Wonke umuntu wathola umuzwa wokunganeliseki ngempilo yakhe, isikhundla sakhe kuwo naso uqobo. Ngamunye okungenani wake waxazulula: "Konke, kusukela ngoMsombuluko udinga ukuqala impilo entsha!" Kepha uMsombuluko usufikile, futhi akukho mpilo entsha ...
Uma ngabe usenqume ukuthi i- "Life Syndrome Elinde" akufanele isalokhu iqhubeke njalo - ngokungafanele, uma unqume ngempela ukuba ngumkhulu, ujabule futhi ushintshe impilo yakho, ukugcwalise, imihlangano kanye nokuthakazelisa Abantu lapha ngamathiphu alula asuselwa kulwazi lwakho.
1. Ungacabangi ngokubi, kuhle kuphela
Mayelana nokucabanga okuhle akwangazi ngesikhathi sethu i-lazy kuphela, kodwa kuyasebenza ngempela! Futhi akunandaba, uyakholelwa kukho noma cha - amandla okucabanga okunjalo okungenani anikeza ithemba, futhi ithemba linikeza amandla okuqhubekela phambili. Ngaphandle kokholo, mabangaphumelele, kepha okungenani kungenzeka kwempumelelo - akufanele ngisho nokuqala. Uphinde uqiniseke ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukushintsha noma yini futhi udinga ukwaneliswa yilokho; Ngaphezu kwethemba lempilo yakho, ushiya iwindi elivulekile ngesimangaliso, okuzokwenzeka kuwe, bese kuba ukukhanya kwethemba elibuthakathaka kuzophula ilangabi elikhanyayo - ukholo emandleni abo nakulwazi lokuthi konke kuzophumelela ngokuqinisekile! Okwamanje: "Sidinga nje ukuthi sifunde ukulinda, kufanele ube nokwehla futhi unenkani ..."2. Susa umqondo wokuthi "ubuvila" kanye "nokwesaba" kusukela empilweni yakho
I-Lazy - ngoba akunakwenzeka ukuguqula impilo yakho ibe ngcono emcabangweni wokucabanga, kusobala! Izinguquko ziyizenzo, mazingahlali zilungile ngaso sonke isikhathi, hhayi ziphumelele njalo - akukho lutho, i-basketball ibhola kwesinye isikhathi lilwela ubhasikidi we-arc ngaphambi kokuwela kuwo. Kepha indlela eya empumelelweni, noma yini oyicabangayo, ihlala ilele ezinyathelweni zangempela nezenzo. Futhi okuwukuphela kwendlela yokuthola ukwanela kwezenzo ukubonwa ngokweqiniso ngokwakhe ukuthi ngenze konke okwangixhomeke kimi.
Ukwesaba. "Indlela ende iqala ngesinyathelo esisodwa esincane," kepha lesi yisinyathelo sokuqala futhi siyasaba ukukwenza. Sesaba ushintsho oluningi azofaka, ngoba ngamunye wethu waba nesipiliyoni esingaphumeleli; Sesaba ukulahlekelwa yimuphi "umsebenzi ongabekezeleleki, ngaphandle ifolda ye-mammy-folder" ...
Yebo, ukuphonsa! Ngabe lokhu kuhlanya kukwenza ujabule ?! Uyakwenza? Ngempela? Pho kungani uyifunda ?! Ngemuva kwalokho, ukuthi yonke into ezungeze grey iye yaba yisidina futhi inengqondo, futhi iyishintshe oh indlela ofuna ngayo! Kepha ukwethuka, ngoba anazi ukuthi yini ezophuma kukho konke lokhu, futhi kungazelelwe kube kubi kakhulu ... futhi eqinisweni lokuthi kunzima, kuyabulawa, kodwa futhi nakukubulawa kwakhe! Ngakho-ke buthule emcabangweni nasekungabazeni futhi kukhuphuke kuze kube ukuguga, i-buoy efanayo, njengokuphila okuphilayo - ngokwesabekayo ...
3. "Uma kungenjalo mina, ngubani ?!"
Leli gama elifushane liyisimemezelo sesikweletu sezimpilo zawo nekusasa laso, ngoba akekho ngaphandle kwethu ngaphandle kwethu. Zonke izimo, abantu, izenzakalo ezenzeka kithi zingasicindezela kuphela ukuba samukele izinqumo ezithile, kepha sihlala sinethuba lokukhetha! Futhi kwesinye isikhathi izimo zibekwe phakathi emnyama nomhlophe, kepha kukhona inqwaba yeminye imibala nezithunzi!Ukukhetha phakathi komnyama nomhlophe ukukhetha komuntu ongeyena ngaphandle, kuvezwa kusuka ngaphandle, lokhu kungukukhetha kwenkunzi, okuholele ekuhlatshweni futhi wacela ukukhetha ukuthi yikuphi ukufa okufanele afe. Umuntu wamahhala ngokwakhe unquma ukuthi yimiphi imibala yokupenda izimpilo zabo, futhi phakathi kwabamnyama nabamhlophe bakhetha onsomi emugqeni obomvu. Kepha kulokhu udinga isibindi ...
