Hupenyu hwevabereki vemazuva ano huzere nezvakasiyana-siyana, semuenzaniso, "ipa mwana kune wekuvandudza usati wazorora," "Kupinda Mwanakomana / mwanasikana wepamusoro-soro kuti aberekwe kuti munhu wese aendeswa " Panguva imwecheteyo, imwe yechinhu chekupedzisira chinowanikwa nekutsungirira kwakakodzera kushandiswa zviri nani. Iyo yezororo reHoliday indasitiri yacho inozoratidzwa neye mitsva inoshamisa mamiriro ezvekuzvarwa kwevana.
Iyo midziyo yakataura nevaranda vezviitiko zvakadaro, chiremba wepfungwa uye vabereki uye vakawana kuti ndiani pachokwadi ini ndinoda mhemberero dzeLush - Vana kana zvakadaro vabereki.
Yakakura sei isu tese isu tose yatinoungana pano nhasi. Chii?
Kssia, Amai vevana vaviri, vanotenda kuti zuva rekuzvarwa kwemwana izororo remhuri rakanyarara, mazviri hapana nzvimbo yekuvaraidza nourin.
- Zvekumhuri yedu yeVana - Ichi chikonzero chekubatana patafura imwe, zvinokotedza zita rekuzvarwa, idya chikafu chinonaka pamba uye rangarira zuva ratinowana mwana. Mwanakomana wangu mukuru ane makore mashanu, uye mudiki maviri, uye ndinotenda kuti hazvizivikanwe nemazororo ane ruzha, yakakamurwa nemaonero eKasenia. - HERE Zororo pamwe chete nechipo inotitadzisa zviuru zvishanu zviuru. Zvichida kana vakura uye vabvunze zororo rakanaka kwazvo, saka isu tinoronga zvichibva pane mikana yebhajeti yemhuri yedu.
Catherine, Amai vevanasikana vaviri, pane kudaro, vanotenda kuti kupemberera mabiko ekuzvarwa mukamuri yemutambo nehurongwa hwechirongwa - zvakaringana uye unogona kudana hama dzangu dzese neshamwari.
"Ndiri kuda kuti vana vangu vazive kuti iyi izuva rakazara kuti zuva rako rekuzvarwa rinofanira kupembererwa." Ini ndinoda kuti vanzwisise kuti zvakanaka kana paine shamwari zhinji uye vanouya kwauri nekuda kwezuva rekuzvarwa, "akadaro Catherine. - Muhuduku takanga pasina nhamba yakadai yemitambo yemitambo uye yevana vevana. Ehe, uye vabereki vaive vechizvarwa chedu nenzira dzakasiyana, nekuti vaive vasina kugadzirira kushandisa mari yakadaro kuzororo. Zuva redu remhuri Bhajeti zuva rekuzvarwa mukamuri remitambo rinodhura avhareji yezviuru zvemazana zana nemakumi mashanu.
Tatiana (zita rakachinja) - kuronga kwemazororo ane ruzivo mune akati wandei kirov masangano. Muchiitiko chake, chinogovera mapoka akati wandei evabereki. Zvinyorwa zvekutanga zvine chiyero chevazhinji "kutenderera" mazuva - 5, 10, makore 15, kuitira kuti vakarangarirwa kuvana kwenguva yakareba.
- Vabereki vanowanzotanga kuzvibata sevhoti kupuruzira shopiholics. Kana vachirongedza zororo, vanoita kunge vanotakura kuchitoro uye vanobata zvese nemasherufu pasina parsing: Ini ndoda kuratidzwa, ini ndoda kuratidzwa, moto, sirivha, ratidza zveruzivo, "anodaro Tatyana. - Mune ino kesi, basa revaironga nderekuti vashanyi havana kuvhunduka neiyi "nyoka" yezvirongwa zvakasanangurwa, uye vana havana kuneta neiyi nzira. Holifition yakanaka kwazvo inowanzopa kuoma - nekuda kwehunhu hwezera uye zuva rezuva.
Rimwe chikamu chevabereki, maererano nemusikana uyu, - avo vakanaka kucherechedza zviitiko zvese muhupenyu hwemwana. Semutemo, vanhu vakadaro vanotyaira chishuwo chekuratidza kugona kwavo kwemari. Kazhinji izvi hazviitwe nevana, asi kune vamwe vabereki. Asi iyi ndiyo imwe nyaya, zvinyorwa zvemaremzo. Kazhinji vatengi vakadaro vanongotaura zvakananga kuti vanongoda kurasikirwa nemhino.
