Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni iintsapho zinabantwana, ubuncinci, ngaba kufuneka ndihlonipha nje?
Ngaba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni iintsapho zinabantwana, ubuncinci, ngaba kufuneka ndihlonipha nje?
Ewe, ukuba kuphela kuba bangabantwana babo ukuba bakondle ngeepenshini, kwaye nangayiphi na imeko, nokuba awukufanelanga ukuba ayifanelanga. Eli linani kube kanye.
Okwesibini, kwaseburhulumenteni, iintsapho ezinabantwana zibaluleke kakhulu, zezona zamanani ezopolitiko eziphambili. Kuluphi na uluntu lwezoqoqosho, ukukhula kwendalo kunye nokugcwaliswa kwendalo kuseprayimari.
Amashumi emizekelo anokunikwa le nto: kuba abayi kunika iplanethi yethu ezukileyo ukuba isetyenziswe; Kubali kwikamva lethu, kwaye sidlule; Kuba basanazo zonke izinto ezizayo kwaye zikhethe; kuba bagqiba kwelokuba baphile njani, kwaye hayi ...
I-infrities, inene ngokuqinisekileyo iyaliva yonke le histeria imalunga ne-HSysteria malunga "Asifanelanga ukuba nento kuwe, abantwana bakho ziingxaki zakho, asizalwanga." ...Malunga! Oko kukuthi, umntu okushiyeleyo yonke into efanayo. Umntu ususe i-poop yakho kunye ne-stot emva kwakho, onqilelekileyo kwi-spuen, uqhubela kwi-kindergartarn, uqhume phakathi kwe "Inzuzo phakathi". Kuyavela ukuba unegazi nenyama. Unyamezele, wafundisa ubomi kunye nembeko. YINTONI into yokuba abanye abantu abadala balibaleka ngokukhawuleza ngayo.
Kwaye zonke ezi zidenge, zazenziwe ngentliziyo, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, ngamanye amaxesha amabinzana ohlobo "lweenyembezi", "izinja ze-ovula", "akukho mntu kufuneka akuthande" ...
Ewe kunjalo, asikwenzi tyala omnye komnye. Kwaye ilizwe lethu ayisiyiyo kuphela (kwaye mhlawumbi hayi neyona imbi kwesi sicwangciso). Ingxaki yonke yeyako nje ngomona wendalo iphela, ububi kunye nomnqweno wokwenza ukuba ungcolile kakhulu ukuze uphucule imeko nkqu "i-Swings yokhula" engenantsingiselo phantsi kwengcambu "engenantsingiselo.
Ukoyisa ubundlobongela obumiselwe ngokwemvelo kwaye ukuphelisa intiyo yabantwana kufuneka baphumelele ixesha elininzi, izizukulwana ezininzi kufuneka zitshintshiwe, kodwa zisenokunganele.
Okwangoku, ke uyayiva ukuba iintsapho ezinabantwana ziziphatha ngendlela engaqhelekanga, zenza ukuba zibheke, ngalo lonke ixesha zicela into kwaye ziphile ngeendlela. Kuphela apha, ngubani ogqiba kwinqanaba leli siseko, olinganisa ubuntu, obhala izicelo zabo, aqwalasele imali yabo?
Ngaba uhlala nengcinga yabantwana- ngaba kukungaqhelekanga? Ngaba uhamba nomntwana olilayo ngaphandle komgca - ngaba kukukhukhumala? Ngaba ubhale ileta eya kwinkonzo ngesicelo sokuhlawula ityala kwizibonelelo - Ngaba yimbuyekezo enkulu? Ngaba uyafumana kwaye uchithe yonke imali yakho kubantwana- ayikukuphila ngandlela?
Ngokubanzi, ngokuqonda kunye nokwamkela iimfuno zabanye abantu ngokuqinileyo. Yonke indawo kwaye wonke umntu uza kufumana ukubanjiswa. Abanye babona ezinye kuphela iintshaba, kwaye ukuba le nye iphila bhetele kunawe, iphumelele ngakumbi kwaye, ewe, i-smart, loo nto iguqulelwayo iguqulelwe ngokuzenzekelayo kudidi "lwamakhwenkwe okubetha." Khumbula ukuba kwihlabathi apho zonke iimpondo, iMisosion ayithathwa njengengendawo!
Kwaye mhlawumbi abo bathi ukubonisa ubungqina "oyimfama" ukuba umhlaba we-yapik kwaye umhle - ayinamsebenzi. Ngapha koko, wonke umntu wenza eyakhe inyani. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka sikhumbule rhoqo malunga neyona nto iphambili: "Kwiminyaka yakudala simfutha kuphela malunga nenye into eshiyekileyo, ngaphandle kokushiya nantoni na, malunga noku , mhlawumbi, kwaye masiyeke.