Nsuku zonke, mhlawumbe nalo lonke ihora kufanele senze ukukhetha, futhi ngoba noma yiziphi izimo ezithambekele kuzo zonke izinyathelo ezithile, kuzo zonke izinqumo zethu, futhi ngokwenzeka empilweni yethu zikhona KAKHULU KAKHULU! Mhlawumbe kuzwakala kuyesabeka, kepha uma ucabanga ngakho, kanye nomthwalo wemfanelo wawo wonke umuntu, ngisho nesinyathelo esincane kunazo zonke, kuzo zonke izinqumo, futhi unikeza inkululeko enkulu! Lowo, mhlawumbe inkululeko yokususa kithi ayinakwenzeka - ukukhetha!
Futhi uma ungenzi lokhu kukhetha, khona-ke kwenzelwe wena! Futhi emva kwakho konke, noma ngabe ukukhethwa kwenzelwe wena, nalokhu okukhethile kwakho - ukunikeza umuntu ilungelo lokuxazulula isiphetho sakho. Kepha ke ubalani? Yini oyehlukile kuleyo nkunzi, edonsele intambo ekuhlatshweni komalume, azivumele ukwenza izinqumo?
Uma ngolunye usuku uzongena kulo mcabango, akekho omunye umuntu oyoke akwazi ukuphoqa intando yakho, futhi enkundleni elalelayo uzophenduka kuMdali wempilo yakho!
4. Uma umsebenzi ulethwa - kumele uqedwe!
Ibambezelekile uma umsebenzi uholela ekwakhiweni kwesisekelo, ozowusebenzisa kaningi, futhi kancane kancane uzithole usegodini elifanayo azama ngalo ukuphuma. Ukunyakaza emgomweni, noma ngabe kuyini, yizinyathelo ezikhonkolo endaweni ekhethiwe. Ngaphandle kokuzenza, awusoze wafinyelela umgomo.
Eqinisweni, akunzima ukwedlula, ngokwesibonelo, ukuzifundisa ukugeza amabhuzu ekhaya lesifunda - indaba nje ewumkhuba. Amaviki ambalwa okuqala kufanele alawulwe, akhumbuze ngawo ngakho, bese wenza "emshinini." Kepha imiphumela inganikela emangalisa! Izibalo ezilula: Uma nsuku zonke zenza impilo yakho ibe ngcono ngo-1%, bese kuthi ngemuva kwezinsuku eziyi-100 ...
5. Cha "futhi uma ..." futhi "kuthiwani uma ..."
Kusukela ekuchithekeni kokuqala ebuntwaneni, sinesifiso sokucabanga ngemiphumela yezenzo zabo, futhi yilokhu kanye, okuvame ukungavumeli ukuqhubekela phambili! Kwethula izithombe zemiphumela engaba khona, ngesigamu amacala sicabanga umphumela omubi, kepha lokhu kungenye yezinketho ezingenzeka!
Kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungaba kanjani ngaphandle kwe-smart, okungukuthi, unganaki noma yikuphi ukuphikisana kwengqondo, ngoba "yilabo kuphela abathatha imizamo engenangqondo ezokwazi ukufeza okungenakwenzeka"! Lokhu akusho ukuthi uma usuvele unombono wokuvula ibhizinisi lakho, udinga ukuyeka umsebenzi wami, uthumele umphathi kude futhi ugijime ukubhalisa i-IP. Kepha lapho isinqumo samukelwa futhi uhlelo lwesenzo lucacile, akunakwenzeka ukulalela ingqondo - wenza umsebenzi wakhe. Manje uzophazamisa kuphela. Ngeke adonse izithombe zokuhluleka kwazo zonke izinhlobo zemiphumela emibi, ngakho-ke Bheka isigaba 1.
Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, zibe nesibindi sokulalela inhliziyo yakho, ngoba ekugcineni konke okungahambisani nathi empilweni, siyashintsha ukuze sizizwe sijabule. Futhi isimo senjabulo akusona isizathu sesizathu ...
"Kuthule kube lula kakhulu. Jabule - Kunzima futhi Kupholile! " - UTom York, umculi we-English Rock, i-Vocalist kanye neGuitarist yeRadiohead Group.
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