Uma umndeni ungenaso isigodlo sayo, khona-ke kuvame ukuba nezinkinga ngensimu ...
Umthombo: Izinsizakusebenza ze-Psychology. Ukuvuselelwa kwengqondo
Sesivele siqale ukukhuluma ngezingcingo ezesabekayo nalezi zingqinamba ezisebudlelwaneni ngemali esondelene naye, namuhla sizokhuluma ngokwenzeka esikhaleni:
Uma ungenaso isigodlo sakho, khona-ke kaningi emindenini unezinkinga zensimu. Yini engaba lapha?
- Ayikho imingcele yendawo emndeniniUzothi "Yima, yini imingcele emndenini, uma sineminyaka emihlanu efulethini elinamakamelo amabili?". Kepha-ke, kunemingcele kulokhu:
1. Ukuntuleka kwamathuba okuvalwa ezindaweni ezidinga ukusondelana (akukho ikhethini emphefumulweni, akunakwenza ama-valve emnyango, akunakwenzeka ukuvala egumbini ukushintsha izingubo ukuze kungabikho muntu ongenile);
2. Ukuntuleka kwamathuba okusebenza ngokuthula (ngokwesibonelo, eduze nokwenqaba ama-headphones, ukudlala imidlalo noma ukubuka i-TV, kanti omunye umuntu ulala noma esebenza);
3. Ukungabikho kwenqubo yokuhlola kuthathwa ngumuntu noma mahhala ("woza lapha" kusho ukuthi "Hamba lapha ngokushesha", noma ngabe umuntu angayenza) yini);
4. Into engenakwenzeka yokulala, ukuphumula kanye nokuzilibazisa (ngokwesibonelo, uma uqhamuka ekushintsheni ebusuku, ukulala efulethini akunakwenzeka noma akukabi nalutho, noma umlingani uvusa umlingani wesibili ngoMgqibelo, uma hang noma unesithukuthezi);
5. Noma umuntu enesikhala sawo (ideskithophu noma igumbi), akulona ubuchwepheshe kulo - kungathatha okuthile nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngaphandle kokucaciswa;
6. Kuqakathekekeke kuqakathekileko kwendawo eyodwa yelungu lomndeni kwabanye (ngokwesibonelo, umkhulu unamahhovisi asebenzayo, i-balcony imatasa ngohlu lwezinhlanzi, egumbini lokulala aphumula ngalo I-TV), ngenkathi ugogo enekhishi kuphela, futhi umama nomzukulu bayigumbi lamamitha ayisishiyagalombili;
7. Amandla okuphatha ngokukhululeka izinto, ifenisha noma enye impahla (ngokwesibonelo, isihlalo somdlalo, othengwe ku-premium, bonke abamkhulu bangenza umsebenzi ngemuva komshini egalaji bese bebuyela);
- Ukuntuleka kwemingcele enezindawo zokuhlala ezihlukileNoma ngabe ushiye abazali noma izihlobo, akusho ukuthi bakushiye. Itholakala kalula ngezinto ezilandelayo:
1. Amandla okuza nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sosuku nobusuku, ngaphandle kokuxhumanisa ukuvakasha;
2. Amandla okuhlela kabusha, athenge futhi alahle izinto noma ifenisha ngaphandle kwemvume yomnikazi wezindlu (ngokwesibonelo, uya efulethini ngemuva kwamaholide - futhi efulethini lakho ulungisa ukunambitheka komkhwekazi kamama );
3. Isimemo efulethini lakho ojwayelene noma ungakwazi kuwe ngamagama "bawashiye, kunesikhala esiningi" (mhlawumbe ngokuhlala okuhlangene).
Zonke lezi zinto zifakazela ukwephulwa kwemingcele emndenini futhi zivame ukuhlotshaniswa nomonakalo noma okuhlangenwe nakho okungathandeki. Vele, lokhu akuyona ingxenye yokugcina yokuthi kungani kungaba nzima ukuvala.