Ubugebengu ngokumelene nomshado

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Ukulungiswa kwesigebengu ngothando nomshado - kuphakamisa isitayela esikweni eliningi. Kusuka kuShukshinskaya "Kalina Krasnoye" kuya e-Eastwood "engafanele", sisitshela umlando wesigebengu osindisa noma esizama ukuphunyula esidibeni saso esedlule ngobudlelwano bezothando nempilo yomndeni.

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Uthando lomlingo kunzima ukululinganisa, ngaphandle kokuthi kufanele sibeke izigebengu emathubeni ama-magnetic kanye nokuhlola i-oxytocin ukuze siqonde, zisothandweni noma cha. Bheka kahle ukuthi isimo somshado sixhumekile yini nokuthambekela kokwephula umthetho. Yiqiniso, ungathi umshado awulona uthando, futhi empeleni umshado omuhle ngeke ushayele, ngaphandle kwalokho, kudala izimo zobugebengu ezithile: ngokwesibonelo, ama-mariticides (okungukuthi, ukubulawa kwamakhosikazi kanye namakhosi abangane babo). Kepha ezinye izinto zilingana, ukungena emshadweni wanamuhla kungcono kuthezelwe ukuba khona kwemizwa yothando kunokwezinga.

Unkosikazi noma inkampani embi

Uma uqala ukubheka, ngokusobala: ayisebenzi futhi engashadile phakathi kwezigebengu kanye nezigebengu ezingaphezu kokushada nokushada. Ngakho-ke, ukubalwa kwabantu kuka-2010 kubhaliwe: Ngaphezu kwengxenye yawo wonke amaRussia amemezela, abhalisiwe. Ngonyaka ofanayo, ngokusho komnyango wezokwahlulela eNkantolo Ephakeme yaseRussia, inani lezezigebengu ezisolwa izigebengu ezazikulesi simo zidlula zidlula eziyi-15%. Leli qiniso elilula elinamandla ligibela esiphethweni esibonakala sisobala - umshado uqhubeka nokuziphatha okubi.

Futhi nokho, phakathi kwabadumeleli akukho ukuvumelana ngalolu daba: Ukuvezwa okunjalo kungenzeka futhi kube nezinye izincazelo. Ukuze ubasuse, ungabuka abantu abasha abangaba yinkinga (labo abaphuthelwe kahle isikole (labo abaphuthelwe kahle isikole, baphuza utshwala noma izidakamizwa, bahlala ontanga, njll.). Izifundo ezinjalo zibonisa ngokwengeziwe noma zingalingani ngokungalingani: umshado, ngisho noma kusenesikhathi, kuhlotshaniswa nokwehla kwamathuba okuthola ubugebengu.

Ukuze uphumelele emsebenzini wobulelesi (njenganoma yikuphi okunye), kunezixhumanisi ezibalulekile. Ukukhuluma ngolimi olulula, kubalulekile ukuhlala umncane emvelweni walowo mncane oyedwa. Inkulumo ayikho nhlobo amaqembu ezigebengu ngomqondo we-classical, kepha kunalokho "amaqembu" anobungane, lapho ezinye zinqwabasa abanye ukuba zenze ububi obuhlukile, kwesinye isikhathi lobugebengu. Futhi-ke, uma ngesikhathi esilandelayo "esingenangqondo" sale amakhompyutha anjalo futhi kuthatha uhlelo lokuqinisa umthetho nalo, umsebenzi wobugebengu uyaqala.

Ukuthambekela Okubi noma Umshado

Umshado uvimbela kanjani lokhu? Umshado ubhubhisa "uTusovka" (ngeshwa, hhayi kuphela ubugebengu kuphela, abufa nje ubugebengu, ngaphandle kokulungiselela ukuncintisana ngothando), ngoba umndeni usetha isethi yezibopho, uhhafu wesibili ". Uma uchitha isikhathi eside nomlingani wakho noma oshade naye, isikhathi esincane onabangane, ngakho-ke isikhathi esincane ngokungenangqondo okusondelene naleso. Ngokuqala kwezingane zalesi sikhathi, kuba yincane, futhi lapha nokulawulwa kwezenhlalo kabili yizihlobo eziphezulu. Futhi izolo i-Overatus iba yindoda ehloniphekile emgwaqweni, ngoba ukugcina umndeni, udinga imali etholwayo esitelekayo lesi sigebengu esinzima ukuqinisekisa.

Kodwa-ke, mhlawumbe awuwona umshado uvikela ubugebengu, futhi izigebengu ezingaba khona azithathi abayeni namakhosikazi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abacwaningi bathola iqiniso elidumazayo: umshado osemthethweni kuphela, ubudlelwano bezothando ngisho nokuhlangana kwawo akunalona ubugebengu babo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwezinye izimo, ukuhlanganyelwa kwabahlali kuphela kuthuthukisa ukuthambekela kobugebengu, noma kunjalo, kubalulekile kubo bobabili abazalwane "Inkinga".

Enye indlela ukuqhathanisa izigebengu phakathi kwazo. Ngenxa yengcebo yezibalo zokwahlulela zaseRussia, ungaqhathanisa ukuthi umuntu uzokwenza nini ubugebengu obusha ngemuva kokukhululwa esiphethweni, kuya ngokuthi yiphi isimo somshado ayenaso. Kungenzeka ukuhlukanisa hhayi kuphela kuphela futhi ushade, kodwa futhi nalabo abangakaze bashade, nalabo abahlukanisa noma abafelokazi. Izibalo kuwo wonke amacala eRussia ngo-2009-2012. Kulindeleke ukuthi kukhombisile ukuthi izigebengu ezishadile nezishadile zizokwenqaba ukuphindaphinda ubugebengu kunokuba yize. Kepha abahlukanisile nabafelokazi baye bathambekela ngokwengeziwe ukwenza amacala aphindaphindwayo ngaphandle kokushada. Mhlawumbe ukulahleka koshade kungukulimala okukhipha umuntu ongqongqozayo nge-rut, kubhubhise ubuhlobo bezenhlalo futhi kuphoqelela indlela yobugebengu? Noma mhlawumbe, namanani angenakubekwa uphawu kakhulu, impilo enobungozi futhi abalingani babo bazifunela kubo, uma kunjalo, banaso isikhathi?

Ukuvumelana noma uthando

Abantu abashadile, ngokusobala, bachume ngokwengeziwe hhayi kuphela ngokubuka kobungozi - bahlala isikhathi eside, banokuchuma kakhulu. Ukuhleka, noma kunjalo, ukuthi ngabe umdumo uthi uthando lukhanyisa indlela yabo, futhi izinhliziyo ezixhunyiwe zishaye ndawonye, ​​noma lo mphakathi ugqugquzela ukuhambisana nokulindelwe kanye nezinhlobo ezihambelana kakhulu nokuziphatha okuhle.

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