Ungakuqonda kanjani ukuthi ubudlelwano buyehluka: Umbono we-Psychotheratists

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Akubona bonke ngababili abamiselwe ukuphila "isikhathi eside futhi ejabule", futhi ukuhlukanisa noma isehlukaniso kuyindaba yesikhathi nje. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuqhekeka okusheshayo kobudlelwano kuyabonakala nakwabanye abantu - futhi ngeke kukhulume ngogogo nomdlandla emnyango, kodwa mayelana nodokotela ochwepheshe bezengqondo.

Ekuqaleni kukaJanuwari, kwavela umucu onelukuluku, owayebutha amazwana ayizinkulungwane eziyisikhombisa (!). Umlobi weTreda, umsebenzisi one-Nick Gnerdy, wacela ama-psychotapists asebenza nemibhangqwana, ukusho ngezimpawu ezaziwa zona, ezikhombisa ukuthi kukhona okuthile kakhulu ebudlelwaneni (noma asezohamba).

Abahlaziyi ababadumazi, ngakho-ke gcina uhlu lokuhlola oluqukethe "izinsimbi eziphazamisayo" kulabo abasebudlelwaneni - uma ubonile okuthile okunje, mhlawumbe isikhathi sesizoshintsha okuthile, siphinde sicabange noma sixhumane nochwepheshe.

Ukuncika kobuhlungu

Lapho umuntu oyedwa ethembele ngokuphelele komunye, ikakhulukazi esemncane - kuncike kubo bobabili ngokwezezimali, nangokomzwelo. Njengomthetho, la angamantombazane amancane (yize kwesinye isikhathi abafana abasebancane) abangasebenzi, abanazo izingane, bahlezi ekhaya usuku lonke, abanakho abangane noma abazithandayo ngaphezu kokuchitha isikhathi nomlingani wabo. Akunampilo kakhulu, futhi leli yifulegi elibomvu "."

Njengomthetho, konke kugcina ngokuhlukana okubuhlungu nokubi. Ezimweni ezinjalo, sizama ukusiza abantu abanjalo ukuba basebenzise abangane, bajoyine umphakathi, bathole umsebenzi, bathole ivolontiya - ukwenza okuthile okuzobasiza ukuba bakhulise ukuzethemba futhi basebenze ngaphandle kobudlelwano.

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Ukungaqiniseki ohlangothini olulodwa

Lapho umuntu oyedwa ethi udinga usizo lwami ukuthola ukuthi bafuna ukugcina ubudlelwano, kanti omunye uthi udinga usizo lokubasiza ukuba balondoloze ubudlelwane.

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Ukuhlulwa Kokulawula

Ukulawula ngokweqile. Ngivame ukuhlangana nabantu abacela umlingani wabo ukuthi bathumele isithombe lapho sibonisa inani elithile leminwe ukufakazela ukuthi lesi sithombe senziwa ngesikhathi sangempela. Lokhu akusiyo.

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Ukuphathwa kwe-akhawunti

Imibhangqwana evumelene ngesimiso esithi "Wena - nginguye kimi." Isibonelo: "Ngikuguqule, ngakho-ke ungachitha ubusuku obubodwa ofuna."

Noma "Ngakhaphela ukwethembana kwakho futhi ngadla izidakamizwa, ngakho-ke manje ungahamba kanye wenze konke okufunayo." Kubhubhisa ukwethembana futhi kuholele eqinisweni lokuthi amacala aqongelele kuphela.

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Imizamo yokushintsha abalingani

Lapho ngibona umbhangqwana, lapho ozakwethu noma bobabili abalingani bezama ukushintshana okuthile okubalulekile. Kulezi zimo, siyaqonda lapho kuvela khona isidingo soshintsho, futhi umuntu ofuna ukuguquka, kuhlole ukuthi kubalulekile kangakanani. Sisebenzela ukwamukela nokubekezelelana kwabanye abantu.

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Izisulu egameni lezingane

"Sigcina ubudlelwane bezingane" - lokhu kuholela ekufakweni okungenampilo, ngenxa yalokho lo mbhangqwana ubona izingane zabo njengomthwalo futhi ukholelwa ukuthi uma zigcina zihle.

Izingane zinobuhlakani kunalokho esicabanga, futhi uma umama nobaba bengafani, bayakuzwa. Uma ngempela, ikusasa lezingane zakho libaluleke kakhulu, bese lilungisa ubuhlobo bakho noma ukuklebhula.

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Sesha Okufanayo

Abantu abeza ekwelashweni, baphakamisa ukuthi kufanele bakholise eqinisweni lokuthi baqinisile, futhi umlingani wawo awekho. Kubukeka sengathi bakhala ngomlingani wabo kumphathi, ukuze athole izinkinga zabo.

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Lutho oluhle

Elinye lamafulegi abomvu abaluleke kakhulu ", engiwabonayo, asebenzisana nombhangqwana osemusha - ukuthi abakhumbuli lutho oluhle. Ingxenye yokwelashwa komndeni ukukhumbuza abalingani ngokuthi bathandana, okwaqala ukuwadonsela komunye nomunye, nokuthi kukhona okuhle phakathi kwabo.

Lapho abantu befika, futhi sebevele bengajabule maqondana nobudlelwano bokuthi ngeke bakwazi ukukhumbula ukuthi kufanele bathandane kanjani, ubudlelwano babo buvele bukhona. Ukuze ukwelashwa kusebenze, akudingekile ukujabula, kepha uma ungakwazi nokukhumbula noma yini enhle, kulungile, kungenzeka ukuthi kwaphela.

