Lapho indodana ishada, iningi labazali bakhe liyakujabulela umcimbi onjalo - manje insizwa yabantu endala isesandleni esiphephile sonkosikazi osemusha, kungenza abazukulu bazojabula. Nanku umshado ngemuva, kwabancane babevela ekuhambeni komshado kanye nezinsuku ezijwayelekile zemindeni zaqala, ezivame ukuba nzima uma izizukulwane ezimbili zihlala ndawonye.
Kuyathakazelisa: Imishwana yabazali abayi-6 eyenza umdlali wenganeFuthi maduze nje kuvela ukuthi ubudlelwano obuphakathi komakalookomalokazana nomkhwezala abungezi. Imvamisa, isizathu siseduze komyeni omncane kamama ongafuni noma owaziyo ukuthi angaluthola kanjani ulimi olujwayelekile nomunye, umfazi omncane endlini. Isizathu singaba umhawu we-banal, ungathandi okubangelwa ukusebenza komakalowesifazane.
Kepha kuzofanela kuphile okunye, ngakho-ke udinga ukubheka indlela yokuhlanganisa ubudlelwano. Izazi zezengqondo zabela amaphutha ayi-6 kumkhwekazi kamamezala, ukugwema ukuthi yimuphi umuntu angaba ngumkakhe endodaneni yakhe kubantu abaphakeme.
Ngishayele nje "mama"
Phambilini, kungakhathalekile ubudlelwano phakathi kwezwekazi lami, okwedlule kwaphoqeleka ukuba kubizwe umzali womyeni wakhe. Manje kwenzeka akuvamile futhi akudingi lokhu, eqinisweni, indodakazi yomunye umuntu. Abesifazane abaningi banamuhla bavinjelwe emizweni futhi akuvamile ukuba nabantu abaseduze.
Khohlwa ngezingcingo, amathiphu abalulekile nokulawulwa kokuphepha
Imvamisa, umamezalawomi wesono ngemiyalo eyeqile, njengomfazi osemusha kufanele anakekele indodana yakhe, afonele ngaphandle kwesidingo esikhulu, alawule ukuthi owesifazane wenzani nokuthi owesifazane wenzani. Kuyacasula kakhulu futhi kungaholela nasekuthambekeni kwangempela. Ukuziphatha okunjalo komama kubeka indodana yakhe, kukhombisa ukuthi ungumuntu ongeyena umbiko, udinga i-NANNIK, okuyihlazo emehlweni akhe.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye umkhwekazi womamezala abaqondi ukuthi isifiso sabo sokunikeza izeluleko, ukusiza ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, imingcele yengqondo futhi iba nokulawulwa okubonakalayo kwesinyathelo ngasinye senkosikazi ngayinye. Ekugcineni, ingqondo imane nje ibaleke kude, futhi umyeni wakhe usemuva kwakhe.
Ukubonakaliswa Komhawu Kamama
Omama abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umhawu ungukubonakaliswa kothando. Eqinisweni, lokhu kuyinkomba ye-egoism. Lapho umkhwenyana ebusweni bendodakazi ngomakalokazana ubona imbangi, kuholela ekungatheni kuye. Umama kufanele kusamele azazise emshadweni wokuthi umshado uhambe kahle nendodana yakhe ukuthi wayejabule ukuthi umoya wothando nokuvuma phakathi kwabo.
Ukugxekwa Kwaphakade
Angithandi muntu lapho kuhlala kugxekwa lapho kuphela amaphutha abamba ezenzweni zakhe. Ukubuka inkazimulo encane, umkhwekazi uhlala ekhononda, ekhombisa konke ukubukeka kwakhe ukuthi konke akwenzile njengoba kufanele. Ngenxa yalokho, ingqondo iqala ukuzonda umama wendoda yakhe futhi yazama ukungayixhumana naye.Zingqubuzana enhlabathini yokukhulisa abazukulu
Yiba ugogo, umkhwekazi uvame ukuthotshiswa ngokuba khona komakalowesifazane empilweni, kepha kuqala ukutshala okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo ekunakekelweni nasemfundo yezingane. Noma ngokujwayelekile kuba khona ukuvumela okugcwele, khona-ke abazukulu bathanda ugogo, futhi ngengxabano enkulu, ekugcineni, bangalawuleki.
Ngisho nothando olungenamkhawulo lwabazukulu, ngeke bavunyelwe ukuba baqhubeke nezifiso zabo.