Ubudlova kanye nobunzima kokubonisana kwabesifazane kanye nezibhedlela zomama - mase, ejwayelekile. Kepha akunakwenzeka ukubiza le nto ngaphandle kwendlela, ngoba kuyingxenye yokuhlukunyezwa kwe-obstetric, okuthi ochwepheshe bezwe abakubona ukwephulwa kwamalungelo owesimame.
Umfundi wethu u-Ana Rozanova waseLithuania utshele ukuthi wabhekana kanjani nokuhlukunyezwa ngamazwi ngemuva kokuzalwa kokuqala nokuthi ukukhulelwa okubandayo nokuzibandakanya okwakulandela nodokotela kwamsiza ukuba abhekane nalokhu futhi asinde kuye.
Omama kunoma yisiphi isigaba sendlela - kungaba ukukhulelwa, inqubo yokuzalwa kwengane noma amasonto okuqala endlu - ungikhumbuze ngenxeba evulekile. Noma yiliphi igama elinganakekeli lingadala ubuhlungu, kanti kwesinye isikhathi sokuphila kwakhe owesifazane ngeke alinake.
Ezibhedlela eziningi, abesifazane banokunakekelwa okuhle kwezokwelapha. Ukuzalwa okunzima kakhulu esikhathini esedlule kungaholela ekufeni nakumama, futhi ingane manje isigcwele ngempumelelo. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, ukusekelwa kwezengqondo kwebhizinisi, imvamisa akunakuba kubi ngaphezu kweminyaka eyikhulu edlule. Ubulukhuni, ukuhleka usulu, kanye nokubanda kodokotela nabasebenzi kungaguqula "isipiliyoni somlingo" baba izinkumbulo ezinzima.
Ukuzalwa kwami kokuqala kwadlula kalula futhi ngokushesha. Ngokushesha ngokushesha ukuthi mina uqobo bengingaqondi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ukuba ngibe khona ekhaya umntwana othandekayo futhi (njengoba kwenzeka kamuva) nezinsalela ze-placenta esibelethweni. Ukopha akuzange kume nganoma iyiphi indlela, isimilo sabo sashintsha, futhi ngesonto ngabuyela esibhedlela kwadokotela owazala.
Ngemuva kokungibuka, wavimba ulimi lwakhe:
"Sizokwenza ukuhlanza." Ngangesaba.
Ukusebenza, i-anesthesia, kepha kuthiwani ngengane?
"Futhi ufunani? Uqhubeke nokuhamba? "
Ukuhlinzwa kuya ngokushesha ngokwanele. Emahoreni ambalwa emva kwalo ngithathe embhedeni ombozwe ngamashidi enjoloba. Nge-gauze phakathi kwemilenze. Wabe esesukuma wamba kancane ephumayo. Emnyango, ngezwa iqoqo lomhlanza, elalibuka amashidi emva kwami. Angikwazi ukusho ngokunemba uma lesi siqephu sidale ukucindezelwa kwami kwangemva kokubeletha, noma bekuzoqala. Kunoma ikuphi, le nkumbulo isengomunye womunyu futhi ohlazo kakhulu empilweni yami. Lapha ngilele esihlalweni nomlenze ophukile.
Ngingedwa futhi nginovalo, futhi udokotela ngesandla sakhe ngaphakathi ngidinga ukungihlekisa.
Ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, udokotela ohluke ngokuphelele esibhedlela esihluke ngokuphelele esitholakala: "Ukukhulelwa kufriziwe, futhi izithelo ngokwazo ngeke zisebenze, zidinga ukuhlanzwa."
INtaba yengane elahlekile, engangingayazi, kepha vele ngithandwa, kuxutshwe nokwesaba ukuphinda konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphambilini: "Masilinde ngaphandle kokuhlanza?" Silindile. Walinda. Nokuqhubeka. Umzimba wami wanquma ukungakhululi muntu, ngakho-ke ukuhlanzwa kwakungenakugwenywa.
Ngilele embhedeni ohlanzekile esigcemeni futhi ngalinda ithuba lami. Ngalesi sikhathi, umhlengikazi weza kimi kathathu. Okokuqala ngqa sho ukuthi angikwazi ukudla nokuphuza, ngoba wayengeke angethele isidlo sakusihlwa, kepha uyakuqonda ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ngilambile. Okwesibili wafika ukungifisela inhlanhla ngokuhlinzwa. Okwesithathu ngaletha ingilazi yetiye elimnandi lesibhedlela esinamandla: "Awusenzi. Kepha lapho nje uvuka ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, ukuze ngokushesha waba nawo. Futhi kungazelelwe ngizobe ngimatasatasa futhi angikwazi ukuhamba ngokushesha. "
Ihora ngaphambi kokuhlinzwa, udokotela waya ewadini. "Ngemuva kokuhlinzwa, ngokomzimba uzizwe kahle. Kepha ngiyaqonda ukuthi ukululama okungokomzwelo kuzothatha isikhathi eside. Uzoba nzima kakhulu, futhi ube nomunyu, futhi udabukile, "kusho yena.
Ngambheka nge-BeFerment. Kwakungokokuqala lapho udokotela odokotela ngokwakhe eqala ukukhuluma nami ngemizwa, hhayi ngezimpawu."Unzima manje. Ngiyakuzwela ngempela ukuthi usinde. Kepha awuwedwa, sizokunakekela ukuze konke kuhambe kahle. " Futhi ngaphendula ngathi: "Ngidabukile kakhulu, ngibe nomunyu, futhi kanzima." Bese uqhuma.
Futhi nganginomuzwa wokuthi ngaphakathi kimi ekugcineni kwancipha i-com ethile ecindezelwe ngokuqinile, eyayikhona evela e-genera yokuqala.
Angiyedwa. Sizonginakekela. Akekho noyedwa ongasafuni ukungihlekisa okwamanje lapho nginenxeba elilodwa elivulekile.
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