Ngaphandle kweenzame ezininzi zokuhlaziya ii-canons zobuqhetseba emzimbeni (kwaye ziye zathatyathwa ekuqulunqweni kobuntu), ezinye iiparamitha zahlala zingaguqukanga. Kuba zixelwe bubomi uqobo. Ke ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ukhetha ukuthamba, imigca yomzimba ejikelezileyo, iinwele ezinqabileyo, izinto zobuso ezithobekileyo. Kwaye kwindoda ephantse yahlala ikhula ngaphezulu, ukukhula kobunzima bemisipha, ububele bobukhulu obunezaneleyo.
Kodwa yayingubani umzingeli, umhlaba, umkhuseli wentliziyo yakhe kunye nentsapho emininzi, ukuba ukukhula kungamfikeli kwiingcemeni ezibekelwe imbali? Amandla amancinci, ukuze azingele irhamncwa lasendle kwiHunt, ubungakanani benqanaba lifutshane kuneloohlobo, ke ngoko kunzima ukubaleka, kwaye uzive 'ungonwabanga kakhulu.
Ukusukela ngoko, kuncinci kutshintshile. Buza nawuphi na uMfazi ebuza: "Yiyiphi idatha yangaphandle emele ikhethwe ngubani?" -Ndiva phakathi kwezinye iimpawu ezinqwenelekayo. Amaxesha amaninzi, "amadoda amancinci" akanakufumana iqabane ixesha elide, ukubandezeleka kuwo ngokungafihlisiyo, anomsindo kwaye abuyele kumaqhinga asekhaya (umlondolozi we-tullering tulley, umnqweno ongenamsebenzi ukuba abe linyathelo , kwi-tiptoe, njl njl.).
Ayisiyiyo kuphela abafazi abangaboniyo kubo abasebenzi-msebenzi nabakhuseli, kodwa bawazi ngokungazi njengabantwana. Kwaye iwuphephe ngokupheleleyo umtsalane ngokwesondo. Ewe, kwaye amantombazana afundwe kakuhle ayazi kakuhle ukuba emtshatweni nomntu omoya ophantsi lithuba elihle ukuzala abantwana kunye nengozi efanayo.
Uninzi lwabameli besantya esiphantsi besondo esomeleleyo bazigqale "abantu bebakala lesibini" ngebhentshi yesikolo. Kwaye ukuqhubeka kwawo njengomntu ngokungqalileyo kuxhomekeka kwimo yekhaya, kwimpendulo yabazali kwisiphoso esikhoyo. Umntu othile uqhrojizela ezi zinto, ebona "ulusizi lomzali" malunga "nonyana-ungaphantsi, kwaye ke ukuva i-caustic", emva koko bade bacinge, ukuba baziintshaba ezibi, bangenangqondo. Enye, engafuni ukunyamezelana nokuthotywa, inika i-"Napoleon Contragent "(eyahlukeneyo yendoda enobungozi obungaphantsi kwemvelaphi yokukhula okuphantsi). Umntu ufuna ukungqina wonke umntu othi, ngaphandle kokuphakama kwakhe kunye nokuqhekeka, uyakwazi ukufezekisa okukhulu. Umntu uthengisa kwinqanaba le-Micro (phakathi kosapho, intendelezo, ilali), amagama omntu awile kangangeenkulungwane.
Ukongeza kwi-napoleon (1.62 yeemitha), ukuphakama okuncinci wayene-AF. S. SECKIN, MEESTRO PaGAIn, i-v. yu. Umhlaba.
Siyabathanda abadlali abanjalo njenge-al Pacino, uDustin Holfman, uTom Cruise, i-Andrei Shelov, evgeny stychkin, e-gela mesha. Ngesizathu esithile, ababukeli abanomdla abazibonisi ukuba izithixo zokukhula kancinci. Kunene! Siqikelela ukuba siyibani na, ubuhle kunye namandla etalente, i-charm, ayiphoswanga kwezinye izinto ezithile.
