Manje i-tase isivele ineminyaka emithathu ubudala. Wayesevele ekwazile ukwenza izinyathelo ezimbalwa zokuqala, engaphelele impela, kepha ziqinile kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukuthi intombazane iyisebenzise yedwa. Abadala beTasi baqashelwa yi-Adult and Valaful Blazget. Intombazane yazalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi ngesisindo cishe ngamagremu ayi-600. Izinyanga ezimbili nengxenye ngemuva kokuzalwa, wayengeke aziphefumule ngokuzimela. Ukondliwa kwenziwa ngokungenampilo. UTasya wayephakathi kokuphila nokufa cishe izinyanga eziyisithupha zokuphila kwakhe. Odokotela bebengehli izandla zabo futhi balwa nazo ngaso sonke isikhathi, babuyisela le ntombazane ukuba baphile izikhathi ezingaphezu kuka-70.
Umama wentombazane wanquma ukuhlanganyela indaba yakhe enzima.
Umthombo wesithombe - Ikhasi lomama ku-Instagram.
"Angisoli ukuthi ngingaqina kakhulu"
Abalingani ngabonye bayeka ukukholelwa ukuthi futhi kungaba ngabazali. Indodana yazo endala isivele ineminyaka eyi-15. Ngesinye isikhathi, baqala ukwenza ngezifiso ukuba babe ugogo nomkhulu. Azikho izinkinga empilweni yansuku zonke, umsebenzi wawungaphazamiseki.
Vele, abashadikazi bahlela okunye ukukhulelwa. Ukulungiselela kwakuhambisana nokuhambela odokotela nokuhlolwa. Ochwepheshe abafanelekile bakhuthazwa ngokuthi bekungenazinkinga zombili zazingenazinkinga. Kepha lona wesifazane ukhulelwe isikhathi eside.
Owesifazane wayefuna ngempela enye ingane. Ngesinye isikhathi, waqala ukucabanga ukuthi wamukele ingane. Indoda ibingazi ngakho, akazange awusekele umbono onjalo. Ukuxilonga kwezingane ezisezinhlanganweni zokutholwa kwezethusi zowesifazane, njengoba ebengenaso isiqiniseko sokuthi uzobhekana naleso sibopho. Akazange asole ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi uqine kakhulu.
Ngasikhathi esithile, owesifazane wayehlukumeza izifo ezivamile, ukozela nokunganakwa ngokuphelele kumakilasi awathandayo. Wazizwa ukukhathala okuqinile, kwavela isifiso sokulala embhedeni usuku lonke.
Ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa kwanqunywa ukuqinisekisa noma ekugcineni ukuphikisa inguqulo enjalo. Inani elikhulu lokuxilonga okuhlukile ngokuzenzekelayo ekhanda lowesifazane.
Njengoba kwenzeka kamuva, bekuyinto ekhulelwe ngokunembile, lapho bona ngalesinakali balinde isikhathi eside. Umyeni wazama ukwenza konke ukuzungeza umkakhe umkakhe okhulelwe.Imiphumela yokuhlaziywa kokuqala ikhombisile ukuthi i-hemoglobin ephansi yiyona kuphela inkinga. Owesifazane wacasulwa iphunga, wacishe wayeka ukupheka. Indoda ingapheka inyama kuphela lapho engekho ekhaya.
I-trimester yesibili yokukhulelwa iqale lula kakhulu. Owesifazane wakhathaza kancane kancane wanda ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi.
Bheka futhi: Umlando kaMama, okuyiminyaka emithathu engalalanga ngokujwayelekile akekho nobusuku
"Odokotela Eduze Kwami Bekungaze Babekwe Esigcemeni"
Ubulili bengane bahlala bengaziwa kuze kube umzuzu wokuzalwa. Ku-ultrasound ukubona phansi kwengane akuzange kusebenze. Ukuzikhethela kwegama kubangele izingxabano eziningi ezivela kubalingani, kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile bakwazile ukuza kwikhambi elilodwa. Babona ukuthi bazobiza intombazane yaseTaisia.
