Ochwepheshe babambe izivivinyo ezimbili
Ochwepheshe abavela e-University of Pennsylvania babamba isifundo esisha, esasibonisa ukuthi izingane zinenkani futhi ziphikelela uma abazali bengenelela kancane kwinqubo yokuxazulula izinkinga. Imiphumela yocwaningo yanyatheliswa kumagazini wokuthuthukisa izingane.
Abazali bahlala bafuna ukusiza izingane zabo - ziphakamisa, zifundise, zinikeze imiyalo indlela yokwenza kangcono. Kepha kwesinye isikhathi ukuphazanyiswa okunjalo kubangela ukuba izingane zinikele ukuze zixazulule imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi ngokushesha, izifundi zitholakele.
Ochwepheshe baqhuba izivivinyo ezimbili. Kwenye yazo, iminyaka emine nezinhlelo zeminyaka emihlanu zahlukaniswa zaba ngamaqembu futhi zabakhombisa ukuthi bangayixazulula kanjani iphazili yephazili. Ngemuva kwalokho izingane zacelwa ukuba zixazulule umsebenzi ngokwazo. Kwelinye iqembu, abantu abadala basiza izingane ukuba ziqoqe amaphazili ngezandla zazo, kanti kwelinye - amagama achazele izingane, azenze kangcono kanjani.
Lapho usuqedile ukuhlolwa, zonke izingane zanikezwa ibhokisi elinephazili, elalivalwe nge-glue. Kwakungenakwenzeka ukuyivula. Izingane zabantu abadala zasizwa nge-puzzle, zikhombise ukubekezela okuncane nokuphikelela kunezikole zasenkulisa zivela kwelinye iqembu.
Esivivinyweni sesibili, izingane zonyaka ofanayo zathunyelwa eqenjini lapho abantu abadala bathatha isinqumo sephazili. Kwelinye iqembu, abantu abadala kanye nezingane baxazulula umsebenzi. Abalobi besifundo babona ukuthi izingane ezisheshayo zilahlekelwa kanjani ukuthakazela kulo msebenzi ngemuva kokuba abantu abadala bathathe isinyathelo kuqala ezandleni zabo.
Sithole ukuthi lezo zingane ezingabazali zabo zivame ukungenelela kwinqubo yesixazululo se-puzzle zazingenankani. Ucwaningo lwesibili lubonise ukuthi uma umuntu omdala eba nomsebenzi oyinkimbinkimbi, umntwana olandelayo unikelwe ngokushesha - uma kuqhathaniswa nezingane ezenze abantu abadala baxazulule iphazili ngokwabo.
Utshele uhlelo lwabazali uDkt Pety Sciences Julia Leonard.
Ososayensi bafinyelela esiphethweni sokuthi uma abantu abadala bengaphazamisi inqubo yokufunda, izingane zithuthukisa ukukhuthazela.
Ngeziphetho zochwepheshe bePennsylvanian, udokotela wezengqondo wavuma kanye nomsunguli wohlelo oluhlosiwe lwe-Robin Klovits:
Izingane zinesifiso sokuzalwa ukuze ziphumelele kwimisebenzi futhi zibhekane nendlela yonke into ehlelwe ngayo. Kepha banesifiso sokuzalwa sokujabulisa abazali babo.
Ngakho-ke, lapho umzali ephazamisa, ingane ithola isibonakaliso sokuthi umphumela ubaluleke kakhulu kunenqubo - okubaluleke kakhulu ukuqedela umsebenzi, futhi ungafundi okuthile kwinqubo.
"Lapho izingane ziqonda ukuthi umphumela wokugcina ubaluleke kakhulu kunenqubo, khona-ke zinezisusa ezimbalwa zokuzama okuthile zodwa," kungeza izihlakala.
URobin Klovitz weluleka abazali ukuba bazitholele yena, okubaluleke kakhulu okwamanje - umphumela omuhle noma inqubo yokufunda, futhi uma uthambekele kakhulu ekukhetheni okuphezulu, kuyasiza ukunikeza ingane yakho inkululeko yokufunda nokuxazulula imisebenzi ngokwakho. Uma ungakwazi ukuphazamisa inqubo, bese udumisa futhi usekele ingane - lokhu futhi kuyindlela yokubamba iqhaza ezindabeni zakhe.
Futhi, isazi sezengqondo esitshelwa ngolunye uhlobo - ngaphambi kokuthile ukutshela ingane, ukubala kuye ku-10 futhi zizibuze ukuthi angakwazi yini ukubhekana ngedwa uma umnika isikhathi esithe xaxa? Uma uqiniseka ukuthi indodakazi yakho noma indodana yakho akuyona eyamabutho, ngangiphazamisa ngesibindi. Zonke izingane zidinga ukwesekwa.
