Iyo loser munhu kana kwete - yekugadzirisa iye chete. Zvese mhando dzevamwe ingori pfungwa yavo yekuona. Ehe, kune maitiro emagariro.
Semuenzaniso, patinoziva munhu wacho mushe, iyo nhanho, matarenda uye kutanga kugona. Ndinoyemura kunyange - kuchikoro, kuyunivhesiti. Isu tinotarisira zvakakura zvekugona, isu tinonakidzwa kubva kudivi, tobva tasangana ... mutambi wemumvuri wemiriwo kana mutyairi wetekisi. Zvinozoitika, kungwara, kugona, mwero wezvekutaura haana kugamuchira kubuda. Chimwe chinhu chakasarudzika, chakashata ...
Iwe unogona kutarisa matatu marudzi evanhu vakadaro.
1. Nyanzvi dzakapetwa nechisikigo, "favouriti dzevamwari", dzinogona kutaurwa. Kusanganisa kwepfungwa, runako, zvepfungwa zvepfungwa. Kukura kwematarenda. Mhuri ine zviwanikwa zvekuvandudzwa kwemwana akadaro. Kubva ndichiri mudiki, zvakagadzirirwa pabasa rakakura, mufaro wemunhu, kugeza muumbozha.
Uye pano kukanganisa! Zvese zvinopihwa kune munhu akadaro pasina kunetseka, semuchato wand, nguva dzose mune zvese. Haatore simba, haazorane maoko ematombo edombo anonzi "Peak kukurira", haashiviriri hupfu hwekugadzira, haamubudise chingwa chake mukutsvaira kwechiso. " Asi, sezvaunoziva, vabereki havasi vekusingaperi. Pamwe nezviwanikwa zvakaunganidzwa navo. Akasiiwa ari ega, munhu akadaro anowana kushoma kwacho kushoma.
Musangano, ikozvino imwe yeimwe, zvipingamupinyi chaicho, anotyora nekukurumidza. Kana kudzokorora kutyisa: "Hezvinoi, hupenyu chaihwo!" Zvese izvi magumo nekushatisa pane yakaderera social level. Izvo zvakasara zvemaitiro ehungwaru zvishoma nezvishoma zvinopera zvishoma nezvishoma, uye tinogona kucherechedza kuchembera kwechikuru kubva pamiedzo yemunhu, ine hupfumi husina kukwana kutaurirana nenzvimbo yavo yekare kwaanovhara nazvino zvachose.
2. Ungwaru uye kugona kugona zvakanyanya kupfuura zvakatipoteredza, "manyorerwo" mumhuri yePygmys. Inoziva gifold yayo, ichirwara nekusakwanisa kuziva iyo kana kuti isingasviki kusvika padanho razviri. Nehurombo, hapana kana munhu mumwechete anogona kukoshesa kugona kwemwana uye kumubatsira pakuchinja mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Kazhinji vabereki vanoshingairira "akangwara" akangwara, achinyemwerera uye kurova, sekunge achifambisa hurombo hwake.
Saka, pakati pevarwere vangu pakanga paine jaya riine hunyanzvi hwemasvomhu, anorambidzwa kupinda muyunivhesiti uye akamanikidzwa kushanda semurume weimba yemunharaunda (80s ezana ramakore). Nekuda kweizvozvo, kushungurudzika, kudhakwa kwekutanga, zvido zvekuzviuraya.
Kazhinji mumakore, vanhu vakadaro vanotsamwa uye vane godo, vachiedza kusimbisa vese avo vakakwanisa kuzviziva ivo pachavo. Ivo vanonzwisisa zvakawanda nekuda kwehungwaru hwavo, asi nekuda kwekutsemuka hakuchina kugona kusimuka.
3. Vanhu vakatadza nekuda kwekuda kwakaipa kwemumwe munhu. Kazhinji inowanzo smart, vechidiki vanokwanisa vanotambura nedzimwe dhigirii rekufunga, vakanyanya kusaziva uye nechido vanoona chokwadi. Aya ane ruzivo nevamwe vake, vatungamiriri, kunyange hama. Izvo zvinoratidzwa nejaya racho sechipo chekutanga chekutanga "kune yakajairika kesi": Iko kukura kwesainzi, mukurumbira weYunivhesiti yeNyika, batsira timu yekambani. "Ndiani, kana asiri iwe?".
Makore anoitwa, asi mushandi ane tarenda achiri seririmo se "jenareta yemazano", izvo vamwe vanogashira purofiti, kana muranda ekuverenga, kana mudzidzisi akasununguka "mudzidzisi wake." Iko hakuna munharaunda, nyanzvi, kukura kwemari.
Mushure menguva yakati, kukosha kwekunyangarika muvanhu mukuru "tarenda", uye yakaputswa mu "vanhuwo zvavo." Kutanga chimwe chinhu chinononoka, uye hapana kana zviwanikwa. Kuziva nezve utsinye kusazvishandiswa pachayo, uye wobva wakandwa sekusina basa, dambudziko renzvimbo yake? Ehe saizvozvo.
Chinhu chimwe chete chinogona kuyarirwa Uye, chokwadika, dzidza kuvadzivirira - kubva kuParitiitic "" pfungwa "dzinoda kuziva, shanje dziva.
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