Mutsauko pazera: Unobata sei hukama

Chizvarwa chimwe

Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinocherekedza kuti mutsauko wakasununguka kwazvo pakati pevakabatana nemaruva emakore 16. Hukama hunogona kuve hwakasimba uye hunobudirira nekuti vaviri vaviri ndeche chizvarwa chimwe uye zvakanyanya mukana vanogovana zvakajairika uye vane maonero akafanana neupenyu. Mukuwedzera, vazhinji vevaridzi vezera rinenge imwe nzvimbo yemari uye kuzadzisa zvese pamwechete.Bonde

Iyo proximity pakati pevakabatana-vezera kazhinji inowanzoenderana. Zvese zviri zviviri zvine mamiriro akafanana emuviri - hutano, huwandu hwekudzidziswa, ruzivo. Naizvozvo, vanosvika pakuedza kurara pamwe kazhinji nekushingairira.

Mukadzi mukuru

Maitiro akadaro ehukama kumazana emakore akakurudzirwa nenharaunda. Varume vakuru vakuru vakatora vakadzi vevasikana vadiki, uye vaive mune hutano hwakadaro mukubatana kwakadaro. Nhasi, hukama hwakadaro hadzina kujairika. Musikana mudiki achiri kukwezva murume akakura aine runako uye mutsva, uye izvo, achitsvaga rutsigiro uye kutsigirwa mumunhu wacho ave munhu akafanana nababa vake (psychologically).

Bonde

Kune varume, muchato nemukadzi wechidiki uyu mukana mukuru. Mwero wekugutsikana mumapundu akadai anongoita. Kutenda kune mumwe munhu ane simba, varume vadiki mumaziso avo. Kunyangwe hupenyu hwavo hwehupenyu huri 20% kupfuura muvarume vane vabati.

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Mukadzi mukuru murume

Rudzi urwu rwehukama runonyanya kuzivikanwa pane zviri pamusoro. Asi vakadzi vazvino vakazvimirira vari kuwedzera kukwezva majaya. Ivo vakawana zvakakwirira zvakakwirira uye hazviiti kuti vakundwa nesimba remurume mukuru.

Semutemo, muhukama, uko mukadzi akura, vaviri vaviri vanoratidza kuti ndiye anotora chinzvimbo chinotungamira mumaviri - anoita zvisarudzo zvichienderana nezvakawanda zvehupenyu.

Bonde

Mubonde, vaviri vakadaro vane rudo rwakawanda. Peak pamusoro pebonde hwevakadzi, soupenzi, kusvika kumakore makumi matatu, muvanhu - muna 18-25, saka zvido zvavo zvichave zvichenderana.

Kunze kubva pamitemo

Sangano inoda kuisa matampusi e eyejist, kutaura nezvehukama hwevakabatana nemusiyano pazera. Kana musikana ari mudiki kuna mudiwa wake - iye muvhimi wenhaka, uye kana murume ari mudiki pane mukadzi - iye zvirokwazvo.

Muchokwadi, zera harinei nekaviri hukama hwakasungirirwa mukuremekedzana uye rudo! Psychological kukura (kuda kutarisirwa uye kutakura mutoro), kwete chiratidzo mupasipoti.

Pazera ramakore makumi maviri neshanu, vasikana vari pamberi pechidiki mukuvandudza kwepfungwa, saka, vanonzwa vakasununguka nevazhinji vakaroora. Panogona kunge paine musiyano mumakore 3-5 makore akakwana pano.

Kana zvasvika pakuroora, kazhinji vanoti ivo vanoti musiyano wakanaka pakati pevakaroorana kana murume aine makore masere. Nekudaro, hazviwanzo kurondedzerwa kuti chokwadi chekusarongeka chakakosha

Musiyano uyu unogona kupa zvimwe zvakanakira, nekuti, kune rumwe rutivi, murume, akatofunga nyaya dzekunyama uye anogona kuve nerutsigiro rwemhuri, uye kune rumwe rutivi, vatinosangana navo vachiri kuramba vari vanhu vezera rimwe chete, Uye zviri nyore kuti vanzwisisane.

Panguva imwecheteyo, kunyangwe paine izvi zvinogamuchirwa "zvakanaka" muzera "pane manhamba maererano nemichato yakasimba ndeyokuita musiyano kubva kune vabati vepasi pemakore 1-2 chete. Kana musiyano wezera revakaroorana ane makore mashanu uye pamusoro, huwandu hwekurambana hunowedzera.

Uripamusoro musiyano wezera, iyo yakakwira chikamu chevarambisi chakarambana. Kana murume akura kupfuura akasarudzwa wake kwemakore makumi maviri kana anopfuura, kurambana kunoitika mune anopfuura hafu yezviitiko.

Izvo zvikonzero ndezvechokwadi kuti wanano yevanhu nemusiyano mukuru hazvigoneke, kazhinji kazhinji zvakafanana. Pakutanga, mumubatanidzwa wakadaro, mukadzi ane zvimwe zvinotarisirwa kubva kumurume (kazhinji zvinhu), uye vangangodaro vasina kururamiswa kana kusashanda sechibairo chakakwana kuti mukadzi arege kusawirirana kukuru newako. Uye zvakaoma kwazvo kudzivisa kusanzwisisana mukuroora kwakadaro, sezvo paine kuzorora kwechizvarwa chokurarama, uye kusiyana kwekufarira kwehupenyu uye zvinodiwa.

Uye zvakadaro, kubva kumatehwe chero mune chero kunze, uye chero zvakadaro, mufaro uchipindirana hazvibvi pazera, asi kubva kuvanhu avo vari kuvaka hukama ihukama, uye zvishuwo zvavo zvekuvapo. Kana zvirizvo, chero matambudziko anogona kugadziriswa.