Cishe ngenyanga yesihlanu yokukhulelwa, owesifazane wagxumela ushukela egazini. Odokotela bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi kubangelwa ukukhuluphala ngokweqile. I-Olulist yathola ukuthi astigmatism futhi inconsele ukuchitha isikhathi esincane kukhompyutha. Ukukhulelwa kuqale ukudlula kube lula kakhulu. Kubukeka sengathi kungenzeka ukuthi, kepha umyeni wayenenkinga yegazi elinempilo.
Ngesonto elilandelayo, owesifazane washayela umyeni wakhe ku-Therapist, wabe eseya kudokotela wezimboni zenhliziyo, wabe esehlola. Odokotela bazinza isimo sakhe futhi bathatha izidakamizwa zokusebenzisa impilo yonke.
Ngemuva kokuphasisa okuhlaziya okulandelayo, lona wesifazane watholakala ephethe amaprotheni emchameni nasendaweni ephansi. Wathunyelwa esikhungweni sePerinatal, lapho ayesaba khona ukuze athole.
Owesifazane wayenethemba lokuthi kuza kuphela ekuhlolweni, kepha ingcindezi yavuka. Waphoqelelwa ukuba aqambe amanga ngocwaningo. Kwenziwe izinhlolovo eziningi ezahlukahlukene, konke ukuhlaziya okungenzeka kudlulile. Odokotela babuthana esigcemeni sowesifazane, bexoxa ngokuxilongwa kwakhe. Kwabonakala kuye ukuthi uzizwa emuhle, kodwa embundwini kwakukhona ukwenqaba izitho kanye nokuvuvukala kwengqondo.
Odokotela banqume ukwelula ukukhulelwa njengoba kwenzeka. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, lona wesifazane wayeka ukuzwa ingane yakhe. Kwakudingeka enze ngokusebenza ngokusebenza isikhathi esingamaviki angama-29 nezinsuku ezi-2, ngoba ingane ibifa.
Intombazane yazalwa isisindo samagremu angama-600.Bheka futhi: Indaba yokuthi amawele ahlukaniswe kanjani
"Khuluma indodakazi yami ukuthi iqinile, futhi izophumelela"
Ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, lona wesifazane wafakwa esigcemeni esihlukile. Kwakunzima ukuzwa ukukhala kwezingane emakamelweni angomakhelwane. Wakwazi ukubona indodakazi yakhe kuphela ngosuku lwesithathu. Ukuvuselelwa kabusha kwezinyanga ezinhlanu kwangena esikhundleni sendlu encane. Ubesesimweni esibucayi kakhulu, odokotela abakwazanga ukunika iziqinisekiso.
Ukuzwa imigomo eminingi yezokwelapha nokuxilonga, lona wesifazane wawela esibukekeni. Wabona ukuthi isimo sasinzima kakhulu. Ngenhlanhla, owesifazane wavunyelwa ukuba abone ingane. Le ntombazane yabonakala incane kakhulu, futhi izibambo nangemilenze yakhe zazisobala. Empeleni yonke imikhumbi yayibonakala, isikhumba sasingumthunzi obomvu. Wamboza iwebhu kusuka ezihlahleni.
I-Neonatologist, izama ukuxhasa umama ohlupheka ngazo zonke izindlela, yayazisa ukuthi ikhulume intombazane ukuthi yini eqinile, leyo ngane izobhekana nakho konke, njengoba izingane zizwa isimo sikanina. Lawa magama abe yi-mantra ngowesifazane.UTasya ubesendaweni ephakeme ye-ZVL 77 izinsuku ezingama-77, khona-ke e-IVL ejwayelekile. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezinhlanu, le ntombazane yakwazi ukuphefumula yedwa. Yena nokuxilongwa okuthile kwemizwa akuzange kudlulile. Ngosuku lwesithupha, hemorrhage ebuchosheni bama-2 degrees. Imbangela ye-cerebral palsy, ngokusho kodokotela, kwakuyinto emhlophe efana nesihlungo.