- Asi zvakadaro, vateereri vakuru ndivo vatengi vepakati. Chinangwa chavo ndechekuwana kukanganisika pakati pemufaro wemwana kubva kuzororo nemutengo wayo, "anodaro musikana.
Akanganwa zororo
Sezvo mhuri yepfungwa dzeNynschologist rinoratidzira naZezhda Bushemelev, iwe unofanirwa kupemberera mazuva ekuzvarwa kwemwana uye zvinokwanisika kubva gore rekutanga rehupenyu, asi kunyangwe yakachena sei kupemberera, mwana haamunakamuke.
"Vana havazorangarira izvi vachiona izvi nezvechisimba chakadai saAmsia yezera revana," anotsanangura nyanzvi yacho. - Mukutanga ndangariro dzechidiki diki yekupera zuva. Mwana anokura, uye zvishoma nezvishoma hupenyu hwesherufu hwekuyeuka zvinowedzera, kusvika pakupedzisira, haisvike nguva isingaverengeki yekuchengeta ndangariro dzakatakura. Dzinenge makore mana kusvika matanhatu, zviitiko izvi zvicharamba zviripo mundangariro.
Zvinoenderana nekutarisa kwevarimi, zviga zvevana zvevana pane zvakawanda kazhinji hazvisi kungodiwa chete, asi dzimwe nguva zvinototyisa. Anna Kashina Orgarizer anoti zvinowanzoitika kana vana vakasangana nevanhurume kana kana mutambi aine inzwi guru.
- Dzimwe nguva vabereki vanokumbirwa kuti vashandise zororo nokungwarira, sezvavakatove neruzivo rwezororo risina kubudirira. Vana vanobva kumakore maviri kusvika matatu vanokwanisa kutya animator, nekuti yakakura kupfuura makatuni kana mabhuku, - anoudza musikana.
Amai vaHega uye kuronga kwemazororo ane ruzivo rwakakura marina Sunzo Sunzo zvinyorwa zvekuti zvinonyanya kukosha kuti uteerere kumwana uye pasina mhosva yekumanikidza:
-Kunakidza manzwiro hakutsamiri pazera, manzwiro evanotenderedza uye mamiriro epfungwa eimba yekuzvarwa yakakosha. Kana mwana akatya nehuwandu hwevanhu kana mamiriro asina kujairika, hakuzove nemanzwiro akanaka. Asi gore, angangoita makore mashanu. Zvinoitika, vana vanotya kana kunyara uye havauye kuzosangana nevana vakuru. Kuita kwevabereki uye anomuridza pachavo kwakakosha. Hazvibviri kuita kuti mwana atambe kana kutaura kuti anotya kutya kutya.
Fomu tsika uye kwete kupamba
SaNadezhda BusheMelev zvinyorwa, kazhinji vabereki vari kuyedza kudzorera kushomeka kwevana vavo nerubatsiro rwevana (kushomeka kwechimwe chinhu - approx. Ed. Semuenzaniso, vabereki pavakanga vasina zororo rakajeka muhudiki, uye zvakanyanya kuda. Uye nekuuya kwemwana, vanoratidzika kunge vachirota kuti varote vachipfuura nemwana wavo. Sekureva kwepfungwa, hapana chakaipa neizvi
Panguva imwecheteyo, Nadezhda Bushmelev Inonyevera vabereki kuti pane mukana wekupaza mwana nemazororo akajeka mukukudzwa kwake. Basa revakuru nderekuratidza uye kuumba muvana hupenyu hunhu, miganhu yezvakanaka uye kudzidzisa kuziva chiyero mune zvese zvikamu zvehupenyu. Panguva imwecheteyo, chiremba wepfungwa anonyanya kutaura kuti munhu wese anozvisarudzira vhiki nevhiki uye aipemberera mazororo, nekuti kune vanokosha mukana wekurarama zviitiko zvevana vavo, asi mune mamwe mavara nemanzwiro.
- Zororo racho harifanirwe kusakara, uye isingakanganwike. Uye haina kutsamira pakukwirira kwekeke kana bhajeti, "anodaro Marina Sunzova.