Ekhulwini lamashumi amabili, okuhle okubonakala kumiswe ngokuqinile yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi "amazinga obuhle" kanye nohlobo "lokuba muhle" kuwo wonke umuntu wesifazane. Le ndlela enhle yobuhle ayinaki i-biology yomuntu: iminyaka yemvelo, i-genetics kanye nezinguquko zemvelo ezenzeka kwinqubo yempilo.
Kwakunombono ongemuhle othandwayo wokuthi kungenzeka ukuthola uthando ngomzimba wakho ngenxa yokuthuthuka kwawo okungenamkhawulo. Kepha ukubukeka, njengokubonisa okuphilayo kwangempela, akusoze kwabonakala ngokuqina, ngakho-ke kungcono ukufaka esikhundleni "ukuhlanyahla kwezihlanya ukuphelela" ukuvumelanisa isimo sengqondo ngokwakho.
Indlela yokuphila ekhangisa ngayo kuthelevishini ivame kakhulu ngalokho okubhekwa njengokuthandeka futhi kwenzeka esikhaleni sethu nawe. Ngendlela, ngeke kube yinhle kakhulu ukubona okuholela ... Yimaphi amantombazane aholayo (igama elithi "laddies" alifani nalo!) Eziteshini eziphambili! Imvamisa lokhu kuyizinhlamvu ze-caricature, ngesihluku, i-groteque, ezinezimo zobuso ezingezinhle nemikhuba emibi. Kubukeka sengathi bamenyelwa ku-TV eMakethe Yokukhipha. Futhi yilezi - izikhombisi ezibukhoma zesitayela esijabulisayo nendlela efanele?
Abantu abasezithombeni ku-Instagram bayasikhohlisa ukuze sizame ukuba yithopi efanayo futhi sincane. Kepha khumbula, uma empilweni yangempela uzohlangana nomuntu oneminyaka engama-50 ngaphandle kokuvumelanisa okuphelele kobuso, kuzobonakala kungeyona eyemvelo futhi kuyesabeka (ubuso bokulingana ngokuphelele buba ngosuku lokuqala ngemuva kokufa).
Ngokuvamile, impela lokho esikubheka njengokushiyeka kwethu, abanye batholwa njengomsuka, inhlanganisela eyingqayizivele yezici ezithile zokubukeka komuntu. Khumbula abadlali abadumile abanezici ezingezona ezijwayelekile zobuso - umhlaba wonke ubabheka kahle. Bakwazile ukwamukela bona kanye nemizimba yabo futhi bafunda ukuthi bangazishaya kanjani ngokuzikhandla izici zabo.
Ukuzivocavoca ngokwalokho ukwaneliseka:1. Ukuza esibukweni njalo ekuseni futhi, ngibheke emehlweni ami, uthi: "Ngiyakuthanda. Ayini amehlo akho abonisa ukuzwisiseka, ukuwa okumnene (njll.)! " Gxila ngqo lokho okuhle okuhle, okubonakalayo okuthandayo. Noma ungaphakathi kwakho uzozwa ukumelana, qhubeka. Awusetshenziselwa ukuzidumisa, ekuqaleni kunzima impela.
2. Thatha izincomo. Kwabantu abangaqiniseki ukuthi kunzima impela. Ikakhulu lapho uncoma okucabanga ngayo ukubuyela kwakho. Ngakho-ke ngifuna ukwenqaba ithoni yengane ecasukile, noma iphule ku-interlocutor ganglant. Kodwa-ke, udinga ukufunda ukujabulisa ukubonga. Kwenze Ngokunembeza, vele usho ngokumamatheka: "Ngiyabonga!" Futhi-ke bayobe beba ngokwengeziwe, futhi kancane kancane wena uqobo bakholwe kuzo.
3. Qala ukubhala idayari. Imikhuba ebhaliwe isebenza kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho udinga ukuthola indlela eya kuwe. Maka izinguquko ezihambisana nokwamukelwa ngokwazo kanye nokumelana ekuqaleni.
4. Prakthiza iziqinisekiso ezidinga ukuphindwa kaninginingi, futhi kungcono ukurekhoda, ukusho ngokuzwakalayo noma thina. Ungaqala ngebinzana: "Ngiyathanda futhi ngiyazamukela." Ngosuku ongabiza ngalo eziqinisekiswa ezi-12 ezihlukile.
5. Zudumise wonke amagumbi amancane asendleleni yokuzithatha.
6. Bhala uhlu lwemisebenzi yakho oyithandayo - kusuka kokulula okulula kuya kobunzima. Vumela ukwenziwa kabili ngesonto.
7. Uma kunenkinga ngesisindo noma isikhumba, thintana nochwepheshe, thola izincomo bese ubalandela ngenjabulo. Zenzele wena - impilo yakho, inhlala-kahle yangaphakathi futhi yandise ukuheha abesifazane.
8. Ngokushesha nje lapho kuvela izinguquko ezinhle zokuqala, zinikeze isithombe seseshini enhle yemvelo, ngemuva kokukhangiswa kwedolobha, lapho umphefumulo wakho uchitheke futhi ukhululeke khona. Gcina lezi zithombe futhi uzibuke, ikakhulukazi uma ufuna ukubuyela ekuzigxekeni okujwayelekile.
9. Yenqaba umkhuba omubi wokuziqhathanisa nabantu ongabazi, osebenza nabo noma osaziwayo. Kuyingozi futhi akunangqondo, njengoba umuntu ngamunye nendlela yakhe bahlukile, futhi ukuqhathanisa okunjalo kubhubhise ubuntu.
10. Gxila ebuntwini bakho, hlaziya amathuba atholakala kuwe, kepha awuzuzanga muntu (ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene). Yenza uhlelo lweminyaka emihlanu ezayo.
Gubha impilo! Jabula futhi ukumamatheka, ungazenzisi futhi kube lula ukuphakamisa! Ukuhamba, iya ukuvakashela, ukukhombisa wonke ama-World World yakho, uthando lwempilo, ukuzethemba ku-charm yakho.
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