Izinsuku zokugcina azizethembi njengenhlamba ezungeze ingxoxo yaseFrank, eyayiyi-Megan Marda nePrince Harry Dali Winfrey. Ngabuka inguqulo ephelele yenhlolokhono, futhi mina, njengoba besho, sasiqhuma ibhomu.
Ngiyavuma, eminyakeni embalwa edlule ngiyazwelana nalombhangqwana nalombhangqwana. Ngangihlala ngithanda uHarry ngaphezu kweWilliam - Wayemncane kakhulu kunobuhlungu, bangokoqobo kakhulu ... Futhi-ke ngithole noMlobokazi "wabantu", kanye nangesikhathi esedlule. Inganekwane Kimi, umfazi oneminyaka engu-35 ohlukanisile, bekumnandi ukubona ukuthi ngisho nomqhele waseBrithani uya phambili, akucabangi ngama-stereotypes, kumi "uthando", hhayi yimithetho.
Kodwa-ke, imithetho ebukhosi kulo mndeni inani elikhulu. Futhi akuyona yonke le mithetho ephendula amaqiniso anamuhla. Ake sibuke iqiniso! Lo ngumndeni wasebukhosini waseBrithani. Queeens real, amakhosi, isikhulu, inkosazana. Igceke langempela. Umqhele wangempela. Ngomlando omkhulu wekhulu. Emakhulukhulu eminyaka!
Vele, kunenombolo enkulu yemithetho, imikhawulo, yonke le nhlonipho, i-protocol. Futhi yebo, kangako hhayi emphakathini kuphela, kodwa futhi ngemuva kweminyango evaliwe.
Eminyakeni yokuqala izingxoxo ngasikwa. UMegan uthi akazange aqine imininingwane mayelana nenkosi yomndeni, eyayizojoyina, ayibuzanga amasiko, imithetho. Ukuthi wayekwazi ngeNdlovukazi nezinqaba kuphela okwaboniswa ezinganekwaneni.
Sina?
Ngokubona kwami, intombazane noma ubuqili, noma uyisiphukuphuku.
Uya kwelinye izwe, uzoba ngumfazi womfazi. Uzoba yingxenye yomndeni ongathandeki kakhulu. Umndeni onjalo mhlawumbe ungumhlaba wonke. Kepha awunandaba okungenani emaphethelweni wezinqubo.
Ngokweqiniso, ngijwayele ukuqonda ukuthi kungenzeka kanjani. Lapha uMegan uhlangana noHarry, inoveli esontekile, kudinga ithuba elibucayi, wenza umnikelo. Kulungile, intombazane uqobo ngokwayo e-hormonal euphoria ayizange icabange, kepha akekho owambuza: futhi usukulungele nakancane? Ngabe uyakuqonda okulindelwe wena? Ngabe uyaqonda ukuthi kuzofanele uphile kanjani? Othile ovela kubangani abaningi, avame ukumdukisela kuye, noma umama, futhi, futhi, ngokusho komsebenzi, kusondele.
Umndeni wasebukhosini futhi ngakho wahamba uHarry ukuhlangana, asivumele ukuba sithathe umfutho waseMelika ohlukanisile kunkosikazi wakhe. Ngokwe-protocol, akuvunyelwe. Kepha konke ngothando! Isibonelo, umzala kaHarry esimweni esifanayo kwadingeka akhethe ngokushesha - isihloko noma uthando. Ukhethe uthando lwe-American Actress Wallis Simpson futhi kubukeka sengathi wayejabule kakhulu.
UMegan uthi azondaba aphelile. Yebo, empeleni, njengomlingisi, kufanele aqonde ukuthi ezinye izindaba zikwenza. Noma yiliphi iqiniso elithosiwe lithathwe ku-hook kanye nokuxubha. Futhi - Imithetho yomdlalo. Kungani ungahlali uKate? Futhi yini okufanele uyiqede? UKate - intombazane ekhuthele yaseBrithani emndenini ohloniphekile, engabonwa emahlangeni, noma ubudlelwano, nganoma iyiphi indlela. Idumela lakhe likristalu. UMegan ungesikhathi esedlule, futhi uma umndeni wasebukhosini uvale amehlo akhe kuye, evumela uHarry ukuba ashade, khona-ke kwakhiwa amaphephandaba ngokwemvelo. Ngalolo suku, lapho umshini wokushicilela uzoyeka ukuvula amahlazo, leli bhizinisi lizoma.
UMegan ucasule iqiniso lokuthi indodana yabo i-Archie ayinikezanga isihloko. Yebo, kwase kunezincwadi eziningi ngalesi sihloko - isihloko se-Archi simane sibekiwe. Akuveli kumalungu amaningi omndeni wasebukhosini (bonke abazukulu, ngaphandle kwalabo abavela eSwerlend kaWilliam).
Kubukeka kimi ukuthi iningi lezinkinga lishintshiwe - ekungazini, ekungazini. Akakwazi ukunikeza izingxoxo? Yebo, amalungu omndeni wasebukhosini awanikezi ingxoxo. Kufanele igqoke ngendlela ethile - futhi, yebo! Lesi yisivumelwano. Akukwazi ukuhamba ngokukhululekile edolobheni - vele! Leyo mithetho.
