Ikhathuni Lombala Ocatshangelwe
UPrincess ulinde uMsindisi wakhe, omunye wabazali afe, isenzo, isenzo, isenzo. Isethulo esinjalo sasiphathelene nekhathuni evela eStudio Disney, yize iminyaka eminingana babhubhisa lezi zinto ezibonakalayo.
"URaya nodrako wokugcina" kungenye isiqinisekiso. Sibheke ikhathuni entsha futhi sitshele ukuthi i-stroke yendaba ebukeka kahle ivumela kanjani abadali ukuthi benze isihloko sabazali bakaphakathi enkampanini, nokuthi isimo sengqondo sabazali esihle kakhulu futhi esibi kakhulu siboniswa kukho. Isixwayiso, abaphangi!
Njengoba kufanele: inhlonipho nokwenqatshwa kwama-stereotypesNgakho-ke, izwe lapho isenzo sekhathuni senzeka khona, njengoba besho emibhalweni enjalo, bangene ebumnyameni. Iningi labantu liphenduke isifanekiso (ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nje sizotshela ukuthi kungani kungukuhlaselwa okuhle kwezimo), nentombazane enesibindi esencane i-raya elwa nezingozi zokubuyisa konke njengoba yayinjalo.
Lokhu "kwathi" kuqala "elinye lamaphephandaba aphambili - ubudlelwano bukaRayia noyise, umholi weBhenja. Umama kaRaiya ashonile ngqo, asazi, kepha siyabona ukuthi uYise aphakamisela kanjani le ndodakazi: Ufundisa ubuciko bempi, uthi abuthukuthele, akathukuthele lapho inkosazana encane ifinyelela phansi enqabeni. Ngokuningiliziwe ichaza okushiwo yizenzo zakhe lapho kunezizwe ezine ezinobutha ezandleni zabo, futhi akusho ukuthi: "Khula futhi uthole."
Futhi ngisho nalapho indodakazi ihola izitha kwabangcwele abangcwele - etsheni likadrako, eliholela enhlekeleleni yesilinganiso sendawo yonke, uBaba akahlambalazi uRasy, kodwa wazihlaza ngensindiso yakhe.
Ubudlelwano obunjalo abucini amakhathuni e-Disney. Ungakhumbula ubaba uMulan owayefuna 'ukuletha indodakazi yakhe', okungukuthi, ashade ngempumelelo nje. Noma ubaba merida, owenza eceleni kukamama, ukube nje wasala yedwa futhi wanika ukuthembela emphefumulweni wokulwa ekhazimulayo.
Esikhathini se-benji kukhona ukuqiniswa kwesayensi.
Isibonelo, ngocwaningo, ukubandakanyeka kukaBaba emfundweni yendodakazi kunethonya elihle ekuzethembeni kwalo nokwaneliseka ngempilo ebudaleni.
Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ithonya elinjalo liyinto enjalo: obaba abakhuliswe ngamadodakazi kancane kancane benqaba ama-strereotypes wobulili. Kwakuyinkumbulo yesikhathi noYise ukuthi uyasiza izithende kwesinye sezici eziyinhloko lapho edinga ukuvula isango futhi alwe nebutho lesitha kuphela.
Ukuthi akudingekile kanjani: hypemper nokudlulisela ukudluliselwaURai noyise banabaphikisi ababili abavela eMbusweni ongomakhelwane waFang: Princess Namaari nonina we-Virana. Indlovukazi kusukela ebuntwaneni yafundisa indodakazi: Akunakwenzeka ukuba nethemba kwabanye, udinga nje ukucabanga ngenhlala-kahle yabantu bakho. Ukukopela, ulaka kanye nobuntu be-egoism kwakhuthazwa, ngoba konke lokhu kungenxa yemfanelo evamile (kahle, yebo, kahle, yebo). Kubukeka sengathi indodakazi yaze yafunda la maqiniso. I-Virana ilawula zonke izinyathelo zendodakazi yakhe, ngokwemvelo, yenza sengathi iyadingeka ekuchumeni koMbuso.
