Kana kamwe chete muhupenyu, isu tese tinodonha mumamiriro ezvinhu atisingakwanise kutsungirira takazvimirira: Tiri kurwara, takakuvadzwa, takarohwa, rakabiwa, rakabiwa mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma pasina rubatsiro pasina rubatsiro pasina rubatsiro. Uye isu tinofanirwa kuvimba zvachose nemunhu asingazivikanwe zvachose, kunyangwe asinganzwisisike anopfuura. Ehe, iyi inhengo huru. Asi mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, haufanirwe kusarudza.
Uye zvakadaro, kuvimba nemunhu uyu, kunyangwe kuburikidza nekurwadziwa uye nekuziva nezvekuziva, edza kuona zviito zvake, kazhinji zvakadzora zvishoma zviri kuitika.
Ndeipi ngozi yekuvimba zvakanyanya?1. Munhu akabvuma kutibatsira kuti tiite kubva mukufunga kwakashata. Iye anoziva kuti anenge munhu wese akawira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, saka achaedza kutenda kunyange nekutora chikamu shoma. Uye nditende ini, huwandu hwekuonga kwako huchafunga!
Heino muenzaniso kubva muhupenyu. Mumwe mukadzi wechidiki akaburuka mumugwagwa, asingatarisire kupfuudza vacclist. Mumwe wavo, achidzingira kusvika kumugwagwa, akabvisa ruoko rwake kubva pamaoko ake. Yakanga iri pasipoti, huwandu hwemari yakakura, kusvetuka kushanda, mamwe magwaro. Pasesorarue akagona kubata naye uye kusarudza "prey". Nezvi "zvinyoro" chake "akabvunza musikana mari yacho katatu mutengo wekoko. Ehe, akapa. (Zvichida "yakanaka kupfuura" uye vanopinza vakashanda mune vaviri vaviri.)
2. Nyaya yacho yakapindira mumamiriro ezvinhu inogona kuve nenjodzi yakawanda yevatadzi vekutanga. Mukupururudza kwepfungwa pane mienzaniso apo vasungwa pavakatora vakaroorana vadiki vakaroora, izvo zvaifamba pasi pemugwagwa (pamupendero wesango, vakapfugama. Akaita chimiro chaakagumburwa nekusaremekedza kwemurume wacho kumusikana, akauya akamurova, uye akabva abata chibharo musikana, etc.
3. Munhu anoda nemwoyo wose kukubatsira. Asi haina mikana yakadaro, hunyanzvi, simba remuviri uye yepfungwa. Pamwe akambodzora iye, aida kuratidzika kunge ari pamberi pako zviri nani kupfuura zvaari chaizvo. Ehe, rubatsiro rwake rwekurindira haruna kuunza chero rubatsiro, asi zvakare zvichirwadza.
4. Wakabvuma kubatsira nekuda kwekushushikana kwekuramba. Asi pachokwadi, hapana chichaita (ivo havazive kuti, sei vasingade, hapana nguva). Uye iwe unotarisira uye tariro ...
5. Iye akataura kuti "achabatsira uye aponese", kutaura kwako muvengi wako, negodo uye asina kupera. Ari pano sapano kana chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi chikaitika newe, iwe unozviwana uri munyaradzo, etc. Nditenderi, zvichaita kuti uzive zvaunotyisa .
Zvakanaka, kana hupenyu hwako hwatora chimiro kuti ugone kuvimba nevamwe vanhu: vabereki vako, hama, vafundisi nevanoshanda navo uye vanonamata navo, kurwisa comrades. Kana iwe uine chivimbo mavari. Kana chimwe chinobuda hachisi chaicho. Asi kana paine mukana wakaderera, makanga mune simba, zviwanikwa, zvichaenda kuhupenyu - zvakafanira kuti uvimbe iwe pachako. Kunyanya mune zvakakosha nyaya.
Tariro ndichinyevera, chiratidzo mugwenga, kuti tsime ranyorova kwazvo. Sevanoimba mumamwe manhamba enhema: "Hupenyu uhwu hwauya, Nadya uye umirire." Zvinonakidza, handizvo here? Asi zvakakodzera here kutarisira mumwe munhu, achinja basa rehupenyu hwako pane mamwe mafudzi evamwe? Kunyangwe kana munhu ane mutsa kwauri - haasi omnonpotent, sekunge dzimwe nguva aigona kusazvida.
Iwe unogona kutarisira Mwari, ngoni dzake dzisingaperi, asi panguva imwe chete chaiyo - nekushinga uye nekushingaira. Netaana chete, pasina kutenda mukati make uye kubatsirwa naMwari uye patronage - iyi ndiyo yakawanda isina kusimba. Kutenda kunokundikana kubva mukupererwa, kunopa simba, kunobatsira kudzivisa kutya vane munhu anenge aremerwa.
Chengetedza vanhu vakakubatsira iwe, pane mumwe mweya wemweya wako. Kune vashoma vakadaro izvozvi.
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