Izinto eziyi-10 ezinjalo kanye nabangane bakho abaye baba ngabazali

Ukusekelwa kubalulekile ngisho nasekude

"Lapho abantu baba ngabazali, izindima zabo, izindima, izinhloso nefilosofi ebalulekile ziyashintsha." Labo bazali bathi izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ezidumile, abashadikazi uJohn Gottman noJulie Schwartz Gottman. Mhlawumbe labo ababeba ngabazali muva nje bazizwa benamandla kangaka: imingcele evaliwe, ukuhlukaniswa nabangane, ukwesaba ukugula, ukungaqiniseki ngokuzayo. Sithi ukuthi singabeseka kanjani abangane abaye baba ngabazali uma kungekho thuba ukubabona.

Umzila wendlela eya kumzali womzali: Ukulethwa kokulethwa kokudla

I-avalanche yemizwa emisha yadilizwa ngokushesha kubazali: ukondla, ukuguqula ama-diaple, obunye ubusuku bengqondo, isifiso sokuthatha ishawa esishisayo sithule futhi silale ngomzuzu. Asikho isikhathi sokudla ngokwakho. Asikho isikhathi - ngakho-ke abangane bazokubonga uma i-courier izobiza umnyango ngamabhokisi anamakha ezitsha ezishisayo.

Waxwayisa - kusho abehlomile: usizo ngokukhetha kolwazi

Kubukeka sengathi, manje funda imininingwane ngabazali - angifuni. Kepha akwanele ukuthola izimpendulo zemibuzo enjengokuthi "Kungani esikhundleni se-silicone toys ingane idla ekhoneni letafula," kudingeka uqonde ukuthi ungakholelwa kangakanani. Nquma ukucela usizo futhi akulula.

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Into esemqoka, sitshele ngemithombo ngaphandle kokuphikelela, ukuze abazali bangacabangi ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ngabo.

Abazali bazokwazi isikhathi samahhala, ngoba ukulala ngeke kube: nikeza okubhaliselwe

Amahlaya mayelana nabazali nokulala abonakale ehlekisa ... Ngenkathi ungabonakali ingane. Yini okufanele uyenze umama nobaba ngenkathi bejika embhedeni phakathi kobusuku? Ungalalela ama-audiobooks, ubuke ezemidlalo noma i-cinema, lapho izingane zilala khona ngokwazo. Ukuhumusha okuhle nokuqukethwe kwekhwalithi ekubhaliseni kuzoba yibhonasi emnandi.

Abazali bathanda izimanga ezimnandi: ukuqoqa iphasela

Vele ungafaki zonke izinhlobo zezingcezu "eziwusizo" njengebhodlela lokudla. Konke okudingayo ngengane nabazali kungenzeka ukuthi nakho. Kepha ukuzijabulisa ngokwakho bazokhohlwa kaningi, ngakho-ke faka izimonyo zephakeji, izingubo zemikhiqizo oyithandayo, izithelo, incwajana enemidwebo ngabaculi. Egameni - makube yisikhumbuzo sephasela ukuthi impilo ayikhawulwanga kuphela kumzali.

Yilokho impela okungavimba: Humusha imali

Imvamisa, uma sinikeza imali, sikholwa ukuthi umuntu nje akafuni ukukhathaza ukufuna izipho. Abangani abanezingane - into ehlukile. Ukuvela kwengane kusho ukusetshenziswa kwemali okwengeziwe. Umama nobaba bahlala bekwazi lokho abakudingayo njengamanje, ngakho-ke ukuhumusha okunobungane nakanjani ngeke kulimaze.

Ukuhlanzeka Ngaphezu kwakho konke: Usizo Ukuthola Ukuhlanza

Hlala umzuzu ngokuthula nokukhahlela kwendlu ehlanzekile - injabulo enjalo izokwazisa ngempela omama nobaba kuphela. Izincomo ezijwayelekile zokuhlanza ifulethi, lapho kukhona umntwana osanda kuzalwa, okunjalo: ukuhlanza kanye ngosuku, nokwenza ukuhlanza okukhulu kanye ngesonto (noma kabili, uma kunezilwane ezifuywayo endlini). Ngakho-ke, inkosi ebumsulwa embuthalo abazali bayojabula futhi njengezingane nguSanta Claus.

