Vakuru vanowanzoratidza zvehasha kune vamwe vana vevanhu - nhasi hazvisi zvisina kujairika. Panyaya iyi, chishuwo chevabereki chinomuka kuchengetedza vanasikana vavo kana vanakomana vavo kubva mukutsoropodza kusingafadzi, zvakaipa uye kusada kubata kwevanopfuura, vavakidzani nevamwe vanhu vekunze. Maitiro Ekuchengetedza Vana Kubva Kune Vakuru? Kudzivirira Kwaungaita? Edza kucherechedza izvi mazano mashanu ezviuru - mashanu ekudzivirira.
Mutemo 1. Taura "Kwete"
Kubva kuvatya vechidiki, dzidzisa mwana kuti "kwete" uye kunyatsotaura chimiro chako uye kuti kana vamwe vasina chokwadi newe kana kuti havaite zvakanaka kuti: "Handidi kutamba mutambo uyu", "Ini handidi "Tizvi sazviri zviripo," "Kwete, handifanire kubata." Tora vana kuti vasarega chete munzvimbo yako yekunyaradza!Mutemo 2. Usavanza chero chinhu kubva kuvabereki
Udza mwana wako kuti anogona kugovana newe chero dambudziko. Vimbisa kuti iwe haungatenderi, kunyangwe mwana akaisa chinhu chinotyisa. Kana mumwe munhu akagumbura mwana, akanzwa, akatsoropodzwa, akanyadziswa, akabata kana kutya, iwe unofanirwa kuzviziva! Isa chivimbo, vana vashoma. Iyi ndiyo hwaro hwezvinhu zvese.
Mutemo 3. Usabata!
Dzidzisa mwana kuti "kubata harigone kubatwa". Asati atumira mwana kuchikoro kana gadheni, itsanangure iye vabereki chete, sekuru, sekuru, Nanny kana mukoti pamberi pePapa kana amai vanogona kubatwa kumeso nemiviri. Hapana anogona kubata mwana pasina mvumo yake, kuranga uye kurova, kumanikidza chimwe chinhu, nezvimwe.Mutemo 4. Remekedza nzvimbo yako yemwana
Remekedza nzvimbo yemwana. Uye ngaazvione. Ratidza pane yako muenzaniso, sezvazvinofanira kuita senge. Usamanikidza mwana kuti aite izvo zvaasingade, usarange pamberi pevamwe vanhu, nguva dzose disassumble mamiriro ese ezvinhu, kutaura nezvemanzwiro, zviitiko, manzwiro. Bear Tevere, iva shamwari!
Mutemo 5. Remekedza nzvimbo yemunhu yevamwe vanhu / vana
Ive neshuwa yekudzidzisa mwana kuti aremekedze miganhu yemumwe munhu! Kune Mutemo weGoridhe: "Endai nevanhu sezvandaida kuuya nemi." Tsanangura Mwanakomana kana mwanasikana kuti vamwe vana nevakuru vanewo manzwiro, vanogona kutsamwa, zvinosuruvarisa, zvinogona kuda kuenda pamudyandigere.