Kuyenzeka ukuba uqonde indoda elumkileyo okanye hayi, inokwenzeka ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: Ngoncedo lovavanyo olukhethekileyo, ngenani leediplomas ezibomvu okanye i-suitive. Izazinzulu zamazwe ahlukeneyo zibukele abantu kwaye zatyhila imiqondiso emininzi ephawulwa bubuntu obuphantsi kwengqondo abaphezulu kunabanye.
Sizifundile zonke ezi zifundo e-Adme.ru, uninzi lwethu lunobuchule kunolo lethu. Ubuncinci, ukuba uyakholelwa kwezolwazi.
Kulumkele iingxelo zemfundo
Ibinzana elidumileyo soSorates "Ndiyazi ukuba andazi nto" ndikufumene uphuhliso lwam kwifuthe elibiweyo - iKruger. Abantu abayinyani bokwenyani bazama ukungavumeli nantoni na ebonakalayo. Ukuba uyayiva into yokuba umntu osebenzisa intetho yayo "kwiimeko ezininzi", "hlala", "uyakholelwa ukuba ...", ke unakho imeko enayo ngengqondo.
Yazi indlela yokunxibelelana naye nabani na
Kuthiwa kufanelekile ukuba ufunde kuphela ngokona kulungileyo, kodwa abantu abalumkileyo bayazi ukuba incoko yababini inokwakhiwa naye nabani na. Vula ukucinga kunye nokukwazi ukubona amanqaku abantu abajongayo-uphawu olwahlukileyo lobukrelekrele obuphezulu.
- Kutshanje kuxoxiwe nenkosikazi yam umgca, umlinganiswa wabantu abaninzi abaphumeleleyo, ngakumbi umphathi wam. Ngalo lonke ixesha nditsho naye, ndiziva ndilumkile! Uhamba nam ngohlobo olunje, ngokungathi kukho into efundileyo ngento ethile. Esi sisiqinisekiso esimangalisayo. Njengoko ndiyiqondayo, ngokunyaniseka uyavuma xa engayiqondi into, ebuza imibuzo kwaye enkosi ngokunyaniseka ngenxa yokuba umntu wazalisa ulwazi naye. © nylind / reddit
Musa ukwenza iNgxoxo
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba abantu abangama-smart bakwazi ukuxhasa nayiphi na incoko, oko akuthethi ukuba bayayonwabela imidlalo yezentlalo. Nangona kukholelwa ukuba okukhona umntu onxibelelana nabanye, kokukhona wonwabile, engasebenzi kwimeko yabantu abanobukrelekrele obuphezulu. Izifundo zibonakalise ukuba abantu abakrelekrele baziva benoyolo ukuba banyanzelekile ukuba bazenzele intlalo. Ke ngoko, ukuba kwiNkampani ucinga nge-Sech, cinga: Mhlawumbi ulumkile kakhulu kwaba bantu.
Ihlala iziva iyothusayo
Ukwanda kwexhala-uphawu lokungazinzi kwiimvakalelo, kodwa kunye nobukrelekrele obuphezulu. Inyani yile yokuba abantu abakrelekrele abaphumeleleyo bahlala behlawula ixesha elingakumbi lokubonakalisa izibonakaliso, ukuhlalutya iimeko kwixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye ke, bathande ukwenza ummangaliso kwikamva. Ngokwemvelo, eyona meko ingaphezulu kokuqonda, izizathu ezininzi ze-alamu uya kuba nazo. Nangona kunjalo, le nyaniso ayiqinisekisi ngokupheleleyo.
Azisekho iingxaki ezahlukeneyo
Iindaba ezimbi zabathandi ezilungileyo zokutya: izazinzulu zityhila ubudlelwane obungenamkhethe phakathi kwe-ofisi yengqondo kunye nesalathiso sobunzima bomzimba. Bobabini abantu abadala kunye nabantwana abanengxaki yokubonisa ubunzima bovavanyo ongezantsi kunoontanga bawo bacekeceke. Ngokuyinxalenye, oku kunxulunyaniswa nenyaniso yokuba ukutyeba kakhulu kubangela ukungahambi kakuhle kwengqondo, okuthintela ukukhula. Kodwa akunakwenzeka ukulibala ukuba isalathiso esiphakamileyo somzimba sihlala siphawulwa kubantu abanenqanaba eliphantsi lentlalontle, echaphazela uphuhliso.
Yazi indlela yokuhlawula iingxabano
Ukwazi ukuvelela, okukhoyo kwindalo kubantu abakrelekrele kakhulu ngokweemvakalelo, ngokwabo yinto entle. Ngokukodwa, ikuvumela ukuba xubushelongo ngakumbi, iingxoxo ezibalulekileyo, zibambe iintlanganiso zeshishini. Kwaye amandla okuqonda iimvakalelo kunye namava abanye abantu kwaye ubeke kwindawo yazo unceda ekuzinzeni iingxabano.
Sukuchaza enye kwiimpazamo zegrama
Kuya kubonakala ngathi amandla okunikela ingqalelo kwiimpazamo zopelo bubungqina bokuba nobukrelekrele obuphuhlileyo, ukulungela nokukhathalela. Ewe kunjalo, kunjalo, kodwa umkhwa wokugweba abantu kuphela nokuba babhalela okanye babhale ngempazamo, luphawu lotyekelo lokuthambeka kwezigqibo. Ekugqibeleni, abantu banokungxama, batywinwa, batywinwe, ukubandezeleka kwi-Dyslexia okanye banganikezeli ngokubaluleka okukhethekileyo kwikoma.
Unokuqikelela ukuphuculwa kwengxoxo
Ukufumana ukucinga okuphuhliswa okungaqhelekanga, ukukwazi ukutsala izigqibo kwizinto ezincinci kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwezinkcukacha, i-smart chaza ngokulula indlela enye okanye enye incoko eya kuphuhliswa ngayo, imeko ethile iya kuphuhlisa. Kunzima ukumangalisa ngokutshintsha ngesiquphe kweyelenqe, kodwa ukujonga nabo bacuphi kunye ne-scoma ayinakwenzeka. Abaphandi babenethemba lokuba kwixa elizayo baya kuba nakho ukubonisa ubungqina phakathi kokukwazi ukuqikelela abanye abantu bephindaphindiweyo kwaye baphuhlise ubuchule bokuqonda kwinqanaba lenzululwazi.
- Ndicacisa ngokulula impinda yonxibelelwano kwiincoko kwaye ndicacisa indlela yokuziphatha yomntu ukuba ithandabuza ubukho bento "yokuthanda". © ISerenesis / Reddit
Ufumana ngokulula i-analogues kwaye ukhethe imizekelo.
Elinye icala eliphezulu lobuchule becala kukukwazi ukwakha ngokukhawuleza unxibelelwano phakathi kweminyhadala eyahlukeneyo kunye ne-phenomena. Ngenxa yoko, awunazo iingxaki ukwenzela ukuchaza enye okanye enye ingcinga, khetha umzekelo wokuqala noqaqambileyo okanye ufumane into efana ngayo, ekuqaleni, azixhunyiwe.
- Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, uCharles Darwin wayengumfana ofumanise ukuba iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zezilwanyana zihlala kwiziqithi ezininzi. Waqokelela kwaye wahlalutya le datha, kwaye ngenxa yoko, equlethe imfundiso yendaleko. Ndicinga ukuba umntu ongxamisekileyo kwaye ongcono umntu akwazi ukuqaphela iziqu eziqhubekayo. © xoetshill / reddit
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