Kunabantu okulula futhi nje ukugcina ubudlelwano. Kepha kwenzeka ukuthi, embuthanweni wabangane bethu, bangane noma ngisho nezihlobo, umuntu uvela, kunzima kakhulu ukusungula inkhulumomphendvulwano egcwele. Isizathu salokhu kungaba yizikhalazo zalo zokuphila ezingapheli, ukugconwa kwaphakade noma uthando olungenakunqotshwa ngenhlebo.
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10. Yenze konke kungaqondakali
Impela uvele kaninginingi nabantu abazama ukufihla ukudideka kwabo nokungaqiniseki kwabo. Kwesinye isikhathi bazizwa bengakhululeki kangangokuba bangakuhlehlisa ngamazwana anolaka ngesitayela "Yini ehlakaniphe kunazo zonke?" Inkinga ukuthi le ndlela lezo zinothuka abantu abangasizakala ngempela ukuthi basebenzise isimo esingajwayelekile futhi batshele okuthile okuwusizo futhi kuyathakazelisa.
9. Blaw abanye ezinkingeni zabo
Ngamunye wethu angathi: "Yebo, kwadingeka ngibe nzima ngale minyaka." Kepha abanye bayakwazi ukuguqula kalula futhi bamane basebenzise umthwalo wemfanelo 'ngesabelo sabo esibi komunye umuntu - owakwakhe owake waba ngumlingani wakhe, ozakwethu ababi noma abanomona. Kepha izikhalazo zabanye abantu zishesha ngokushesha futhi abantu abake babelala ikakhulukazi ngokucophelela bazoqala ukuqoqa futhi bathole i-interlocutor emnandi ngokwengeziwe.
8. Musa ukubona abantu abancane
Manje ngisho nentsha ingenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi isikhathi sokulandela ama-Novelties, ukuthi yini okufanele uyisho ngabantu bakudala. Kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi kumele babike njalo abanye ukuthi inkukhu yeqanda ayifundiswanga. Kulezi zinsuku, ozakwethu abasebancane bavame ukuthatha iqhaza labafundisi besizukulwane esidala futhi basize ekukhulumeni kahle ubuchwepheshe obusha namasu wesimanje emisebenzi.
7. Ukuvumela uthuli oluzungezile emehlweni
Kwenzeka ukuthi abanye abantu balahlekelwe ngokuphelele ubuso phakathi kwempilo yangempela kanye nesithombe esicwebezelayo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Bakha ngenjabulo isithombe sonkosikazi ojabulayo nomama noma indoda ebulalayo enhle, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye bakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuzithembisa ngokwabo ngokoqobo, babhekana nobunzima ngesikhathi sokuxhumana bukhoma futhi banquma (nangesikhathi esifanayo omunye umuntu) impumelelo yokuthandwa kanye nababhalisile.
6. Gcina konke kulawulwa okungaphansi kwe-Non-Gravity
Umuntu onakho konke okuzungezile ngokusobala, akulula nje ukuvumela ama-brales of the board. Njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi kubonakala sengathi ngaphandle kokulawulwa njalo kwezihlobo zakhe ezingakhathali, abangane noma ozakwabo bazoguqulwa phezu kwakho konke, bazokwazisa, ngeke bethulwe futhi bavame kakhulu izimpilo zabo ethoyilethi. Kepha mhlawumbe kwesinye isikhathi kusadingeka ukukhipha futhi uphumule?
5. Qoqa inhlebo bese upompa wonke amathambo
Ngesikhathi sokuxhumana nabantu abathile uzizwa sengathi uyi-scout endaweni yesitha futhi uzama ukungaphuli lutho olukhulu. Ngoba nje noma yiliphi igama elinganakekelwa masinyane lizosetshenziswa masinyane ngakuwe, futhi ingxoxo "nezici" zakho izoqala ngisho nangaphambi komnyango. Mhlawumbe yingakho iningi lethu lizama ukugwema inhlebo esebenzayo kakhulu.
4. Ngokuqhubekayo ngokuqinile, obekungcono ukuba ngcono
Kuliqiniso, ungabubula isikhathi lapho utshani bekulungile, futhi nentsha ibike yawazwa abadala futhi yasiza ukuhumusha ogogo ngaphesheya komgwaqo. Kepha izingane zamanje azilungile kunalabo abazalwa eminyakeni engama-20- 30 edlule. Bangabanye nje. Kepha basadinga ukunakwa nokunakekelwa, futhi hhayi ukubabaza.
3. Ukubambelela esitayela esifanayo
Yebo, isikhathi ngasinye sinemfashini yaso, kepha kwesinye isikhathi umuzwa wokuthi othile unamathele ngenkani noma kuma-80s, noma kuma-90s. Futhi ngilapha i-Gaday - noma ngabe kungukuthi yi-nostalgia yentsha efile, kungaba ukwesaba okusha noTerry Conservatism. Impela uyazi abantu abambalwa abafuna ukunikela ngokunquma ukuhlolwa okuncane ngokubukeka.
2. Ukuqhubeka nama-stereotypes
Ngosizo lwamanethiwekhi omphakathi, kwaba lula kakhulu ukulengisa zonke izinhlobo zamalebula. Cishe abahlaselayo kubo namuhla kwakuyisidlaliso "Yazhem". Ngenxa yalokho, abesifazane abanezingane bavame ukuba yinto enobukeka obukhohlisayo nokuhlekwa usulu. Vumela noma umama ngasikhathi sinye i-superteate kanye nengane baziphatha kahle.
1. Kubonisa isisebenzi se- "Bureau of non-coven Soviet"
Vuma, akekho noyedwa kithi othanda lapho okuzungezile kuqala ukwenza okuthile "kokuhle." Impela, abaningi banabantu abambalwa, bayolalela izeluleko zabo futhi babona nesiqondisi esisendleleni. Kepha lapho abantu abangabazi begibela empilweni yethu - kubukeka kungaziwa okungenani.
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi imiphi imikhuba ecasulayo engakucindezela ngisho nomuntu osondelene kakhulu?