Omakhelwane ezweni, emnyango nasendaweni, umakhelwane osekhupheni, emgaqweni ... Omakhelwane empilweni baphila nathi, baseduze. Siphila nalaba bantu, izingxabano nezami, siphikisana ngokuthile okuncane, sisizane, sinqume. Kunezimo ezihlukile, konke kujwayelekile.
Abangani kanye nezingane zethu zihamba ndawonye emfuleni, zigibele amabhayisekili, zidlale umdlalo owodwa kwi-Intanethi, kwesinye isikhathi zixabana, kwesinye isikhathi zithandana. Lapho-ke omakhelwane baba amawashi. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi kwelinye lamazwe aseYurophu kukhona ngisho "usuku lomakhelwane". Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kulungile, mabayeke bangene etafuleni elijwayelekile, bazokhuluma nezihloko ezijwayelekile, baphuze ingilazi yewayini, bacule iculo lomphefumlo.
Kepha empilweni kunezimo ezihlukile. Singacasulwa umakhelwane ukuba aphuke phakathi kweziza noma atshalwe kakhulu isihlahlana, ekhononda ukuthi umakhelwane kusihlwa okuthile okudonsa noma kulalela umculo olayini. Umakhelwane wephule ukuthula noma wabeka imoto eduze komnyango wendawo yakho. Uyakhunjulwa?
Sibe necala. Asilokothi sivale umnyango efulethini. Cula, ekuseni kakhulu mina nabashade nabo egumbini lokulala kuzoba khona umakhelwane: "Ingabe kukhona i-Can Can Carnations engama-50?" Yebo, ngenxa yalokhu ukucasulwa ngumakhelwane? Wabuza, ngavuka futhi ngabelana. Akekho owafa, okwenzekile akwenzekanga, wonke umuntu uyaphila futhi uphilile. Kuliqiniso, kusukela ngalesosikhathi umlingani aqala ukuvala umnyango ubusuku bonke, futhi ngatshela le ndaba emsebenzini njenge-anecdote entsha.
Manje, eminyakeni yokuthuthuka okusheshayo komphakathi, kwesinye isikhathi izinkathazo zethu zidonswa ezinye izinkinga, kepha izinsalela futhi sihlala nakho. Udinga ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungaphila kanjani ngokulandelana, ukuhlonipha umbono womakhelwane, udinga ukukwazi ukuwa okuncane, kufanele ukwazi ukulalela ngomunye umbono ngokucophelela. Vumela umakhelwane abe ngaphansi kwesimo emphakathini, kodwa yena nomndeni wakhe nabo bafuna indawo ngaphansi kwelanga. Kumele kuqondwe, udinga ukuvumelana nalokhu, udinga ukubeka ngayo.
Cabanga ngesimo ukuthi ngomakhelwane wakho ungumuntu osondele kakhulu. Akusona isikhathi sakhe ukuthi athembele, awunaye noyedwa ongaba nobunzima bami ngaphandle kwanoma ngubani ocela imali ngesikhathi esinzima. Ngokwebonga, lo muntu angakwenzela umthetho ophakeme kakhudlwana. Kwenzeka kaningi. Ungaba nenkinga, futhi okokuqala umakhelwane uzosiza. Ngomzuzu onzima, sihlala sinxusa omakhelwane. Indabuko nezihlobo zingahlala kude kakhulu, nomakhelwane uhlala lapho.
Amacala ezingxabano anomakhelwane, asemndenini wakho. Umuntu akayithandi ilukuluku lomakhelwane, ezinye izingxoxo ngemuva komhlane, okokuzijabulisa kwesithathu - ubusuku noma izilwane ezifuywayo. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, udinga ukuzibeka endaweni yesehlakalo somakhelwane, uqonde inkinga, kwesinye isikhathi nje ukhuluma ngokuzolile. Awusoze wadinga ukwandisa ubudlelwano nomakhelwane, akusoze kwaholela emphumeleni omuhle.
Njengoba uMikhail Zadorrov asho kahle futhi kahle: "I-non-roy ngumgodi, ngaphandle kwalokho uyisebenzisa njengomsele." Ngokuvumelana ngokweqile, ngemvume encane, ukungezwani kungaxazululwa ngethonsi lezisulu zezintshisekelo zalo. Umakhelwane ngokuqinisekile uzoyazisa isenzo sakho futhi ngokuzayo uzokunika wena.
Kwesinye isikhathi umakhelwane unolaka, ujabule kakhulu, unenkani. Khuluma ngethoni ethule, ake siqonde ukuthi awuyingxabano ezingxabanweni, futhi ihlazo ngeke. Kwesinye isikhathi ungakhulisa izwi, uxwayise ngokuqinile: "Ngeke kube khona ihlazo!" Kuchazwe isimo sakho sengqondo futhi uphinde ukhulume buthule futhi, okusobala okuvela kulolu ngeke kukhululeke futhi kube namahloni.
Khumbula njalo:
- Bonke abantu bahlukile, imibono yethu ngokweqiniso ihlukile - uthanda munye, umakhelwane uhlukile, thola ukuyekethisa;
- Njalo wamukela umakhelwane;
- Khuthaza ubungani bezingane zakho, bafundise amasiko abo okuziphatha;
- Gcina ukungena kwakho kuhlanzekile futhi kuhlelekile;
- Ukuxhumana, ukusiza umakhelwane wakho, kuhlale ngomzuzu onzima;
- nganoma yiziphi izindlela eziphuma ezingxabanweni zotshwala;
- Njalo setha kuphela ngokuhle.
Fuck! Muva nje uhlangane umakhelwane wayo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Kuyavela ukuthi siseqenjini lentshisekelo elifanayo. Nami bengingazi ukuthi umakhelwane wami unawo umdlalo ofanayo onjengami. Itshelwe - impela, konke kunjalo.
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