Isinqumo esibalulekile empilweni yensizwa: Ukukhetha umsebenzi. Abazali bangaqinisekisa ukuthuthukiswa kwamathalente namakhono esemncane. Kodwa-ke, abaningi baqala ukucindezela ingane ekuqaleni kakhulu endaweni eyodwa.
"Uma eseba ngumsubathi," kusho ugogo lapho umzukulu, okungaphansi konyaka, uhleli emadolweni akhe.
Abazali kati bayaqiniseka ukuthi kamuva indodakazi yabo izokwenza intatheli isebenze, ngoba "inelukuluku kakhulu." Ubaba ka-Andrei usevele ubona isiza esikhulu enganeni yakhe eneminyaka emihlanu. Futhi umama kaLena uphupha ngokuthi indodakazi yakhe izoba ngumlingisi odumile wethiyetha, ngoba intombazane iyakuthanda ukuphuma phambi kwesibuko futhi ifunde ngokuphelele izinkondlo.
Ngokusobala, yonke ingane okungenani yazo - ihlakaniphile futhi inethalente. Ngakho-ke, ngenkathi izingane zidlala ebhokisini lesihlabathi, omama babo bakhuluma ngezinzuzo kanye nobunzima besikole sonke esikhona kuye.
Kungani ucabanga ngomsebenzi one-pellery
Emhlabeni wanamuhla kunzima ukusebenza ngempumelelo, ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi abazali, ekuqaleni baqala ukucabanga ngomsebenzi wezingane zabo. Abanye babo bahlala besesha, ukuze babone futhi bakhuthaze amakhono ezinzalo zabo zokuzithoba.
Labazali babeka engcupheni yengozi entweni ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni nezingane: ukungacabangi kanye nokuthuthuka okuqhubekayo. Ngoba ngesikhathi sokuthomba, ingane ifuna ukuzihlola namakhono ayo ngaphandle kokwenza isinqumo esithile. Isimo esiminyene somuntu okhulayo kufanele sikhuthazwe.
Bheka futhi: Izilwane ezingezinhle zokomoya maqondana nezingane zabo: izindaba ezivela empilweni
Ukuthi ingane izokhombisa ithalente lakhe emculweni noma emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe, emkhakheni womphakathi, wokuhweba noma ngokomzimba, izotholwa eyunivesithi - Isinqumo sizotholakala noma kunjalo. Kungaba okungalungile ukuzama ukusunduza ingane endaweni eyodwa esemncane. Ngoba kusho ukuthi kuzoncishwa lelo thuba ukuzama okuhlukile futhi kuthuthukise ukuhluka kwalo.
Zisize uzithole
Ingane idinga ukukhuthaza ukuveza amakhono abo. Ngakho-ke, iziphakamiso kumele zihlukahluka ngangokunokwenzeka: umphefumulo, umzimba kanye nomqondo ufuna ukuba babe nokuthile abangakwenza. Namuhla kunezinhla eziningi eziningi, ezivela esigabeni sokuzivocavoca ezifundweni zomculo, kusukela ku- "Disers University" kwiziphakamiso zemfundo zeminyuziyamu. Ingane kanye nezinye izingane ingazama amakhono ayo kwifomu lomdlalo.
Funda futhi: Ukuhlolwa okulula kwezingane ekhaya
Kodwa-ke, kubalulekile ukukuvikela ekugcwalisweni ngokweqile. Ngoba, ngaphezu kokuqashwa, yonke ingane idinga isikhathi sokulahleka ohlwini olukhulu lwamacala. Kumele kube nokuzilibazisa ukudlala noma ukuhlala nje nokuphupha ngemilingo yemilingo. Ukucabanga nobuhlakani kungaqala kuphela uma ingane inethuba lokuphumula. Kuthatha isikhathi - nendawo yokuthatha umhlalaphansi, ngokungabonakali kubantu abadala futhi ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka ngohlobo lwamakilasi.
Futhi udinga abazali abasishukumisayo. Ukugxekwa unomphela nokugqekeza kuholela ekudalweni. Ukuqinisekiswa kanye nempendulo emihle, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunikeza ingane ukuzethemba okudingeka kakhulu ukusondeza ezweni ngethemba: Ngiyabonga mina ngobuntu bami, ngivulekele isimo futhi ngithole okuthile. Isisekelo esinjalo sengqondo esingokwengqondo sinikeza izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu ukuze uqhubeke nokuphila impilo ephelele (enobungcweti).
Lapho kwenziwa isinqumo: Ukusuka ekushayeleni kulo msebenzi
Kuyathakazelisa: Izincwadi zesimanje nezithakazelisa kakhulu zentsha eyi-14-16
Akekho ozokhetha umsebenzi, ngombono wakhe, ngeke abe mnandi noma unenzuzo. Emisebenzini yabo, abantu banelisa izidingo ezithile: bafuna ukukhombisa ukuthi bakwenzile, bafuna ukubekezela, banqobe ukuba baphumelele futhi bafune abanye futhi, bavikele abanye futhi, bazinikeze bona kanye nomndeni wabo. Futhi umuntu udonsela ebuchwebeni, okuthi, ngombono wakhe, "kufanelekile" kuye.