Yintoni i-minus ilahle i "Napoleon Masch", ukuba ayixhaswanga ziitalente, ubutyebi, umnqweno onamandla wokuba ngumntu obaluleke kakhulu, obaluleke kakhulu kwihlabathi liphela?
1. ukuzithemba okugqithisileyo. Okukhona ubuntu obungakumbi bubonisa ukukhukhumala kwayo kunye nokuphakama, kokukhona, kokukhona engaphakathi ezokuzihlaziya. Ngale ntloni kufuneka isokola (njengoloyiko) - ngokuhamba kuye. Kuyimfuneko ukuba uvuleleke kakhulu kubantu, unobuhlobo, kulula ukunxibelelana. Udonga lwe-Saraunten, eyakhiwe yindoda encinci ngethemba lokufihla emva kokugculelwa kunye nobunzima, uphinda oyena mntu ubalaseleyo kuye.
2. Isimo sengqondo esibonakalayo kubantu. Kwangelo xesha, ukusilela komntu ngamnye kunxulunyaniswa nokukhula kwabo okuncinci, ukukholelwa ukuba abanye banobuso kumphathi wakhe abathandwanga nzulu. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abancinci basusa uxanduva ngezenzo zabo. Ewe, kwangaxeshanye, akukho zithuba ziyintetho zinokuba yintetho.
3. Unoburhalarhume. Rhoqo, abathwali bezinto ezikhoyo zinobukrelekrele ngokwenene, abayeki nje ukuba bahlupheke kwaye ngamava, yiyo loo nto ukucaphukisa imvelaphi kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kusoloko kunzima. Kwaye nokufuna ukubonisa umhlaba obuthathaka kakhulu, kuba kubonakala ngathi kukuqala, ukukhetha indlela yokuziphatha xa "ezona zinto zikhuselekileyo kukuhlaselwa."
4. Umona kumadoda aphakamileyo, owomeleleyo. Nokuba nguKumkani kancinane kwaye kufutshane-umthengisi oqhelekileyo. Amaxesha amaninzi aqaphele ukuba "imifutshane" kwizikhundla zobunkokeli ziye zanciphisa ukukhula komsebenzi wabasebenzi abaphezulu, ukufumana izizathu ezininzi zokwala ukwanda.
5. Ukuziqinisekisa ngokuchasene nemvelaphi yabantu ababuthathaka, abaxhomekeke kubuntu: Igesi entsatsheni, inkohliso kubantwana, kubuhlungu ukuba ixhoba alinakwenziwa ngabantu abakhulayo). Njengoko intetho ihamba, "Mal klop, ewe wallow."
Ewe, ukuba indoda encinci ethambileyo ifumana ipolitiki, ishishini, ubuchule, ubulungiseleli bonqulo. Kodwa oku akunikwanga wonke umntu.
Kuthekani ukuba wena okanye usondele kuwe?
- Zithabathe iyonke (ukuphakama kwakho, umbala wamehlo, i-invoice ye-boodice, uhlobo lobushushu kunye nezinye iipropathi zendalo). Yamkela le nto njengento enikiweyo kwaye engasabuyeli kulo mbandela.
- Akukho sidingo sokuziva 'njengomntu omncinci. " Eli binzana alikho malunga nokukhula, kodwa malunga nolwaneliseko, ubungakanani bobuntu. "Mncinci" -Undlu ngezandla zengcinezelo yobuqili. Kodwa ayikho malunga nawe!
- Khetha amantombazana ukuba angabalulekanga. Bambalwa kakhulu.
- Yekani ukuzikhathaza into abacinga ngayo ngawe. Ukuba abanye babo kwindawo yokuqala-ukukhula komntu yile, ke ezi ziingxaki zabo.
Ukukhula okuncinci kunokuba yinkuthazo yoloyiso olukhulu. Khumbula oku.
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