Kepha kunephuzu elithandekayo lapha - ukholo lwezingane ngesimangaliso esigcinwe eNamari, kithi, kuma-Dragons. Ngesikhathi sempi esangweni lombuso oshiywe noRay, uNamari uhlangana noDrako ubuso nobuso futhi aqala ukuqonda ukuthi umjikelezo womhlaba "ungumphumela wesifiso sikamama ukuba ugcine amandla. Ngaphambi kokuvukela ekucindezelweni kwengcindezelo yabazali kusekude, kepha mhlawumbe lokhu kungenzeka ukuthi lonke ikhathuni.
Yibuphi ubudlelwano obubi obuvela eqophelweni lokubukwa kwesayensi?
Abazali abanamandla bafuna ukulawula izingane futhi badlulisele izifiso zabo ezingafinyeleleki kuzo, ngenkathi benganaki izifiso zengane uqobo.
Lokhu kuholela ekuwohlokeni kokucabanga okubucayi ezinganeni, i-alamu nokucindezelwa.
Akusizi ngaze ngengozi ocwaningweni olwenze iminyaka engama-70, enye yezinto eziphambili zempumelelo yengane kososayensi besikhathi esizayo ababizwa ngokuthi abantwana abalalela izingane zabo.
Isivivinyo: Beka isikhathi sokuphumula sabazaliNgaphezu kwemigqa yesakhiwo esiyinhloko ekhathuni kusenezikhombo eziningi zomzali. Kungenzeka ukufeza lokhu kubonga ubuhlakani besimo. Buza noma imuphi umntwana omncane: Uphupha ini? Khula, ube mkhulu ukuthi abazali bangaphazamisi. Abadali bekhathuni entsha Beka ucwaningo: Kuzokwenzekani ezinganeni uma abazali zinyamalale kungazelelwe? Hhayi kuze kube phakade.
Othile, njengebhasi elincane, uhlela indawo yokudlela esezingeni lokuqala esikebheni sesibongo futhi uzosiza abalingiswa abaphambili ukuthi babhekane nezivivinyo. Futhi othile, njengentombazane yentombazane, uzohambisana nendlela eshelelayo futhi waligcwalisa iqembu lezigebengu zabaphangi kanye nezinkawu ezingajwayelekile. Vele, bese uqhubekela ohlangothini olukhanyayo.
Ungahumusha lo mlayezo ukuze - uma unikeza izingane inkululeko encane, khona-ke akukho lutho olubi olubi. Vele, akudingekile ukuba baphenduke amatshe amatshe. Ungavele ubavumele bazikhethile, ukuthi yini okufanele bayigqoke ngokuhamba noma bakwazi ukucabanga, abalahlekile "ukuthuthuka".
Isayensi nalapha ohlangothini lwekhathuni.
Ucwaningo lukhombisa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwamakhono okuzimela kunikeza ingane umuzwa wokusebenza kwayo okusebenzayo ("Ngiyakwazi ukukwenza ngokwami"), kwandisa ukuzithemba, kusiza ukufunda kangcono.
Ibhonasi: Ubudlelwano babazalwane nodadeNemininingwane yokugcina eyayibonakala iyithakazelisa kithi - ubudlelwano be-Dragons. Naphezu kwenhlonipho yabantu engafinyeleleki kanye nesimo sonkulunkulu, kwavela ukuthi amadragoni afana nawo wonke abantu. Othile waphumelela umlingo okwengeziwe, futhi othile, njengomunye wabalingiswa abaphambili bakwaSisu, uhlala ewela ezimweni ezingezinhle futhi akanandaba nokulwela izihloko eziphazamisekile esikhundleni sokunikeza abantu imvula nakho konke.
Noma kunjalo, abafowethu nodadewethu ababuyi futhi bangaxabani noSisu, futhi esikhundleni salokho nguyena owathembela ekuqedeni ukwakhiwa kwetshe likadrako futhi asindise umhlaba ezilo zaseMondov. Kuliqiniso, Ungayidlulisela kanjani ifilosofi enjalo yokuxoxa kwabafowethu nodadewethu abancane empilweni yangempela, asikasunguli.
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