NgoMashi, lona wesifazane wayesevele ededelwa. Kwakufanele ashiye esakhiweni ngokukhululwa, lapho omama abajabule begcwala izingane ezingalweni zakhe. Ngaleso sikhashana wanquma yena, esizolwela ekugcineni ukuze sidlule ngokubhala kanye ne-tasse.
Ngaleso sikhathi, lona wesifazane wayenobisi oluningi, kepha bekungakafuneki entombazaneni, ngakho-ke wathola i-freezer ekhethekile yobisi ngemali yakhe. Ukulondolozwa kobisi kwendodakazi yakhe kwamnika ithemba lokuba khona.
Ukuvuselelwa kwamehlo asanda kuzalwa kukamama
Odokotela bazamile ukunakekela umuntu wesifazane. Kamuva, wafunda ukuthi babuya nendodakazi yakhe empilweni cishe amahlandla angama-70. Ekuhlolweni kwentombazane eyakwazi ukuthola ukuthola kude.
Ukuvuselela kabusha kukhungathekile imisindo ye-IVL. Indodakazi yakhe yabopha izintambo eziningi. Umbono onjalo uvele phambi kowesifazane nsuku zonke izinyanga ezinhlanu. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, wakwazi ukujwayela ukulungiswa okugqamile futhi wafunda ukulawula imizwa egingqa isikhathi.
Inyanga ngemuva kokuzalwa, uTaisia wathola i-thrombus emthanjeni wePetrose wesibindi. Isimo sakhe saqala ukonakala ngokushesha okukhulu. Odokotela babedidekile, ngoba abathembeli ngisho na. Intombazane ayikwazanga ukwenza umsebenzi. Naphezu kokwelashwa okumisiwe, intuthuko esesimweni seTasi ayibonwa. Ukufa kwasondela futhi. Ngaleso sikhathi, umama omubi wayengaba nokuphelelwa yithemba kuphela.
Kamuva wavuma ukuthi, ebheka indodakazi yakhe, wathandaza kuNkulunkulu ukuthi amnikeze amandla okululama noma amnikele ekuhluphekeni kwaphakade.
Bheka ukuhlukunyezwa kukaTaisi kwakungabekezeleleki. Udokotela wancoma ingane enganeni. Owesifazane wamelela inqubo yobhapathizo ethempelini, kodwa kwadingeka ukuthi athumele intombazane ekuvuselelekeni.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isimo sentombazane saqala ukuthuthuka kancane kancane. URouthses waxazulula, imisebenzi yezinso nesibindi kwabuyiselwa. Ezinyangeni ezimbili ngemuva kokuzalwa kukamama, kwakudingeka ukuba zize entombazaneni kathathu ngosuku, ngoba ama-tases afunwa ngokoqobo ngo-1 ml wobisi. Kepha ngisho nakuye, umama wayeselungele ukushesha esibhedlela.
"Ukulwa nokufa kwengane kwanqotshwa, kwakukhona kuphela impi yekhwalithi yempilo yentombazane"
Ezinyangeni zayo ezingama-4,5, uTaisiya wasindwa yikhilogremu kuphela. Ngalesi sikhathi, umama waqala wamthatha ezandleni zakhe. Cishe ngaso leso sikhathi, ubaba wabona indodakazi yakhe okokuqala, kodwa wayengeke ayibambe ezandleni zakhe. Ngaleso sikhashana, abazali babona ukuthi izimpilo zendodakazi yabo ngeke zisazongela lutho. Bahlala kuphela umzabalazo wekhwalithi yempilo yengane.
Emavikini amabili eMnyangweni We-Pathology of Intsha kanye Fekela Ngokushesha. UTasya wafunda ngokuzimela lapho evela ebhodleleni, i-catheter yasuswa. Yalwa okokuqala futhi yabeka izingubo ezithengwa ngumama. Umlutha we-oksijini usagcinwa.
