Iholide yisikhathi futhi siphinde sibukeke ...
February cishe intwasahlobo. Futhi akukho ukuwa kweqhwa okuzokwazi ukukunqanda kulokhu. Ilanga livela ngokwengeziwe, ngifuna ukukholelwa kokuhle. Ngisho ngoFebhuwari 14. Noma ngabe kuyiholide langaphandle (futhi ngomuntu akulona iholide nhlobo). Noma sithanda nsuku zonke, futhi ngaphezulu kanye ngonyaka.
Ngifuna nje injabulo nephaphu. Kanye nenqubo encane. Ukuya emndenini kanye nenjabulo. Ukwenza okuthandayo ukukwenza ukumangala. Futhi uyamangaza, futhi okungcono kakhulu. Ukuze izingane zidonse izinhliziyo nemimoya ephansi. Ukuze kungabikho muntu omemeza futhi wakhala.
Ngokujulile kakhulu, ngoba konke lokhu akudingi ngempela usuku olukhethekile noma iholide elikhethekile. Impilo ejwayelekile ejabulisayo, efanelwe yilowo nalowo kithi, kubukeka ngathi.
Kepha iholide liyisizathu sokuphinda futhi sibheke nxazonke, cabanga ngokuthi iqiniso lethu lihambisana namaphupho noma udinga ukwenza okuthile ngokuphuthumayo. Mhlawumbe sekuyisikhathi sokukhuluma nomlingani ngezinkinga, imizwa yokuvuselela, iya kudokotela wezengqondo. Noma mhlawumbe ngokuphuthumayo kwakha ubudlelwano nezingane, buyela ukuzethemba okulahlekile kanye nokuqonda. Noma vele uthole isikhathi sokukhipha, wenza inkomishi yetiye elithandekayo futhi ucabange.
Futhi thina, njengenjwayelo, sikulungiselele izingqikithi zokuzindla. Kanye neseluleko esiwusizo kochwepheshe nabazali abanolwazi.
Zisize
Kwenzeka ukuthi kuleli sonto sixoxe ngalokhu ... Ukudla. Uma ungeyena i-monk hhayi ascetic, khona-ke ukudla kudinga isikhala esiningi empilweni yakho. Futhi uma ungumzali futhi, khona-ke ukudla kuthatha isikhala esiningi empilweni yakho: indlela yokuphamba, kunokudla ukuthi ungabuyisela kanjani nokunye.
Kepha ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngezingane nokudla, ake sixoxe ngabazali nokudla. Njengakwezinye izimo, izinkinga ezimbalwa nezingane zethu ngokwazo. Uma sihlushwa ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha kokudla, kunzima kakhulu ukukhulisa isimo sengqondo esinempilo embuzweni. Ngakho-ke, njengasendizeni, okokuqala faka imaskhi kuwe. Isazi sezengqondo u-Adriana Litolika sitshelile ukuqonda ukuthi unenkinga yokudla nokuthi ungayiqala kanjani ukunquma.
Futhi ukuze sidambise ukungezwani (ngemuva kwakho konke, lesi sihloko sivame ukuhambisana nemizwa engemnandi - ihlazo, newayini, ukuthuka), funda umbhalo othokozayo weLyudmila Yagubyanz Polina nokudla - nge-Philosopical isimo sengqondo ngokudla kwengane.
Siza Izingane
Singazisiza kanjani izingane zakho? Okokuqala, ngoba lokhu nathi sidinga ukuba ngabantu abadala. Okwesibili, bekungeke kulimaze ukubanikeza ilungelo lokuba izingane - ukwenza amaphutha, funda amaphutha, ukwazi umhlaba bese uzama okusha. Ungazifihleli empilweni yangempela, hhayi ukuvala in the castle, hhayi abilele iqiniso elizungezile. Umbhalo wokuthi ukhulisa kanjani isizukulwane se-idiots - u-hypource uthinta kanjani isizukulwane esincane. Futhi kungagwenywa kanjani.
Kusuka kwabafuyikazi (okuvame ukuhambisana kakhulu nonina) baya esihlokweni esishelelayo - indima kababa empilweni yengane. I-adrian ye-adrian yabhala lo mbhalo lapho ichaza khona ukuthi kungani ingane idinga ubaba, uyini umehluko phakathi kwendlela yabesilisa neyabesifazane yokukhulisa izingane. Yini enganikeza ingane indoda (futhi ayikwazi - umfazi). Lo mbhalo wabangela ingxoxo enesivunguvungu, kwavuka imibuzo "okungukuthi umbono wesilisa wezwe futhi uyini umehluko wakhe kowesifazane." Njengokujwayelekile, angifaka isicelo sobunikazi beqiniso, kuphela esikuphakamisa ukuthi ubonise nathi.
Okulandelayo ukusiza izingane ukuba zize othisha. Uthisha wezibalo uKira Berlinova ubhale ngendlela yokuqonda ukuthi ingane yakhungatheka ngokulungiselela izivivinyo. Ungayihlela kanjani izifundo zabo ukugwema ukuphelelwa ngamandla futhi ugcine ugqozi: Ukudlula izivivinyo futhi uhlale uyaphila.
Kanjani futhi kungani hungelela ugogo
Sasinesifiso esikhulu sokuxhumana nawe kuleli sonto, shintshana ngemibono futhi siphikisana. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuphela kwemibono efanele uma kukhulunywa ngemizwa namanani kungumqondo ongatholakali. Ukulalela abanye nokubona okusha, uthola ithuba lokuya phambili, ushintshe. Futhi ukunyakaza kuyimpilo.
Futhi impilo uthando. Ukunakekela abathandekayo. Isibonelo, mayelana nogogo nomkhulu abavame ukungabi nokuvalwa kokuqala. Ungakusinga kanjani ugogo futhi kungani kubhale ku-Adrian Limo. Lo akuwona umbuzo ohlekisayo, kaningi ekufezekiseni sikhohlwa ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu.
Sifisela wena usuku oluhle, ukushisa okugcwele nokunakekelwa. Ukugobela kaningi, gubha usuku lwabathandi noma vele uthande omunye nomunye. Zinakekele wena nezingane.
Njalo ngokwakho
"Izingane Zethu"