Manje kuningi okushiwo ngezinzuzo zobuzali bemvelo, ikakhulukazi, ngezinzuzo zokuncelisa ibele.
Kuvela ukuthi omama manje obabamkhulu, 'nathi sonke i-non-flux, uhlobo olunjalo "alulungile. Futhi "abampofu, ukumiswa nodokotela abanengxube kuya kokujwayelekile" - futhi ne-relic yesikhathi esedlule. Futhi ungaphakela isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka. Izinganekwane eziningi ezaze zeza kithi zakithi zakudala, ochwepheshe banamuhla badidekile. Kodwa-ke, isigaba sabesifazane savela, lapho ubunzima bokuncelisa ibele lwaluyiminyaka eminingi yobuhlungu. Nazi izindaba eziningi zazo.
UMargarita: "Ukuphonsa ukondla ngemuva kwenyanga yemizamo"
Indodana yami isivele ineminyaka emine ubudala, futhi ngizibona mina nsuku zonke:
- Unokungavikeleki okujwayelekile. Akahlukile ezinganeni ezezondla ibele okungenani izinyanga eziyisithupha. Ingane yami ayizange ihlupheke nalokhu ngokuphelele.
Kusuka kokungatholakali ngokuphelele kwe-GW kwahlupheka mina uqobo. Angizange ngijabule nami ukukhulelwa kimi ukuthi kwakudingeka ngandlela thile ukulungiselela lokhu. Ngesizathu esithile, wayekholelwa ukuthi imvelo ingenzele yonke into kimi. Nginebele, kepha kusho ukuthi ngingaphela nganoma yisiphi isamba sezingane. Kungaba kanjani ngenye indlela?Indodana esibhedlela somama ayizange ithathe. Wayenobuvila kakhulu ukuncela, okwakungamanga nje ngaphansi kwesihlalo sami, waze walala ngenxa yendlala. Ngimuhle kulokho, ukuthi isikhathi esincane asifinyelelanga. Ingane ibuthakathaka ngokomzimba. Emavikini amabili, akazange abuyise nje isisindo esilahlekile ezinsukwini zokuqala, waqhubeka ephuza umzimba. Udokotela osamukelayo wangibuka njengobukeka kabi wathi:
- yeka ingxube.
Hhayi ukudlulisa amagama, ebengizizwa kabi umama omubi. Waqala ukufuna umxhumanisi wokuncelisa ibele. Kepha ngihlala edolobheni elincane lesifundazwe, akukho nje ongoti abanjalo lapha. Waphenduka ukude. I-Skype Consultant yangitshela ngokwezigaba ukuthi ngibe nanoma iyiphi ingxube ekudleni hhayi ukungena, ukondla kuphela namabele, hhayi ukulala.
"Ezinsukwini ezintathu kamuva isimo sizoshintsha kube ngcono," unginqobile. Ngidlulise imali yokuxhumana futhi ngaqala ukwenza lokho ababekusho.
Akukho lutho olushintshile. Ingane ilale esifubeni. Kwanele ngokoqobo ngokoqobo kuma-chips amabili, wabe esewa eHunCh nokukhathala.
Ngiyazibuza: Omama be-Star abalokhu begxekwa njalo, kepha abanandaba
Ngize nganikeza ingxube. Ithemba lokuthi ingane izoba nokudla okuxubile, okungukuthi, kusazothola ubisi oluwusizo lwabesifazane obanele. Wabhonga walala kahle. Kwakungobusuku bokuqala lapho i-crumb ingahlushwanga ngamagesi. Ngiyaqonda, ingxube yokudla okunzima ngokwengeziwe, ephusheni kwakulula ukugaya. Kepha emva kwesifuba wawela ngokukhala, wadonsa imilenze esiswini, wahlukunyezwa kakhulu. Ibhodlela lengxube - futhi azikho izinkinga. Yondla amabele akhe, wenzale esikhundleni - futhi ukubhonga okubi nokuhlupheka.
Endodaneni yami, ngikhafulela ngayeka ukuzama nge-GW - njengoba umyeni wami ebizwa kanjalo. Ngemuva kwalokho, besingazi noma yiziphi izinkinga ngesisu nhlobo. Konke kwabekwa khona manjalo. Futhi ngangihlehliswa kakhulu. Kuyavela ukuthi nginguhlobo oluthile lwedwa?
UTamara: "Wayeka ukondla ngenxa yezidakamizwa, wawungakwazi ukubuyisa i-gw"
Wonke umuntu usathi ingane yaphela unyaka. Eqinisweni, ngiqamba amanga. Mayelana nendodakazi yezinyanga ezintathu ngagula. Udokotela wakhipha ama-antibibiotic futhi ngokwezigaba wayalelwa ukuvala ukuncelisa ibele.
- Awufuni izidakamizwa ukuthonya impilo yengane yakho?
Vele, angifuni. Kepha angihlelanga ukondla ekudleni. Nginqobile umlando womama, okuthi ngesimo esifanayo bakwazile ukubuyisela i-GW ngemuva kokuphela kwenkambo yokwelashwa. Kuhlelwe kwami isonto lonke. Okungukuthi, ngababili bengizokondla indodakazi yami futhi.
Ukuncelisa ibele kimi kwakuyindlela elula kunazo zonke. Ngenxa yendlela yakho yokuphila, ngihamba kakhulu ngize ngindize. Umqondo wokuthi kuzofanela aphathe isisindo esengeziwe yonke indawo, ngacindezelwa kakhulu. Leli yibhange lengxube, amabhodlela amabhodlela, amanzi, i-thermos enamanzi abilayo - kakhulu okudingeka ube nakho nawe! Futhi ngakho-ke - uthole isifuba, futhi ingane yandliwa ukudla okungcono emhlabeni, okubuye kube yindawo yokushisa oyifunayo. Ungaphuluki lutho.