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Ukungahloniphi Imingcele

Ukwephulwa kwemingcele. Ukuhlola okuncane imingcele - imvamisa, kepha ukuphazamiseka okuphindaphindayo kwemingcele kuyinto enkulu "ebomvu". Guys, ukuqonda imingcele yabo, amandla okuzifaka nokuvikela okubaluleke kakhulu enhlalakahleni yakho. Futhi funda ukuhlonipha imingcele yabanye abantu.

Imingcele akufanele ibe yaphakade, ingashintsha, kepha kwesinye isikhathi ingashintsha ngoba kufanele ifinyeleleke kubo noma okuphambene nokulahlekile.

Isibonelo, banamathela enkambisweni yakho. Uma ulala ngo-9 PM bese uvuka uyosebenza ngo-5 ekuseni, qhubeka ukukwenza. Umuntu ohloniphekile uzokuhlonipha lokhu. Uma kwenzeka umuntu ezama ukuphula le mingcele, kusho ukuthi izinto azilungile kakhulu.

Kungabukeka kanjena: "Hheyi, ungalali, ukhulume nami, nginesizungu" noma "ngithandana - ukukhuluma ubusuku bonke." Uma ungeyena uneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala, khona-ke lokhu akunangqondo kakhulu. Ngenxa yalokhu, unamandla kuphela kunokhathele futhi kuba nzima kakhulu kuwe ukubukeka ubucayi ubuhlobo bakho. Uma umlingani wakho ethulula futhi ahleke ngendlela yakho, kungenzeka, kungenzeka, amanani akho ahlukile kakhulu. Lokhu akuphathelene nokuthi ngubani olungile, futhi ubani onephutha - uvele unemibono ehlukile.

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Ukhilimu

Ngizovele ngithi uma uthola i-Yell yakho: "Yebo, ngiyalimaza angikukhali!", Ungahle ube nenkinga yokuxhumana.

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Ukuzimela okugcwele

Ukuzimela okusebenzayo kuvela komunye nomunye - lokhu kimi isibonakaliso esikhulu sokuthi umshado uhambe ngaphansi kwelanga. Lapho nje ngibona ukuthi abalingani benza konke ngokwehlukana, ngokwesibonelo, banakekela imali mboleko yemoto noma uhambo lokuhlela, ngaphandle kokubonisana nomunye, ngiyakuqonda ukuthi lo mbhangqwana usuvele usuphelile.

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Izingxabano Zaphakade

Ubudlelwane bezingxabano kakhulu. Uma izingxabano ezivame kakhulu neziqinile ziqala izinyanga ezimbalwa (noma ngaphansi) ngemuva kokuqala kobudlelwano, futhi ziqhubeke, ukwelashwa okushonile kuzoba yidokodo langempela futhi ngeke kusebenze. Akukhathalekile ukuthi ingxabano iyaqhubeka ngaso sonke isikhathi noma kwesinye isikhathi iphazamisa. Lokhu akuyona umbono wami kuphela, kukhona izifundo eziqinisekisa.

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Ukuguqulwa kwezimpukane endlovu

Ukukhubazeka okungapheli, okungenanjongo kwezingxabano. Lapho "angicabangi ukuthi kufanele siyithenge le nto ebizayo," iphendukela ku- "Awungithandi!" - Le yinkinga enkulu.

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Hhayi kuphela uthando

Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, ubudlelwano obuqinile nobunempilo buyakhiwa ngezimfanelo ezimbili ezibaluleke kakhulu: ukwethembana nenhlonipho. Uthando alufakiwe kulolu hlu, ngoba uthando aluchazi ubudlelwano obuqinile nobunempilo. Kungahle kube nobudlelwano be-dysfucrage phakathi kwabantu abanothando. Futhi ukuthanda umuntu akusona ukuphela kwesizathu sokugcina ubudlelwano.

Amakhasimende amaningi engisebenze nawo ayenobudlelwano obungasebenzi kahle, ababehlala kuphela ngenxa yothando, kodwa baqhubeka nokuhlupheka ngoba bentula ukuzethemba nenhlonipho. Ngaphandle kwalezi zimfanelo, ubudlelwano obuningi buzokwehluleka ukuhlupheka noma ukwehluleka.

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Siza ihholo

Nayo yayihlanganisa nabazali nhlangothi zombili. Lapho umuntu esondela kubazali bakhe kunomlingani, futhi ababize nge-phone phone phakathi kwezingxabano, noma lapho ephendula kabi ngomlingani wakhe phambi kwabazali bakhe, ngivame ukubona ukuthi imibhangqwana enjalo ihlala kanjani emshadweni ongathandeki. Kuyadabukisa.

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Ukwehla

Ukwehla. Kungathatha izindlela ezahlukahlukene: kusuka ekukhanyisweni kwegesi kukuphikwa okuqondile kwemibono yomunye umuntu. Esikhathini esiningi, izinhlangothi zombili noma zombili zizama ukumane zilalelwe ezingeni elingokomzwelo kohlobo oluthile lombuzo noma isihloko, kepha elinye iqembu likubona njengokuhlaselwa komuntu siqu kwezinjongo zakhe.

Sonke siyazi noma sizwa ngabantu abangavumelani nakho konke abanye abathi, ngoba bakusho. Yiluphi uhlobo lokwehla engikushoyo. Hlasela inkinga, hhayi omunye nomunye. Abantu akuvamile ukuba bahlale isikhundla esifanayo ezingxabanweni, kepha imvamisa (ebudlelwaneni obunempilo) banezindinganiso ezifanayo.

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Shiya amazwana!

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Isafunde ngesihloko

Ukukhanya kwegesi kuyindlela yodlame lwezengqondo, lapho isisulu siphoqeleka khona ukungabaza ngokwanela kombono wakhe.

"Kubonakala nje ngokuthi", "Awuzange uqonde konke," "Kwakuyisihlaya nje," njll. - Imishwana ejwayelekile yalokhu ekhohlisa.