Noma yimuphi ummeli uzothi: Udinga ukufunda ngaphambi kokusayina!
Ngiphinde ngabangela nesitatimende esimatasatasa esincane ukuthi lo mbhangqwana ushade nombhishobhi ezinsukwini ezintathu ngaphambi komkhosi osemthethweni. Kepha akunakwenzeka ngemithetho yesonto. Akunakwenzeka uma kwenzeka ukuba uxhamazele ku-Wensly esontweni lase-Anglican. Ingabe inhloko yeSonto LaseNgilandi, umbhishobhi omkhulu waseCanterbury, akazi lokhu noma ngamabomu ukuya efulegi?
Kepha konke lokhu okungenhla ngamane ngamahloni, kwadangela imibuzo, kodwa ngithukuthelisa kakhulu futhi ngangenelwa ukwethuka kokuzikhukhumeza kwalo mbhangqwana ngami. Ukuqhathaniswa kukaMegan noPrincess Diana. Kulungile umlingisi we-Oplan, kepha uHarry wawuguqula kanjani ulimi kule nhlangothi?
Isitshalo saseMegan siye esimweni kanye nesilinganiso sobuntu be-lady di - kuze kube seKiev uyazi. Yebo, kanye nesimo bayehluka ngokuphelele. UDiana washada noCharles, ukuba nedumela elicacile le-Crystal, futhi u-100% weza kuye ngesimo. Lapha kungcono ukuqhathanisa neKate. Kwaholela ekucindezelekeni okujulile kwe-banal ngesizungu, kunyathelwa ngokuziphatha kwengulube yengulube ngokuphelele yeCharles njengomyeni, hhayi njengesikhulu. Crank encwadini ka-M M ushintshe indlovukazi engaba khona yesikhathi esizayo phambi kwawo wonke umuntu! Yebo, nobani! Ngenkosikazi yangaphambili! Cabanga uDiana wahlazeka. Kepha wenzani? Waya engxoxweni ne-Opra?
Hhayi. Inkosazana yangena emsebenzini. Umyeni wakhe akazange athande, kodwa wenza kanjalo wamthanda umhlaba wonke.
Futhi uyazi ukuthi kungani uDiana ethandwa kakhulu? Hhayi ukumamatheka okukhazimulayo nomdanso nge-travoline, hhayi ngamehlo e-cornflower kanye nezwi elinothando ngendlela emangalisayo ... waba yindlovukazi yezinhliziyo ngezenzo zakhe. Bangaki abantu abasize bangaki izingane ezisindise ukuthi bangaki abanikeza ithemba nosizo lwangempela! Igalelo layo ekuphathweni komusa alikwazi ukweqiwa.
UDiana wathola uthando lwabantu ngomsebenzi wabo. Futhi, ngendlela, angikaze ngithi izwi lijika emqheleni, yize ayenelungelo.
NoMegan? Angikwenzi lutho ngempela ngempela, ngathola umshado wamaphupho wezigidi ezingama-32, inqaba, isihloko, okuqukethwe, kepha uMbuso ... Kepha ayikho indawo yokubhonga. Bengifuna ukuya ekhefini nabangane futhi bengingafuni ukwenza i-kniksen. Okokugcina usuvele uyazi.
Futhi ngithanda ngisho nokusho amagama ambalwa ngokwahlukana ngoHarry. Waphinda kaningi lapho waphunyuka ogibeni, khona lapho umfowabo nobaba bekulo ngalolu suku. Baby, ngizokutshela imfihlo, lolu hlobo lugazi lakho eliluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Ungene kuwo ngakwesokudla kokuzalwa. Lesi sicupho yisihloko sakho, okuhehayo. Lesi sicupho sikuvumele ukuhlala esigodlweni se-buckingham (nabo bonke abanye), naye ukhokhele ne-kouchezh ebusheni, endizeni yangasese, nakho konke okunye. Lesi sicupho singukuhlonipha okunemibandela nothando lwabantu baseBrithani. Ngenkathi ubukulesi sicupho, nina bantu abanosawoti ezindlebeni zeShaggy. Kepha unasohlangothini oluhlanekezelwe (ngizoveza enye imfihlo: njengasekuqaleni kwalomhlaba) - kusuka kuwe, futhi, kukhona okudingekayo. Ibizwa ngokuthi isikweletu. Umndeni wesikweletu, izwe elisebenzayo, isikweletu kubantu bakho. Inkosi, inkosana akuyona kuphela konke lokhu okungenhla, kepha futhi nomthwalo wemfanelo. Ukuthembeka. Okothando lwabantu kanye nokuqukethwe kwasebukhosini kwamakhosi kufanele kuhambisane nayo yonke imithetho ehlinzekelwe yi-protocol kanye nomsebenzi wokuchuma kwamazwe aphathiswe wona.
Angisiye umqhele waseBrithani, kepha ngingobulungisa. Futhi kubonakala kimi, kusobala, akukuphunga.
P.S. Mhlawumbe, manje, ngemuva kwengxoxo, lapho kuthunyelwa igagasi lomShiyi kanye nabezindaba futhi, umlingisi athi futhi ukuthi wahlukunyezwa, kodwa wakulingisa, kwesinye isikhathi kwakudingeka ukuthi acabange ngaphambi kokukhuluma.