Eminyakeni eminingana eyedlule, umama oyedwa ovela eRussia uChristina Ghagakina waphumula eBatumi, lapho ahlangana khona nosomabhizinisi waseGeorgian Galipa Ozyyurk. Ngokushesha bashada futhi banquma ukuqala izingane, kodwa hhayi ngendlela ejwayelekile, kodwa ngosizo lokuba ngumama ovumayo. Ezinyangeni eziyi-10, intombazane eneminyaka engu-23 ubudala yaba ngumama wezingane eziyi-10, futhi lo mbhangqwana awuhleleli ukuyeka kuyo.
UChristina wazala indodakazi yakhe yokuqala, eneminyaka eyi-17, kepha ubuhlobo noYise wengane akazange aphume. Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, eholidini, wahlangana nomgede oneminyaka engama-52. Naphezu komehluko omkhulu eminyakeni yobudala, bathandana, ubudlelwano baqala, kubhala uRebenok.by.
Ngokusho kwentombazane, ekuqaleni babefuna ukuba nengane ngendlela ejwayelekile: "Konke kwakufanele kube njengabantu: Ukuhlela, ukukhulelwa, ukubeletha. Kepha i-galip yabamba umqondo wokuthi ube nezingane eziningi ngokushesha, "kusho uChristina ebhagi lakhe. Wanikela ngonkosikazi wakhe osemusha ukuba asebenzise izinsizakalo zomama abavumayo. Ngemuva kwentombazane ende engahleliwe yavuma.
Ngonyaka owedlule, abafana abangama-5 namantombazane angu-5 bavele kulowo mbhangqwana, kunamawele phakathi kwawo. Ingane yokuqala egama lingu-Mustafa yazalwa ngoMashi 2020, kanye nentombazane yokugcina u-Olivia - ngoJanuwari 2021.
Ukwakha umkhaya omkhulu kangaka ngesikhathi esifushane, abashadikazi bakhokha imali enkulu: "Ngokwesilinganiso, umama wase-gerogate eGeorgia uthola ama-Euro ayizinkulungwane eziyisishiyagalombili. Ngaphezu kwaleli nani, lo mbhangqwana ukhokha zonke izindleko zokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha. Izindleko zenqubo yokuba ngumama osusayo kusukela ekuqaleni ukuqeda, kufaka phakathi zonke izinqubo ezidingekayo, i-ultrasound, ukukhuthaza kanye nokukhokhwa komama we-surrogate kusukela kumadola angama-28 kuye kwangama-39, "kusho uChristina.
"Umama wakho ubeletha, eze enganeni"
Ukuze uChristina athathe amaqanda ama-manyolo amaningi umanyolo ngasikhathi sinye, wayephindwe kane ukugqugquzela i-ovulation. Ngokusho kukaMama, ukulungiselela le nqubo kwakungelula: "Bekumele ngidlule nocwaningo oluningi futhi ngihlaziya, ukubekezelela imijovo eminingi esiswini. Esigabeni samalungiselelo we-eco emzimbeni, kungeniswa inani elikhulu lama-hormone emzimbeni, yingakho nganginokwehluleka kwama-hormonal okuthinta isimo. Cabanga: I-PMS Syndrome, engayi ndawo, futhi ihlala njalo - bese ikhala, khona-ke ufuna ukuphila umhlaba wonke ngothando lwakho, bese ukhumbula phansi, "isikhathi sikaChristina siyakhumbula.
Ngemuva kwalokho, ukulungiselela ukuba ngumama kukaChristina kwaphela. Wayengalinda ucingo oluvela esibhedlela. Ngokushesha nje lapho kwaziwa ukuthi umama we-surrogate uyazala, uChristina waqoqa izikhwama futhi washayela esibhedlela eyolanda ingane elandelayo.
Owesifazane waseRussia uthi ekuqaleni wayengeyena lula ukuthi abhekane nenani elikhulu lezingane, okungenani analo sonke isimo seNanny nezinceku: "Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bekunzima: ubusuku obuningi bokungalali, i-colic , Olala, okunye ukukhala, khona-ke - kunalokho. Ngaphelelwa izandla, yize ngiba nalabo abasizi. "
NgokukaChristina, zonke izingane ziphila ngokuhambisana nombuso oqinile, futhi i-nanny ihola idayari ekhethekile lapho bebhala khona yonke imininingwane ehlobene nezingane: ini nokuthi ngilala kanjani, njengoba ngangilala kanjani Izikhathi eziningi baya endlini yangasese. Ngenxa yale dayari, umama uhlala azi ukuthi izingane zakhe zikhula kanjani.
Lapho i-blogger ebuzwa ukuthi unesikhathi sokunaka zonke izingane, uChristina uyaphendula: "Njengabo bonke omama. Ngezingane eziningi kunzima kakhulu ukulenza, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi akunakwenzeka. " Ekuqinisekisweni kwamazwi akhe, umama omkhulu uvame ukuthumela izithombe zebhulogi nezingane futhi utshele ukuthi ubanakekela kanjani.
Ababhalisile babuze uChristine ngokusabela kwendodakazi endala ngokubonakala kwezingane eziningana endlini, lapho umfazi waseRussia waphendula khona: "Njengoba uVika manje esengumqondo othile, wasazisa Pheka zonke izinhlobo zobumnandi zosuku lokuzalwa wonke umuntu, wakhetha nami izingubo nezinsimbi ezahlukahlukene zodade nabafowethu. "
Kuliqiniso yini ukuthi lo mbhangqwana ufuna izingane eziyi-105?
Imidiya eminingi yabhala ukuthi uChristina nomyeni wakhe bafuna izingane eziyi-105 ngokuzayo. Umama uyaphika kubhulogi lakhe. Lapho eqala ukuhlanganyela ku-Instagram, wayenezingane ezi-5. Inombolo 105 yayinamakhambilo aphelele futhi yanamathela ukunaka kwento ekhanda lephrofayili. "Lokhu akusho ukuthi sihlela ukuba nezingane eziyi-105," ababhalisile bakaMama abangu-11 baqinisekiswa.
Kepha akusazukuhlala embhangqwana otholakala. UChristina akavezi ukuthi ngokuzayo yena uqobo ubelethe ingane, yize le nketho ayibheki inketho enjalo. Futhi, i-blogger yaphendula labo abakhathazeka ngenhlala-kahle yomndeni. UChristina wathi bona nomyeni wakhe bacabanga lo mbuzo, futhi banesitoko semali iminyaka eminingi phambili.