Emhlabeni, lapho kunababili kuphela, kuleso sikhala esincane, lapho bephefumula khona kalula, baphila ngenjabulo nangokuthokozela, lapho konke kufakwe khona ngokhiye oyingqayizivele kanye nothando lwegolide - kunezinkinobho zegolide - zinothando namagama amnene.
Ukukhetha amagama wena kanye nabathandekayo babo, siyatshala imali kubo, ngisho nalapho silula, lonke uthando lwethu nokuzinikela kwethu futhi ngaleyo ndlela sinikeza isimo sethu sengqondo sokungazi ngathi.
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bathi amagama asemnene ayakwazi ukudala isikhala esihlangene esibizwa ngokuthi "thina" futhi abusheleleze lokhu kuguquguquka okuhlanganisa kusuka ku- "You Yebo".
O, ukube bengawazi amandla angempela amazwi anothando! Mhlawumbe, sizobasebenzisa kaningi. Kungani unganikeli futhi umuzwa wokuphepha nothando olungenamibandela kothile ofanele?
Amagama athambile, aphinyiselwa ngabesilisa, ahluke emazwini akhethwe ngabesifazane kubantu. Ngabe abesifazane bakhuluma kaningi? Kungenzeka ngaphezu kuka-yebo. Abesifazane kulula ukuthatha igama elilodwa kuphela ohlwini olukhulu futhi baqondiswa yibo, bahlobane nendoda noma, kunalokho, bahlakaze, kuya ngesimo.
Kunamagama anqatshelwe okungafanele atshele owesilisa uma ungafuni ukulahlekelwa yiwo.
- Isibonelo, akufanele ubone ukuzwela kwalo futhi uhluka.
- Ukubukeka kwamazwana kufanele kuqaphele kakhulu. Yize ukukhula nesisindo kungashiwo (okuphezulu, okuhlaba umxhwele, ireferensi).
Kuzotholwa ngokungafanele futhi kuthambekele ekuthobeni, kwashanela ngezintambo ezihlukile. Esebenzisa "Uthando lwami, injabulo yami, impilo yami, injabulo yami," kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi izinkulumo ezinzile azibangeli imizwa emihle evela kobulili obuhlukile.
Kukhona nezincazelo ezibizwa nge- "Slang". Nabo udinga ukucoceka ikakhulukazi, azimukelwa njalo, kepha kwesinye isikhathi zithatha umthetho (steep, ezipholile, ezinengqondo, ezinengqondo, eziwubucayi, zipholile, zibuthakathaka).
Yini okusangidinga ukukhuluma ngayo?
Ama-never yilawo mantombazane akholelwa ukuthi ubumnene maqondana nephansi eliqinile alifanele. Kukhulunywe ngamagama, kuzoba khethekile. Indoda kufanele yezwe ukuthi ungumuntu omuhle futhi ofanele yena. Amagama awawulaleli nje, alungiswa ngokuzithandela futhi akhiwa kabusha.
Ungakhuluma ngokuphepha ngohlobo lwabakhethiwe kanye nokuziphatha kwakho, okugcizelele ubukhona bokuziphatha, ukuba khona kokunambitheka kanye nendlela efanelekile yokuphila (okunesibindi, ngokuzithandela, ukungabhemi, ukungabhemi).
Ngaphezu kwalokho bazibonakalisa ama-epithets aneminyaka yobudala (eqinile, ngeminyaka).
Kuzoba mnandi ukuzwa ukuncoma kwamehlo endoda (ngesibindi, inqabane, kufakwe, okumnandi, okujulile, okuhle, okukhazimulayo, okubabazekayo) nokubukeka (okunesibindi, okuhlala khona, okumangalisa, ukucindezela).
Esinambeni sisonke, kungashiwo ukuthi kuyinto ebuningi, yezemidlalo, enhle, enhle, engenaphutha. Futhi ngawodwana ngawodwana abonisa ukuma (oziqhenyayo, ngokubabazekayo), i-gait (ethembekile, eqinile), intamo (eqinile, ububanzi), emuva (okunamandla, ububanzi), i-Chest (eqinile, imisipha, engenakugwenywa, i-Sports , i-elastic, eqinisiwe), izandla neminwe (igolide, eqinile, emnene), imilenze (enembile, ende, ethambile), okhalweni (kudwetshwe).
Umuntu ufanele ukunakwa ngokukhethekile. Kuyintandokazi, enesibindi, enhle, enomusa futhi engalibaleki nge-orllini, iphrofayili yaseRoma. Ungasho ngesikhumba ukuthi ihlanzekile, ibushelelezi futhi ivinjelwe. Uyakupheka, kunjalo, eHollywood, akhumbuleke, anenhliziyo enobuhle, emangalisa futhi emangalisa.
UVelvet, ungene, wasebenzisa, izwi elifudumele, elihlukile futhi eliphumuzayo, lihambisana nemicabango yakho. Nezindebe! Yini abayibekile futhi beyenca! Uthanda ukubuyisa ihlanzekile, bushelelezi, izinwele ezibushelelezi futhi ujabulele iphunga elimnandi, elimnandi, elijabulisayo nelibonakalayo.
Angifuni ukukhuluma ngezibalo zokuphindwaphindwa. Ayikho imithetho ecacile kanye nakubo bonke. Into esemqoka ukunikela uthando ngala magama.
Owesifazane ngamunye wakha umuntu wakuso - okokuqala emcabangweni wakhe nasenhliziyweni yakhe, khona-ke empilweni, empeleni.
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