Ukukhuluma ukuncoma komunye umuntu, sifuna ngokweqiniso ukukwenza kube kuhle, qaphela amakhono akhe avelele, ukubukeka okungathandeki noma umlingiswa okhanyayo. Empeleni, amanye amagama "anomusa", asho kubonakala sengathi azinhloso ezinhle kakhulu, kwesinye isikhathi azwakala ukuze angakuqondi nakancane: Usanda kuncoma noma wanquma ukuthuka noma wanquma ukuthuka?
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1. "Manje ubukeka kahle namhlanje. Yini oyekise? "
Owezwa nguwesifazane: "Imvamisa useyi-Goblin, kepha namuhla isimangaliso senzekile." Ukubukeka kokuncoma kuhle, kepha ukucaciswa "namuhla" ngandlela thile konakalisa konke. Ngokushesha kwenza umbono wokuthi empilweni yansuku zonke ubheka uma kungekubi ngokuphelele, kungaphutsa.
2. "Uyahlekisa. Ngoba intombazane ayivamile "
Okuzwayo owesifazane: "Uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda, kunjalo, umuzwa wakho wokuhlekisa unjalo. Kepha ukuhleka othile, kuzoba kuhle. " Ngakho kwenzeka emphakathini wethu ukuthi iningi labahleli abaqeqeshiwe lingamadoda. Kodwa-ke, lokhu akusho ukuthi amantombazane awakwazi ukuba nomuzwa omuhle kakhulu wokuhlekisa. Eminyakeni yamuva nje, isimo eminyakeni yamuva nje siyashintsha futhi izindinganiso zabesifazane eziningi kanye nemibukiso yabesifazane ehlukene yamahlaya. Ngakho-ke, akufanelekile ukubeka amadoda nabesifazane ezitsheni ezihlukene zesikali bese ulinda, othi "omnandi" kabani ohumusha.
3. "Ukhula Kahle Kakhulu"
Okuzwa nguwesifazane: "Ubusuku obunzima, unjani okudala!" Lapha u-combo nje: Awuzange uthi ungowaseLady asebekhulile, kodwa futhi wagxila kulokho okuphelile. Kungcono ukungazenzi izincomo ngalesi sihloko. Ngikholwe, hhayi owesifazane ongashadile ofuna ukuzwa ukuthi uyababaza (muhle).
4. "Empilweni yami bengingasho ukuthi unezingane"
Okwezwa umfazi: "Anifanelekile ukuba yindima kamama." Imvamisa leli binzana lithi abesifazane ababukeka bebancane, banakekelwa kahle kanye nemidlalo. Kodwa-ke, ukuncoma akufundwa lapha nhlobo. Intombazane eyayizwa ekhelini layo iyakhumbula ngokushesha i-1 000 nesizathu esingu-1 sokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kuye: "Ngibukeke kabi? Uhole indlela yokuphila ende? Okungathí sina? Ngokunganaki? Unovalo? Ini? " Yize eqinisweni omunye umuntu kungenzeka amoneli ukuthi yini onayo izingane, kodwa ngasikhathi sinye ongahambisani nesithombe esinqunyelwe sehhashi, njengo "omama abalungile."
5. "Wow! Angisoze nganquma ukuyigqoka endaweni yakho. "
Owezwa umfazi: "Ubheka konke lokhu okuhlekisayo nje!" Isiqalo esithi "Esikhundleni sakho" kubukeka sengathi sisho ukuthi unephutha elithile. Ukuzwa ukuncoma okunjalo ekhelini lakho, ungazi ukuthi uqala ukufuna ukushiyeka okuthile. Kungcono ngokweqiniso ukusho ukuthi intombazane ayiza kakhulu ngengubo eyodwa noma enye into, kodwa kuphela uma enentshisekelo ngombono wakho.
