Amadoda anamuhla angaqonda ngempela ukuthi empeleni badinga laba besifazane. Ziyakhiwa ezingapheli, ezingokomzwelo, zithambekele kwize nokuzikhukhumeza futhi zincike kalula kuma-stereotypes, ngokusho kwabesilisa. Futhi bonke abesifazane bayi-mercantile ikakhulu. Ubukhulu be-wallet kubo buya kuqala lapho ukhetha i-satellite yempilo. Kulokhu, imvamisa indoda eyakha ubudlelwano, bafuna ukufika eqinisweni, babone ukuthi badinga okungakanani umfazi.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu yingakho kudingeka ukuthi uqale ekuqaleni, ekugcineni uyekile ukukholelwa amagama abesifazane futhi akhokhe konke ukunakwa kwezenzo nezenzo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abesifazane abanobudlelwano namadoda aletha ukusebenzisa amaqhinga ajwayelekile omphethiloli. Bachaza, noma kunalokho baphoqa abantu ukuthi bakhethekile, okuwukuphela kwangempela futhi okuhlukile emhlabeni. Ukhuluma ngaye njengokungathi ebumnyameni, ngokujabulisa okuthile nokunyathelisa. Indoda iqala ukuhlobana nowesifazane othokozisayo nenkanuko, kube sengathi ikhona ngohlobo oluthile, into yasekuqaleni, okuthile okuhlukile kumakethe eyethulwe. Uqala ngokoqobo ezandleni zakhe ukugqoka umngane womshado, ekhipha konke. Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kubhujiswa, kuza ukunganaki kanye nokubola kwamandla. Lokhu kwenzeka ngesizathu esisodwa esilula - ukubuya kwe-zero. Futhi kunomqondo ongajwayelekile wokungadingekile noma nesizungu.
Ungakuthola kanjani ukuthi udinga malini owesifazane? Kunendlela eyodwa elula - vele ucele usizo. Imvamisa, le ndoda vele injalo lapho amabutho emiphumeleni futhi yenzeka empilweni yomucu omnyama, inkathazo yengqondo. Futhi thola ukuthi yiziphi izindleko nokusebenzisa imali ukulungele ukuya engxenyeni yesibili yakho.
Uma owesifazane ephenduka umhlane wakhe futhi enqaba ukwelula isandla sosizo, ebheka njengokubaluleke kakhulu ukusindisa izinsiza zawo ngokuthile okubaluleke kakhulu, okungukuthi, othandekayo, ngeshwa awumdingi othandekayo. Umane usebenzise futhi ngokuziqhenya, ukhululekile nje, noma kunalokho, sekuze kube manje. Kepha qiniseka ukuthi kungekudala kukususe.
Uma uyindoda yomgwaqo, ulungele ukukhokha okuningi njengoba uthanda ukukusiza futhi ukukukhipha esigangeni. Angisho nje kuphela ngemfucuza yezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa ngomzamo webonke. Endimeni yosizo kungenza noma yini - ukunakekelwa, ukusekela, ukuqonda, nokusekelwa ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo ngokwayo. Ngale ndlela ukuthola ukuthi udinga malini umfazi eqinisweni owesifazane uphumelela ngempela.
Bambelela kowesifazane ohlale elungele ukunikela ngawe ngezinsizakusebenza zakho - uyakusekela, uzokusekela, futhi kwesinye isikhathi azowela izimiso zawo, njengoba kuqonda ukuthi ngubani, uma kungenjalo.
Ngiyabonga ngokunakwa!
Umthombo