Izingxabano phakathi kwabazali nentsha ziya ngokuya ziqukethe phakathi kwezimangalo ezivela ezinganeni ezinokwethulwa okungenangqondo ngabazali bazo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi ...
Siyisizukulwane esiyingqayizivele sabazali. Sisaphatha impilo yomphakathi yezingane zabo, kepha namuhla sinamathuba anjalo kunangaphambili, futhi esikhundleni se- "Hollywood ingane", esifunda ngayo ukwethuka kakhulu, namuhla ingane ingakude nomsebenzi osebenzayo.
Izingxabano phakathi kwabazali nentsha ziya ngokuya ziqukethe phakathi kwezimangalo ezivela ezinganeni ezisekela amaqhinga ngabazali bazo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Emazweni aseYurophu nase-United States, izingane ezikhulile zihanjiswe ngisho nasenkantolo.
Akunakwenzeka ukuthi ngamunye womama nobaba nobaba, bathumele amashumi amaningi noma amakhulu ezithombe ze-Chad kwi-Intanethi, zisongela ngendaba. Kepha kubukeka sengathi amanethiwekhi omphakathi asibeka ngaphambi kwezinkinga ezintsha maqondana nokugcinwa kwe-Tacty, ukulondolozwa kobumfihlo nobudlelwano obuhle nengane.
Abazali abaningi benza ukukhetha ekuqondisweni kokwenqaba ukushicilela izithombe zezingane zabo (nemibhalo ngabo), ngaphandle kokuba khona kwabo ezithombeni zomndeni ezivamile. Kepha ukuba khona kwezinkundla zokuxhumana sekuyingxenye yempilo yansuku zonke kanye nabantu abadala, kanye nezingane amadodakazi namadodana aswele zibuze lo mbuzo: Ukube bengibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kungani wacabanga ngempilo yakho kube ngathi Hhayi?
Ngaphezu kwalokho, vala izingane ngokuphelele ezinhlangothini zokuxhumana nabantu - ukuze kubo umbuzo wokuthi bamelwe kanjani kumabhulogi okubhulogi awavukanga nhlobo. Izingane zibuke ama-akhawunti abanye abantu futhi zithole ezazo ezikoleni ezandiswa, zokuhamba nokuhamba, zisebenzisa amagajethi ezinye izingane. Kwesinye isikhathi bathatha ngasese izingcingo zabazali babo, bakhuphukela kwi-Intanethi kumakhompyutha wabazali. Ngokuvamile, amathuba okuthi ingane ngeke ayibone izithombe zayo ekuhambeni kukamama noma ubaba, akwanele.
Ngemuva kokukhuluma nendodakazi yakhe, i-Story Poult, amantombazane ajwayelekile, ngazibona ngokwami imithetho eminingana engazithathwa, ibeka izithombe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
1. Uma ingane isivele yazi ngamanethiwekhi omphakathi, cela uhlu lwayo lokungamukeleki ezithombeni zomphakathi.
Isibonelo, enye yezinyathelo zami ziveze ukuthi isithombe sakhe asikwazanga ukushicilelwa uma izingubo zabo zisesimweni esithile. Uma ngikholwa ukuthi amabala ama-watercolor noma umkhondo wokuwa kwesithombe sakhe awasihlathi, kufanele nginikele ngesithombe sengxoxo. Futhi-ke, isithombe esinezingubo eziboshelwe ngokungafanele, eziphukile, ezikhishwe ngaphandle akufanele ziphelezelwe "ukubuza" ukuphawula okuqinisa umphumela owonakalisayo. (Ezabazelweni zakhe, ngingasho ukuthi angizange ngithumele izithombe zendodakazi yokutholwa, kepha kuhle ukuthi sikusho). Ezinye izingane azithandi lapho zibonisa isithombe lapho zikhala khona noma lapho i-limb igcwele ukunyakaza kwayo. Ngokuvamile, uhlu luzoba nezabo.