6. "Kunawe kulula futhi kulula! Uthanda ingane esiketi "
Owezwa umfazi: "Yebo, nawe, uphile, kepha akekho ongakubona njengowesifazane." Kulula futhi kunethezekile ukuzwakala kobulili obuhlukile, ngakho-ke, ukuncoma okunjalo kuhloswe ngazo ukunqoba umuntu naye. Noma kunjalo, isimo se- "Dude Yakhe 'sizothokozela kude nalowo wesifazane.
7. "Unokumamatheka okungeyona okujwayelekile"
Owezwa nguwesifazane: "Yiya ku-Orthodontist bese ulungisa ukuluma." Noma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi amazinyo we-interlocutor alungile, ngezincomo ezinjalo udinga ukuqaphela kakhulu. Abantu abaningi baphila ngokuluma okungafanele, futhi abaningi bayinkimbinkimbi kulokhu. Kulokhu, amagama athi "ukumamatheka okungekho emthethweni" angazwakala anengqondo kakhulu, angitshele kangcono "muhle / uqotho / ube mnandi."
8. "Okupholile ukuthi awunakugwenywa mncane"
Owezwa umfazi: "Ukhulu kakhulu futhi ukhuluphele!" Futhi vumela umuntu afune ngokweqiniso ukuze ancome amafomu akho ethakazelisa, abone amagama anjengokwezwi okucashile obekungeke kulimaze okuncane (noma okujwayelekile, amakhilogremu we-10-15) ukuze wehlise isisindo.
9. "Ekugcineni, waqala ukugqoka izingubo futhi ubukeka njengentombazane yangempela!"
Owezwa umfazi: "Ubukeka kabi." Kuhle lapho umuntu osendaweni esemvelweni yethu exazululwa ezivivinyweni ezintsha ngezingubo. Futhi, ngokwemvelo, uma singasetshenziswanga ukuyibona, kuyamangaza njalo futhi kubangela imizwa. Kepha kusengcono ukwenza ukuncoma kube yinto enobuhlakani. Qaphela, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi intombazane inemilenze emihle kakhulu, okhalweni oluncanyana, njll., Kepha ungasho ukuthi lokhu kungukuthi "kubukeka njengentombazane yangempela." Futhi ngaphambi kwabemanga kwaba, yini?
10. "Unezwi elinjalo elingajwayelekile"
Owezwa umfazi: "Uzwakala njengezipikili ezizungeze ingilazi." Okungajwayelekile - Kuyini? Kukhulu kakhulu noma kuthule kakhulu? Squeaky noma rough? Ngingakwazi ukuya ekhathuni? Masibe ngokunemba ngokwengeziwe, okwenza izincomo. Futhi igama elithi "elingajwayelekile" lingcono ukufaka esikhundleni, ngokwesibonelo, "kumnandi."
11. "Kwabantu onengqondo ngokunengqondo!"
Okuzwayo owesifazane: "Ngaphambi komuntu okhule ngokweqiniso, awusafinyeleli." Yebo, umhlaba uhlukaniswe ngezinto ezenziwa ngokwezifiso zaba technies kanye nobuntu: Kulula kothile ukukhumbula imininingwane yombhalo ngekhanda, nomuntu osebenzisana nezinombolo. Kepha akwenzi noma ngubani kithi okubi kakhulu noma okungcono. Ngakho-ke, ake sithuke futhi siqonde amakhono engqondo omunye komunye.
12. "Ngiyakuthanda ukuthi awuzihluphi ngokubukeka"
Owezwa nguwesifazane: "Yebo, unohlobo, kunjalo. Beka into yokuqala eyehla egumbini? " Ngokunokwenzeka, umuntu wayefuna ukudumisa isitayela sakho somuntu siqu futhi agcizelele ukuthi awulandeli ukuthambekela okungaboni, kepha khetha lokho okhululekile. Empeleni, ngemuva kwalawa magama, uzizwa uvimbela izimbambo ezintanjeni ze-Fairy Ball.
Siyaqiniseka ukuthi ungangezelela lolu hlu lwezibonelo zakho. Yini izincomo ezimangazayo ezivela kobulili obuhlukile obuzwile ekhelini lakho?