Ukusekelwa nsuku zonke kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuthinta okuhle: ungakhohlwa ukuxhumana

Ngisho nomlayezo omfushane noma ikholi yevidiyo ingaba ngokwanele ukuba abazali abasanda kuthunjwa bazizwe benesizungu. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuhlukaniswa komphakathi yilokho abambalwa abantu abaxwayisa ngomama nobaba. Sitshele ngezindaba zakamuva, imiphumela imidlalo yezemidlalo, kepha zama ukunganikezeli izeluleko (uma ungabuzi) futhi uphawula ngokubukeka noma ukuhleleka endlini.

Yisiphi isithunywa esingcono ukukhetha ukuxhumana? Wonke umuntu unokuthanda kwakhe, kepha sikucebisa ukuthi unake i-Viber. Ngenxa yezizathu ezimbili.

Owokuqala - Isithunywa sinemisebenzi eminingi ezoba wusizo ngempela kubazali.

Ungafihla izingxoxo bese ulungiselela imiyalezo engozini (kuyasiza uma uxoxa nomuntu obambekayo nabangane), funda imiyalezo ukuze omunye umsebenzisi angakuboni lokhu ("uzobhapathizwa?" Kusuka isikhathi lapho wena Ngabe ku-inthanethi ("ca, nokho, uyaphuza?").

In Viber, ungaxhumana ngezingxoxo zevidiyo zeqembu, uma uhlangana nabangane nezihlobo ngendlela ehlukile, akunakwenzeka.

Awukwazi ukukhathazeka ngokuphepha kokuxhumana kwakho noma amavidiyo athumele, ngoba konke ukuxhumana komuntu kanye nezingcingo kuvikelwe ukwenziwa kokuphela kokugcina ngokuzenzakalelayo, futhi akukho ukufinyelela kubo, ngaphandle kwabasuselwa kubo, ngaphandle kwabahlinzeki. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungavimba abantu abangajwayelekile ukuthi bangeze wena ezingxoxweni uma ungafuni.

Uma unesithombe sakho nengane ku-avatar yakho - ungenza kalula isithombe sitholakale kuphela koxhumana nabo ngokukhetha inketho efanelekile kusigaba sobumfihlo.

Awukwazi ukufunda kuphela imiyalezo futhi ubuke amavidiyo avela kubangani, kepha futhi ubhalisele izindaba, okuqukethwe okuthakazelisa emiphakathini yabezindaba, ama-blogger owathandayo noma ama-brands. Futhi nge-Viber, kunezingxoxo eziningi eziwusizo zokuxoxa, ngenxa yalokho ongakwazi ukuphuma kuzo ezilimini zokufunda ekhaya, ukuxhumana nochwepheshe bezengqondo, ukulethwa kwe-track nokunye okuningi.

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Bona konke ukuxhumana kwethu kusixhumanisi, ulande bese uthumela abazali kubazali - bazokwazisa ngokunembile!

Khumbula ukuthi kungani kudingeka imeyili evamile: Bhala incwadi yokusekela

Ugcine nini ukubhala noma wathola incwadi hhayi i-imeyili, kodwa ngeposi ejwayelekile? Abazali bazojabula ukubona ikhadi leposi ngokuhalalisela futhi bafunde amagama okusekelwa ephepheni, abangasindiswa futhi ngesikhathi sokuthola ku-albhamu yakudala.

Kwesinye isikhathi abazali abasebasha "yebo" awekho ": khombisa inhlonipho

Kumama nobaba, konke kusemncane: inqubo yalolu suku, indlela yokuziphatha kwengane nomunye. Badinga isikhathi sokujwayela konke. Ngakho-ke, uma abazali banyamalala inyanga noma omunye noma bevuma ukufona ucingo ngokunganqikazi, ungakhubeki. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ubungani bakho buyisiphelo, isifiso nje sokulala nabangane sidlula isifiso sokuxhumana.

Lapho kusenokwenzeka ukuhlangana: Nikeza (kufanele) isipho

Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imingcele izovulwa, yonke ikhofi ebandayo izophuza, ukulethwa kwama-diapers ekugcineni kwaklanywa kahle, i-Tummy izoyeka ukuphazamisa ingane futhi uzobona abangane futhi. Yini okufanele uyinikele ngemuva kokwehlukanisa isikhathi eside? Okuzosetshenziswa yibazali nsuku zonke: umfundi we-elekthronikhi, imaskhi yokulala, isikhwama esihle, isitifiketi sezinqubo ezimnandi. Ungakhohlwa ngengane futhi: i-combo entofontofo, isibani noma isibani samazinyo ngeke kuphazamise.

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