Kumenyelwe ukukhombisa, udokotela wathi akakwazanga ukuthatha intombazane ehhovisi lakhe, ngoba kwakungekho madivayisi adingekayo, futhi wabuza ukuthi kungani ukonga izingane ezinjalo zizonke. Lo mbuzo ulimele ngokumangalisayo umama onothando. Wabona kungazelelwe ukuthi ngaphandle kwesikhungo se-perinatal kufanele kube udokotela ovuselela kabusha ingane yakhe, ngoba akukho ndawo yokulinda usizo.
Ngaphambi kokubuyela ekhaya, konke okudingekayo ukuze kuthathwe impilo yaseTaiiy.
Owesifazane uzwakalise ukubonga okukhulu kubo bonke odokotela kanye nabahlengikazi besikhungo se-perinatal. Bakwazile ukusindisa ingane yakhe.UTaisiya uchithe ezindongeni ze-perinatal Center izinsuku ezingama-169. Le ngane bekufanele ibekwe kwesinye sezibhedlela zezingane, kodwa kwakungekho mishini edingekayo yokugcina impilo yakhe. Vele, intombazane yayifuna ukuyisa esibhedlela, kepha udokotela ophambili wesikhungo sePerinatal wakwazi ukukhombisa inhloko yokuvuselelwa kabusha. Wonke umuntu wayeqonda ukuthi ukuhumusha kungenzeka kuholele ekufeni kwentombazane.
Ngemuva kokuphuma, umsebenzi oyinhloko wawususelwa ekuthethelweni komoya-mpilo. Intombazane ikwazile ukubhekana nalokhu cishe izinyanga eziyi-2,5. Abasekeli bezingane abavela emtholampilo wezingane bebengeke baxhase ukwesekwa. Izidakamizwa ezidingekayo nezibizayo ukuthi ungawathola kanjani umtholampilo.
"Kwakukulungele ukuvuselelwa kwempilo"
Owesifazane kwakufanele ahlale yedwa nabo bonke ubunzima bendlu. Kwakufanele abe ngudokotela wezingane, futhi udokotela ovuselelayo, udokotela wezokwelapha, kanye nochwepheshe we-FFC, kanye nodokotela wezempesheni, kanye nodokotela wezokwelapha.
Ngemuva kokuqeda ukuxhomekeka komoya-mpilo, kwavela umbuzo wokuvuselelwa kwalokho. Isisindo samantombazane ngenyanga engu-8 sasingamagremu angama-4300 kuphela. Ekuthuthukisweni, wayefana nengane yanyanga zonke. Akakwazanga ukubamba noma yini esandleni sakhe futhi wagcina ikhanda lakhe kabi kakhulu.
Ekuqaleni, intombazane yadlula i-electrophoresis ne-massage counce. Esikhathini esizayo, kwenziwa inhlolovo, okuqinisekise ukuthi ayinayo imiphimbo kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwamakilasi. I-MRI ikuqinisekisile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Ezinyangeni eziyi-9, le ntombazane yaphathwa kahle ukubamba ikhanda futhi ithembele ezindongeni. Kwakufanele enze nsuku zonke ekhaya. Lapho-ke umama waqala ukufuna ezinye izindlela zokuvuselelwa. Kepha, ngeshwa, azange anikeze imiphumela. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa kamuva, kwatholakala ukuthi amatafula atholakala ene-cerebral palsy. Ngonyaka, le ntombazane isahlulekile ukujika, ukuhlala nokuma yize inamaqabunga, iqabunga nokubhukuda.
Owesifazane waqhubeka efuna izikhungo ezazosiza amadodakazi akhe ekuvuseleleni okunye. Njengezinketho, Chelyabinsk, eMoscow noPeter babhekwa. Naphezu kwezindleko eziphakeme zezinsizakalo, umama weshwa akakwazanga ukuzama.
Wayeqonda ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele, ngemuva kwenkambo yesibili esikhungweni sokuvuselela edolobheni labo, ekhulume nabanye besifazane.
