Nyaya yaMaryan Darmer haina kujairika, nekuti vasikana vese vanofanirwa kunzwa kubva kumuzukuru wemukuru kuti muzukuru chaiwo. Asi zvaive chaizvo nhau dzakadai dzandaifanira kuteerera kuAmerican mutambi. Aive pedyo chaizvo nemuzukuru wake, asi mune ese makumi maviri nemasere aive asina kuona zvinoshamisa.
Dzidzo yemitambo yemitambo
Maryan Darmer akaberekerwa muma50s. mu NYC. Akakurira mumhuri ine masimba uye akadzidza pachikoro cheKatorike chebronx, uko vadzidzi vakatsanangura zvakajeka kuti vanhu rudzi rwakarurama, uye vari vatadzi.
Mushure mekunge Marieland akatamira kuTexas, vashandi vane maonero anochengetedza. Chokwadi chekuti pane chimwe chinhu chakasiyana vanhu, meya panguva iyoyo uye havana kugona kufunga. Kekutanga pane matambudziko ehupfumi hwevanhu uye murume kana mukadzi, akadzidza paakapinda chikoro chemitambo. Munzvimbo yekusika kwaigara vanhu "vasinga sevanhu vese."
Kurota kwezugumi
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Mariya paakange aripo mumakore makumi mashanu, muzukuru wake wekutanga akaoneka. Mukadzi uyu aive nemwanasikana chete, saka aigara achirota mukomana. Kuti ave pedyo nevazukuru, akadzokera kuNew York.
Mwanasikana akashanda zvakanyanya, saka ambuya vangu vakaita basa remukomana anenge nguva dzese. Marieland akashandura basa rake, akanyorwa uye akatsamwira kodzero dzevakadzi. Ndiani aiziva kuti munguva pfupi aifanira kuita nekushingairira kodzero dzemuzukuru wake.
Vamwewo vambuya vangu uye muzukuru asina kujairika
Marieland akada kurera mukomana kuti haana kucherechedza musikana wemusikana zvachose. Akazviisa mumapfupi uye mahembe, akatenga mota, marobhoti nemapistols. Uye mukomana haana kufarira vese. Maryni akatotarisa muzukuru wechikoro, kwaaidzidza vanhu vega. Asi akatadza kumumisa ipapo kwenguva yakareba. Ini ndaifanira kuchinja nzvimbo yedzidzo yechikoro chenguva dzose. Maryan akabva asina kupa kukosha uku, achifunga kuti huswa hwacho hwakangove uine hukama muchikwata.
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Tevere vaiva kukoreji neyunivhesiti. Kese nguva ino, Maryan haana kumboona izvo zvisinganzwisisike mumukomana wake. Akatarisa zvakanyanya nezve mwenga emuzukuru. Iye murume akakura, akagogodzwa 22, uye pakanga pasina musikana pedyo. Maryan akarota vakura-sekuru.
Frank kureurura
Marieland paakatanga kuyamwisa murume uya nekuda kwekuti yaive nguva yekuwana musikana, akamubata neFrank kuzivikanwa. Zvakazoitika kuti makore ese aya 22 mukomana iye amene akanzwa kunge mukadzi. Akareurura ambuya vake, izvo zvaizoda kuchinja pasi.
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Maryan akashamiswa. Haana kunzwisisa kuti aisakwanisa sei kuona shanduko dzakadaro mumuzukuru. Kupfuura zvese, vaive pedyo zvakanyanya, mukomana akagovana naye ambuya vake nezvakavanzika zvese, akavimba chaizvo naye. Saka Maryan akafunga nguva yese iyi. Asi zvakange zvisina kudaro. Ambuya vaiziva nezve muzukuru kwete vese.
Tora chokwadi chaive chisiri nyore
Nepo mukomana ari kugadzirira kushanda zvepabonde, Maryan achazova ambuya zvakare - zvino muzukuru. Mukadzi anobvuma kuti pakutanga ainetsa kuti atore chokwadi, nekuti akatyora nheyo dzake dzehupenyu hwese. Akarerwa zvakasiyana. Uye kunyangwe munzvimbo yevatambi, akatarisa zvakanyanya, asi aisatarisira transgender zvachose mumhuri yake.
Mushure memazuva mashoma ekuvhunduka, kuda muzukuru akakunda. Maryani akanyorera mukomana wake, ayo anotsigira 100% uye akagadzirira kuoneka muzukuru. Akatanga kuverenga mabhuku acho uye akatarisa mafirimu pamusoro pekuti pasi payo pasi, sei manzwiro anoita vanhu mune mumwe muviri unonzwa. Izvo zvakabatsirwa zvikuru nekutarisira vatambi vane mukurumbira, nekuda kwekuti dambudziko rekushandurwa rakanyarara kuve chimwe chinhu chinorambidzwa.
Zvino Maryan arikusangana nezve izvo zvakabviswa muzukuru wake nechimwe chinhu. Semuenzaniso, chidanai zita rakafanana kana kumuudza "iye". Icho chokwadi chekuti kuvanhu vazhinji vanoita kunge trifle, transgender inonzwisisika zvinorwadza.
Maryan anozvidemba chete kuti kune zvakawanda ndangariro uye mafoto ane muzukuru. Asi kana munhu asina kugadzikana mumuviri wake, anoda ruoko rwunobatsira, kwete kutiza. Nyaya yaMaryan yaMarrilly yakadzidziswa kukoshesa hupenyu hwechokwadi.