Lapho uMathetyy enomsila onomsila, ekugcineni wavumelana nensimu, futhi saya ukuyorekhoda ngazo zonke izinhlobo zamakilasi angeziwe ...
Lapho uMathetyy enomsila (Hlobo luni lwe-silhol, imisila yawo izinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi ngemuva komsila wamashumi amathathu, yiminyaka embalwa, futhi ungitshele okwengeziwe ukuthi umbhangqwana, hhayi ayisishiyagalombili) ...
Ngakho-ke, lapho uMathetyy ayeneminyaka emi-4 ngomsila, ekugcineni wavumelanisa nengadi, futhi saya ukuyobhalisela noma yiziphi izigaba ezengeziwe endaweni efanayo.
- ndodana, zama chess?
- Yebo.
- Nemidlalo yaseshashalazini?
- Yebo.
- Futhi ukubabaza?
- õgy.
Futhi manje uhlelo lwakhe luthatha ingxenye yedayari yami. Bengicabanga ukuthi igama elithi "ake sizame" lisho isabelo sesikhathi esisodwa, sibheke futhi sikhethe, futhi wabamba umlilo ngokuqondile futhi ngokushesha.
Ngaphefumula, ngiphefumule, ngithole umsebenzi wesikhashana futhi ngithole ukuthula kuyo yonke imibhede eyengeziwe ngesikhathi seSadikovsky, ngaphandle komdlalo, obekuzohamba kabili ngesonto kusihlwa.
Lapho ngibiza isabelomali sami, ngalowo nyaka matvey wenqaba ukulimaza ngokuphelele futhi njalo waya kuwo wonke amakilasi.
Wafunda ukujaha ukugcwaliswa futhi waphoqa wonke amawindi ezinwebele endlu yezandla.
Kwahlekisa ukubizwa ngokuthi yi-pawn nge-pussy futhi kwathola ukuthi i-rook nehhashi lihamba kanjani.
Ekwakhiweni kweshashalazini nge-kolobka, impisi idlale futhi yagcizelela ekwenziweni kwengubo ebonakalayo kusuka ekhadibhodi nasekushintshiwe.
Ukhombise izinkundla zezimpi, nge-twine wacela ukuthenga ihhashi lokuzivocavoca lokuzivocavoca nge-odnushku.
- Akukubi kakhulu? - Ngafuna abantu engibaziyo, ngoba ngazizwa nge-alamu engaqondakali.
- Logi ngenkathi kuthatha! - Bayalulekisa konke ngezwi elilodwa.
Bayakuphendula, "Uzifunela yena," ngifisa ukuba sibe nengane enjalo! "
- Izingane zidinga ukusekelwa ezifisweni zazo, khona-ke uzohlala ekhaya namakhathuni ukubheka usuku lonke.
Ngikhuphukile, makayeke ezinsweni bese ubhukuda wehla.
Futhi ngo-Ephreli, uMathety waqala ukubuyela ekhaya phansi phansi, ahlele ukudlala izimoto, aqhubekele eScooter futhi agxume ithuba ukusuka emnyango wangaphambili emlenzeni emlenzeni owodwa. Bakhanyise futhi baqala ukubheka ukuklwebheka ekhasini sangemuva. Wenqabile ikhathuni nengxenye yesibili yokudla kwakusihlwa.
Ukhathele.
"Ake siyeke ukuya ku-chess," ngiphakamisa.
- Nginomqhudelwano ngenyanga, ngahamba ngeze?
- Hhayi-ke, ake sishaye i-Theatre?
- Nginomqondo wokubika, indima yempisi efundisiwe, ngisho nokukhula. (Yebo, angizukubiza le nkukhu "YYYI" nge-growl, kepha imvunulo ibilungiselela kusuka ekhadibhodi, futhi iqiniso liyisihawu uma umsebenzi onjalo omatasa uyanyamalala).
Kwi-Gymnastics, kwahlelwa izivivinyo ekupheleni konyaka, futhi indodana yeNdodana yenqabile ukuphuthelwa yingoba iwukuthanda kakhulu, futhi anginalo ilungelo lokumxosha lapho, lapho abanye behamba.
Inyanga sayihudula enjini efanayo, yaqhubeka ubukhulu futhi yahlala phansi nomsila ovuthayo. Amanxeba amabi ehlobo futhi afunda futhi ukudlala izimoto.
- Ngenzeni okungalungile? - Ngamangala ngazo zonke izingxoxo, - wabuka kuphi?
Wonke umuntu wayebhidlizwa yizandla zabo, wakhungatheka wagoqa amehlo abo. Futhi ngenza iziphetho zami.
Akunasidingo sokulayisha noma ngubani esimweni "ngenkathi kuthatha." Ngoba othile uzophonsela inselelo, futhi othile uqamba amanga, kepha intengo yawo wonke umuntu abheke phambili ukuklwebheka ekhasini lokunamathisela odongeni.
Ungazitholi izingane njalo, ngoba ziyizingane, futhi ungumuntu omdala. Futhi unelungelo lokusho isitobha, uma ukhathazeka.
Ungacabangi ukuthi uma umbhede owengeziwe ngesikhathi sengadi, ingane ayitholi umthwalo owengeziwe. Uthola. Futhi insimu uqobo, noma ngabe umdlalo wangavulwa ntambama futhi ungumthwalo, futhi hlobo luni lwenhliziyo.
Ungabukeli uhlelo lwemisebenzi yangaphandle, ngoba kunokukhethwa nsuku zonke ukunwebeka: izithombe zesihlabathi, ukudweba, ikarati, isiNgisi ... futhi njalo kubonakala sengathi awunasikhathi sokuthile, akunjalo nganoma yini. Uyazisola ngamathuba alahlekile futhi uphuthelwe okuthile okubaluleke kakhulu.
Ngonyaka olandelayo, ukuze ungabonakali sengathi umzali ononya futhi oshubile, wavumela iNdodana ukuba ihambe kuphela umbuthano owodwa kuphela, kodwa noma ngubani. Futhi uwashintshe kanye ngenyanga. Qala, phonsa, zama, wenqabe, ubuyekeze izinqumo zakho. Ungesabi ukwenza iphutha ekukhetheni futhi ungalindi umphumela wembulunga yonke.
Ngoba akudingekile ukushada uma uhambe kabili naye ngosuku. Ngabe uyafuna uma ngi-oda khona endaweni yokudlela. Futhi uphuze uma weza ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe.
Wadlula ngomunye unyaka, futhi ngenza iziphetho.
Kusuka kwinani elincane lemibuthano, ingane ayizange ilenga ngaphezulu kwithebhulethi. Into eyodwa ayithinti enye uma kukhona okuthakazelisa kakhulu kwigajethi.
Kusuka kumvume yokushintsha izixazululo zayo kaningi, uMathety wazama amakilasi amaningi kunakwezinye izimo. Ngajwayelana nothisha ngamunye, impahla nendlela.
Ukusuka ekungenzeki kokuthola umphumela wesikhathi eside kugxile kule nqubo, kukwazile ukuzwa imizwa yakhe evela emsebenzini uqobo, hhayi umphumela wokugcina.
Ngonyaka olandelayo, aphumule, alungele ukuthatha umthwalo omningi kanye nokukhethwa okucacile kwalokho okuthakazelisa ngempela.
Futhi ngikhuphukile ngokuqwashisa ukuthi amaphutha ethu asitshelwa ukuba apholile.
Ukuthi ama-stereotypes ethu apholile.
Futhi yini abeluleki obukhulu kakhulu - ekhanda lethu.