Khumbula njalo ukuthi ingane ibheka ukuphendula kontanga.
Lokhu kungenxa yakho kanye ne-mug yakho yabazali. Isithombe esihle sezingane esisesithombeni esivela kwifilimu "umfazi omuhle" ngezingcaphuno ezihambisanayo - i-nostalgia ehlanganiswe ne-movie yakudala. Ukuze ingane eya nayo ontanga kanye nezithombe zithunyelwa kwi-heroine-prosts, leli hlaya lingaphenduka inhlekelele. Ngesizathu esifanayo, izingane ezikhulayo azizithandi izithombe lapho ziyizingane ezinamabhola zibonisa ibele lowesifazane noma ukukhulelwa kwezinye izingane zihambisana nengxoxo evamile yothando (umsulwa ihlaya ), nokunye okunjalo. Ukuze uthole noma iyiphi inkomba yempilo yezocansi noma yothando yabantu abadala ezithombeni zezingane, izingane zingathola ukuhleka usulu kakhulu kusuka kuma-comrades abo. Okufanayo kusebenza ezithombeni ezihlekisayo ezinencithakalo yezingane zama-vetors kadoti noma izithombe ngesikhathi semihlangano emabhodweni nasezitsheni zasendlini yangasese.
3. Kuyafaneleka ukuzixazulula ukuthi uzothumela kangaki izithombe zezingane, futhi ngani.
Mhlawumbe kanye ngesonto - ngokwanele ukuze ingane ingaziboni "ukungabikho", "kungabalulekile", "akubalulekile" empilweni yomzali, hhayi kaningi ukuthi lokhu kuphazanyiswa ubumfihlo bengane. Gxila ekutheni babhale kangaki, futhi lapho ingane ikhula - futhi ngombono wakhe.
4. Ungathathi ku-akhawunti yayo, uvaliwe noma uvule, isithombe ngaphandle kwesidingo.
Umgomo webhulogi lengane nezilaleli zakhe zingahluka kwezenu. Lapho intombazane noma umfana ebeka umzuzu oqinile wezomzwelo e-akhawunti, ogogo nomkhulu ababefunda, ababali kanye nabazala, akusho ukuthi bakulungele ukubona inqwaba noma amakhulu abantu, futhi ngaphandle kwesixwayiso. Lesi sithombe singasondelana kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo, noma ngokungephumeleli ngobuhle (futhi ngakho-ke okukhona ngezinkumbulo, hhayi ukuthi kungozini). Ekugcineni, izingane lapho zithatha izithombe ezenziwe ngazo ngaphandle kokufuna, zikubone njengezinhlungu njengokungathi zithatha izinto zazo.
5. Susa isicelo sokuqala!
Noma ingane isivumile ukushicilela isithombe, kepha yashintsha umqondo - asikho isidingo sokumenza akhathazeke futhi achithe ubuhlobo bakho. Susa - kusho ukususa. Kusuka endaweni yomphakathi, okungenani.
6. Izimpumelelo zezemidlalo kanye nezikhathi zokuhamba ezihamba ngezinyawo ezinjengawo wonke umuntu.
Akukhathalekile ukuthi ingane yenza kuphi ukugxuma okumangazayo, enkundleni noma ebaleni lokudlala. Uma ebukeka cishe njenge-movie, cishe azikho izingane ezizomelana nencwadi yakhe. Okufanayo ngokugibela ikamela noma ukwazana no-Ostrich. Kepha imithetho 1 no-5 ayikhanseli.
7. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi uma ingane ibingafuni ukuthwebula izithombe, angifuni.
Kwesinye isikhathi umbuzo wokufaka isithombe kunethiwekhi yezenhlalo uyanyamalala ngokwayo esigabeni sokuholwa enganeni yengane. Uyadonsa, afune ukungadubuli? Yehlisa ilensi. Ingane mayibone ubuso bakho esikhundleni salokho.