Ukuvuselelwa kokuqala eMoscow inyanga inyanga kwaletha imiphumela ebalulekile: I-SPIN yaqiniswa, uTasya waqala ukubuthana kubo bonke abane. Kepha ukuthola imiphumela, udinga ukubuyela enkabeni ngaphezulu. Owesifazane kwakufanele aqoqe imali enkulu ngalokhu.Ngemuva kokuthi isihloko esinyatheliswe ephephandabeni, abaningi baye bafunda ngenkinga yabo. Ngokushesha saphendula ngokushesha, safuna ukusiza ngokwezezimali. Kamuva, kwasindisa enye yezisekelo zosizo.
Ukuvuselela kabusha kwabiza kakhulu abazali bakaTasi.
Unyaka wokuvuselelwa kwentombazane, amanani aphelelwa yilona kusuka kuma-ruble angama-0,9 kuye kwayi-1,1. Ngaphandle kosizo lwabanye, amanani afanayo abonakala engenzeka.
Impumelelo evela entombazaneni ayibonakaliswa masinyane, kepha iyazethemba impela. Kwaphela izinyanga ezinhlanu wafunda ukuyokhasa kanjani. Izisusa ezahlukahlukene zazisetshenziselwa ukuhlanganisa intombazane ekuhambeni okuzimele.
"Ngenxa yomsebenzi wansuku zonke, kwathi isimangaliso senzekile - uTasya wahamba"
Le ntombazane yakwazi ukukhasa yona lapho ineminyaka eyi-1 nezinyanga eziyi-11 ubudala. Isinyathelo sokuqala sabazali bentombazane salinda ngokuphelelwa isineke. Baqhubeka nokuqeqeshwa njalo futhi bekholelwa ukuthi intombazane yonke izosebenza.
Lapho nje intombazane isenza isinyathelo sokuqala. Nsuku zonke baba ngokwengeziwe. Abazali abakwazanga ukukholwa kwamehlo abo. Isimangaliso, esasinethemba ngakho, ekugcineni kwenzeka. Manje uTasya uqobo ugijimela emnyango lapho uyise ebuya emsebenzini.
Vele, kusamele wenze umzamo omkhulu wokuthuthuka okwengeziwe kweTaimia. Kokubili endizeni ebonakalayo kanye nokwelashwa kwenkulumo, nakwezengqondo. Ukubonisa intuthuko kunika amandla amaningi kubazali nentombazane.
Manje uTasya ugijimela endlini ngokuhleka okunenjabulo. Umama wamisa ukuthula kwezifo zendodakazi futhi ngiyaxolisa, wayengesabi ukuhlanganyela indaba yakhe ku-Instagram. Uyaziqhenya ngendodakazi yakhe. Wajwayelana nabanye omama ngezinkinga ezifanayo. Manje babelana ngeseluleko esisebenzayo nolunye ulwazi.
"Sinezinkundla ezijwayelekile zezinkundla kanye nezinhlelo zesikole"
Umsebenzi oyinhloko we-mama ukuguqulwa kwe-tasi ekuthuthukiseni okuqhubekayo empilweni yomphakathi. Yize kunjalo, le ntombazane isazothola ukubizwa kwayo. Owesifazane ukholelwa ukuthi uma indodakazi yakhe isivele idlulile zonke izivivinyo zayiphatha, khona-ke ilindele impilo ekhanyayo nejabulisayo.
Ekuqaleni, abazali baphupha ukuthi intombazane yabo yasinda, yabe isikulungele ukugcina impilo. Kamuva nje kwakunethemba lokuthi kuzokwazi ukuzwa ngosizo losizo lokuzwa akwazi ukulawula izandla. Manje sebenezinkundla ezijwayelekile zezinkundla kanye nezinhlelo zesikole zesibili. Abazali banethemba lokuthi uTaisiya uzovuselela ngokuphelele futhi ahambe nabo endleleni ezungeze izwe.