqinisekisile ukusebenza kwazo kokuqeqeshwa ngokwengqondo, njengenqubo ye-hoffman, i-SAT, ukwelashwa okunomzimba, ukwelashwa kweGestalt, amalungiselelo nokunye okuningi.
Ukuqeda okuncane, kubalulekile ukugcwalisa wonke amandla alahlekile. Lokhu kuzosiza ukucabanga okuhle, ukondliwa okufanele, ukulala okunempilo kanye nemidlalo, ukuxhumana nabathandekayo. Enye indlela efakazelwe ukuthola iphupho langempela noma inhloso enkulu lapho ifuna ukuvuka khona ekuseni.
Ekuqinisekisweni kwalo mbono ngo-2010, incwadi yezinguquko kaSolwazi ye-Psychology enhle yeHarvard University of Sean Eykor ", lapho usosayensi ekhombisa ukuthi ujabule futhi ujabule, injabulo ukuheha impumelelo.
Ingabe isimo sengqondo esihle nesilinganiso esiphakeme samandla abalulekile sinquma impumelelo yomuntu empilweni? Ucwaningo lwakamuva luthi ukuvumela lo mbono. Ucabangani?