Dale Carnegie mudzidzisi anozivikanwa, mudzidzisi, munyori wemabhuku mazhinji. Mupiro wake kune psychology ingori yakasarudzika. Zvino, nerubatsiro rwemabhuku, vanhu Carnegie vanodzidza kubva kwatiri, vanozviziva uye kutaurirana. Imwe yemabhuku anozivikanwa Dale anotaurira nzira yekukurumidza kuronga munhu kwaari. Pfungwa dzakafanana nevanhu pasi rese dzinoshandiswa kuitisa bhizinesi, bhizinesi kutaurirana uye kungotaurirana nevanhu. Nekuda kweizvozvo, hupenyu hwevaverengi kuri kugadzirisa! Ini ndinofunga zvakakodzera kuteerera zano rake!
Izvi zvinoreva kuti zvinodikanwa kuti uvabate nemutsa, usatarisira zvakafanana mafungiro ari pachavo. Ndipo paunorega kubva kune chimwe chinhu kumirira, uye iwe unotanga kuita zvisina udyire, kushamisika kuti zviri nyore sei kutaura nevamwe. Kuti ndikude iwe, iwe unofanirwa kutanga uzvida iwe pachako. Uye zvakare Carnegie mubhuku rake akanyora kuti vanhu vasina kunaka uye hunhu husingafadzi, iwe unongoda kukanganwa, panzvimbo pekugadzira nzvimbo yekutsiva. Zvikasadaro, iwe unogona kuzvikuvadza zvakanyanya. Muzhinji, Pacifism, I.e. Kurwa nechisimba, uye kuda muvakidzani kunogona kuteedzerwa mumabasa ese eCarnegie. Zvichida nekuda kwekuti iye amene aive achienda kumhuri yevarombo varombo uye yakaunzwa muMweya wezvemweya wechiKristu.
Hapana munhu anoda nekusingaperi uye akaiswa kune vasina kunaka kuvanhu. Izvi zvechokwadi zvinodzokororwa mushure memaminitsi mashoma ekutaurirana. Izvo zvakakosha kuti uve nemafungiro akanaka, uye kunyange kune mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma kunzwisisa zvakanyanya zvakadzikama. Turimist inokweverwa kune vamwe, nekuti inomutsa mamiriro. Iyo inozvivimba uye yakanaka vanhu vepedyo vamwe vanovimba zvakanyanya. Nenzira, Carnegie akaona izvi muhuduku hwake, paaive achishanda semumiririri wekutengesa uye kutaurirana nehuwandu hwevanhu. Kupfuura zvese, Dale aifanira kuita kuti vanhu vatenge zvinhu, uye zvaive netariro kuti akamusiya. Chimwe chikamu chakakosha chemafungiro emafungiro emwoyo wose!
Iyo iri nyore kubvisa matambudziko uye kutadza kushandisa basa. Iwe haugone kugara zvakadaro, iwe unofanirwa kugara uchiwana chidzidzo. Uye kutonga kwakadaro kwakaonekwawo kuCarnegie nekuda kwezviitiko zvake. Paayiri kuyaruka, Dale akashanda zvakanyanya papurazi revabereki vake, uye zvakare paakadzidza kukoreji. Yakanga iri basa rakaoma iyo yaibvumira munyori kuti anzwisise mutengo wemari, pamwe nekubatsirwa kudzidza kuti usazvinetsa pamatanho, uye kunyatsotaura zvinokoshesa muhupenyu. Carnegie akataura kuti hupenyu hupfupi kwazvo kuti uzviite pamhepo. Hechino chokwadi chaunonyatsoita chokwadi!
Usachera munguva yako yekare, nekuti haugone kuchichinja. Nehurombo, vanhu kazhinji kazhinji vanokanganwa nezvazvo, kuzvitambudza neuyedzo uye vanopamba kwavo. Ehezve, Carnegie akataura kuti zvikanganiso zvavo zvinoda kuongororwa, asi hazvigoneke kushandura kuongororwa mukuzvinyengerera, nekuti hakuna kumbobatsirwa kubva kwazviri. Zvakakosha kudzidza kudzora pfungwa dzako, kusavatendera kuti vadzokere kune vekare.
Hapana akanakisa, asi zvakakosha kuti unzwisise izvi uye kushanda kuti ubvise zvikanganiso zvako. Hupenyu hwavo hwese hunofanira kuzvivandudza, zvinova zviri nani, zvakapusa, hushamwari. Asi haufanirwe kuishandura kuita zvekunyepedzera. Hapana chikonzero chekurembera pane vanhu vatambi, vanovapa mhosva nekuda kwezviito nemazwi, zvakakosha.
Bata vanhu nokunzwisisa, saka iwe uchava iwe pachako kuti uzviwane iwe pachako!
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