Into ekahle yenziwa ama-motifs amaningi. Imvamisa kunenye ithonya langaphandle: umbono wabanye mayelana nesikhundla esithile. Isahlulelo esinjalo somuntu wesithathu ezimweni eziningi sithinta kakhulu isixazululo. Kuthathwa njengokungathi sína kakhulu kunokuthambekela kanye nekhono lakhe. Lokhu mhlawumbe kuchaza ukuthi kungani abantu abasha abafisa ukuthola imfundo bakhethe ukukhetha ubuchwepheshe "bendabuko".
Kepha ababi kusobala: Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ezinye zazo ziyizinkomba ezimbalwa ezinikeza amathuba amancane okukhuthaza emhlabeni wanamuhla oguqukayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, isidingo salawa ma-Prastis siphakeme, futhi kunezikhala ezimbalwa, ngokulandelana.
Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukuthola umbono wokuthi ubungcweti bukhona nokuthi yini amathemba amakhulu ngekusasa. Abazali bangasiza kulezi zingane. Uma ushiya ama-stereotypes akho, ungaqoqa imininingwane ewusizo mayelana nemikhomba yangempela.
Izinhlangano eziqashwa nazo zinikeza imininingwane ebanzi kwi-Intanethi. Nakanjani kufanelekile ukuvakashela izikhungo zomsebenzi futhi uthole ukuthi hlobo luni lwezinhlelo zokuqondisa amakhono ezinazo. Ngezingxoxo nasezihlotsheni ngekhono, kungenzeka ukwenza iphrofayili yobungcweti abakhuphukele insizwa.
Bheka futhi: Ungahlela kanjani izinganekwane zezingane - Imibono yazo zonke izikhathi
Izimfanelo zobuntu ezinjalo njengekhono lokusebenza eqenjini, ukugqugquzelwa kanye nokuqala, zibaluleke ngokufanayo kunolwazi lobuchwepheshe kanye nezilinganiso ezinhle. Umsebenzi wesibili wabazali ukusiza izingane zabo ukuthola amandla azo ngqo.
Kungani wonke umuntu ekhuluma ngezilimi zakwamanye amazwe
Namuhla akukho lutho olubaluleke kakhulu kunolwazi olukhulu. Ububanzi le nsizwa ibheka umhlaba, amathuba ochwepheshe anawo. Ukuba khona kwezilimi zakwamanye amazwe kuvula iminyango kubuchwepheshe abaningi. Intsha kufanele ikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi phesheya ukuze ifunde ulimi eNational Emovenive. Lapho abazali bengasiza kulokhu futhi bahlaziye zonke izinhlelo ezinganikezwa izingane. Iningi lazo lezentengiso. Kepha uma ufisa, ungathola ozakwethu bezilimi kwi-Intanethi futhi uzijwayeze nasekhaya.Ungakuthola kanjani isipiliyoni ngaphandle kokusebenza
Uma kunethuba elinjalo, kufanele nakanjani unikeze osemusha ukuzama isandla sakho ngobungcweti obuhlukahlukene. Kungenzeka ukuthi ungasebenzisa indawo yakho yokusebenza. Ukuletha izingane ebhizinisini lakho, ukunikela ukusiza ngokusebenza okulula. Thola amabhizinisi anikeza izingane zesikole ukuze zidlule umkhuba wazo. Esekuqaleni ingane ifunda ukuthi ukuhamba komsebenzi kwenzeka kanjani, okungcono.
Kulokhu, abazali akufanele bawasebenzise amathuba okunikezwa ngumhlaba wanamuhla. Izingane ezivele zisesikoleni ziyakwazi ukuzibandakanya ekuthwenyweni nasekucutshungweni, ziqophe futhi zibekele ividiyo. Ngokuthuthukiswa kokuvinjwa, abaningi bafunda eminye imibhalo. Kwesinye isikhathi umuntu omdala ubonakala enamandla amakhulu, kepha kuhle lapho ingane izama futhi lezi zinkomba. Uzophila emhlabeni omusha wobungcweti.
Yini enye abazali abangayenza
Bheka futhi: Kungani intsha ithandana nokuphela kokuphila nokuthi amakhathuni anawo athinta kanjani
Lapho ukhetha umsebenzi, abantu abasha bancike ekusekeleni nasekusizeni umndeni wabo. Iningi labo lifuna usizo kubazali babo uma benomuzwa wokuthi basekupheleni okufile, abaningi bavame ukudinga usizo lwezinto ezibonakalayo. Ingxenye encane kuphela yentsha ekwazi ukuthola imininingwane futhi isebenze ngokuzimela.
Okokuqala, ingane kufanele iqonde kahle izintshisekelo zayo, amandla namathalente. Kuyiqiniso, imvamisa abantu abadala abazi ngayo, ngoba abantu abasha sebehlala emhlabeni wabo futhi bahlukaniswe yinzuzo yabo nezintshisekelo zabo.
Ngakho-ke, umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu wabazali uhlala ufuna amathuba okuxoxa nengane yakho futhi umlalele ngokucophelela. Ngokubambisana, amandla nobuthakathaka kungaxoxwa ngakho ngokuqondile nangokungathathi hlangothi. Uma insizwa iqhubeka nokuzwa kubazali bayo: "Lowo akuwona umsebenzi wakho," "Ngeke ukwenze," uzolahlekelwa yisifiso sokwenza futhi afune ukuphumelela. Umndeni kumele ugqugquzele, ungagxeki. Lapho-ke osemusha uzokwazi ukubona.