Funda futhi: Ukukhulelwa okuhlukile: Njengoba ngiqala ukuntuleka, futhi ngagijima okwesibili
Ukubuyisela i-HB, ngalulekwa, okubizwa ngokuthi "indlela yesidleke". Izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuqamba amanga nendodakazi yakho embhedeni, zithinta isikhumba esikhunjeni, futhi zinikeze amabele kuwo wonke ama-squeak. Ngalungiselela. Beka konke okudingayo eduze kombhede. Sukuma uyongena ethoyilethi kuphela.
Kepha nathi le ndlela emangalisayo ayisebenzi. Leyo ndodakazi yajwayela le ngxube ngehora, ukuthi ngabe izidakamizwa zithonywa yini ekwakhiweni kwami. Ngokuvamile, akazange athathe isifuba esithile, futhi angizange ngibe nevolumu yobisi. Ngaphandle kwengxube, sathatha izinsuku ezine ngendlala, ingane embi yokulala.
Nginophahla oluncane oluvela ekucindezelekeni. Manje sengiyaqonda ukuthi lapho umyeni ovela emsebenzini wakhe wabona lesi sithombe wanikeza indodakazi indodakazi, kungenzeka ukuthi usisindisile sobabili. Sengivele ngivela emizameni yokuklabalasa nokuzala kwesimo esinganele. Kusukela lapho, ingane ngokuphelele ngokuphelele ekudleni okwenziwe ngezehlakalo. Futhi lapho - singakwazi ukusukuma umyeni wakhe ebusuku. Minus - umuzwa wami wecala nesimo esicindezelwe.
U-Alina: "Bengihlala ngazi ukuthi ngeke ngiphonse umntwana"
Emndenini wethu, akekho noyedwa owenzeke ukuncelisa ibele. Umama wami wandliwa izinyanga ezintathu. Ukwazile ukubambelela nomfowabo - futhi wayithatha njengenhlanhla engachazwanga. Isisho esikhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi sonke 'sinozalo onokhahlo ", ngalalela cishe kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Ukukhulelwa kuxhumene nomkhwekazi womama nezincomo zawo.
- Izinyanga ezine esifubeni - ezingaphezu kokwanele, - wamemezela ngezwi. - Futhi manje asondla unyaka owodwa ubudala! Kulobisi alusekho ukusetshenziswa, konke kudla! Kungaba ngcono mayelana ne-psyche yezingane ecatshangelwe - vele vele enqunu ama-mamina titki angakhumbula!
Bengisekukhulelweni kokuqala hhayi kuphela kwabancane, kodwa futhi ngixakeke kakhulu. Bengidinga ukuqeda isikhungo. Ngakho-ke, benginethemba elikhulu ukusiza ogogo bobabili nezeluleko zabo. Eqinisweni, kwanikezwa umthwalo wemfanelo wengane ezizukulwaneni ezindala.
Bheka futhi: Izenzo zengqondo zokuqinisa ukuxhumana nengane
Futhi ubisi lwami lwafika cishe ngokushesha emva kokuzalwa kwengane. Wayenele izingane ezintathu. Angasebenza ama-coral. Kepha ekhaya, ngase ngilinde amathini ambalwa ngenhlanganisela. Waqala ukunika cishe ngokushesha ngemuva kokukhipha.
Ngijabule kakhulu ngokuncelisa ibele. Yize ngangilindele "ukwesaba" okuthenjisiwe - imifantu, izinhlungu, i-lactostasis. Akukho okwenzekile. Kepha ukubona ukuthi nginenhlanhla kanjani, angikwazanga. Wanikeza ingane kubazukulu - benza ingxube. Ndodakazi yena yaqala ukunikela isifuba sakhe. Ukusuka ebhodleleni, kulula kakhulu ukuphuza. Ngakho-ke kwavela ukuthi ngifiphazela izinyanga ezine ezihloswe kakhulu.
Kuhle kakhulu ku-gw. Kwangibonakala sengathi ngikhethe into ebaluleke kakhulu. Angiqondi nje ukuthi kwakuyini. Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva ngazala okwesibili futhi yafundza iminyaka emibili. Kwakuyinqwaba yansuku zonke lapho akekho umuntu owayeka ukuqonda emndenini. Ngabe ifuna kanjani ukondla izingane zakho ngokwakho? Lokhu kungukuhlushwa, lokhu kuhlanganisa ingane njalo! Ngakho-ke ugogo wayezithatha kuye, angasukuma ebusuku, nganquma. Umama ohlanyayo abanye.
Ngabamba engingasemi nendodakazi endala. Ngiyazisola ukuthi anginazo ubuchopho obanele bokungalaleli imikhandlu futhi vele ukondle ingane.
Lapho i-GW idinga nje ingane kuphela
Manje abeluleki bebele bavame ukuphakamisa ukuthi kudingekile hhayi ingane kuphela, kodwa futhi nonina. Vele, izingane-zokufakelwa nazo zizothola ukudla okuseqophelweni eliphezulu, nokunakwa kwabesifazane impela. Kepha izibonelo zalaba besifazane zisikisela ukuthi umama angaziphoxa iminyaka. Kodwa-ke, kwesinye isikhathi udinga ukuthethelela izinto zakho futhi uphakamise izingane zakho ngokuthula. Abesifazane lapha badinga ukuzondla, hhayi ukulahlwa.