"Kana achiri kuyaruka akasvika pazera revanhu uye akanyoreswa mufurati Pese asiri iye muridzi, achiri kuramba achishandisa dzimba dzevabereki. Panguva imwecheteyo, anoonekwa mabasa ekubhadharwa kwenzvimbo dzekugara dzemvura nemagetsi. Kodzero dzekuda chikamu kana chakaratidza imba yakaparadzana mune ino nyaya, iye haana, "Marina panteleeva zvinyorwa.
Nekudaro, maererano negweta, kana ikaitika kuti jaya racho rizosiya imba yababa, "achasiya kwenguva yakareba" (semuenzaniso, kuti ashande kana kudzidza kune rimwe guta), vabereki vevaridzi vanogona kudzima Kodzero yekushandisa dzimba yavo uye kudzoka ichave yakaoma.
"Kana mwana asvika pazera revanhu vazhinji, pamwe chete chero mumwe munhu muridzi anogona kunyorwa. Zvinotora nguva diki yenguva uye nyore kushandisa kana mwana asiri iye muridzi wegogo. Anobviswa kweiyo gore rine makore gumi nemasere ikaitika seinotevera: Kutanga iwe unofanirwa kuedza kutaurirana murunyararo. Haina kubatsira here? Isu tinotanga kuunganidza zvikonzero (humbowo) kubvisa. Kutevera chirevo, isu tinoshandisa humbowo uye isu tese titumire kudare. Dare racho rinofunga kudaro uye richasarudza, "anowedzera Arthur merkushHEV, Director weRuzivo rwekuongorora Dominfo.ru.
Zvikonzero zvekurasa zvinogona zvakare kutariswa kuti hukama hwemhuri pakati pemwana nevabereki hausipo, nyanzvi yezvinyorwa. Izvi zvinogoneka kana:
Mwana haaitidzi imba pamwe chete nevabereki;
Haibatsiri kumhuri bhajeti;
Hapana kutsigirana;
Haararame uye haabhadhare mari yekubhadhara (asi iyi haisi hwaro, asi chimwe chikonzero chekuwedzera chekubvisa).
Chimwezve mamiriro ndechekuti kana mwana mukuru ari mumwe wevaridzi. Mune ino kesi, kuita kubvumidzwa pasina kubvumidzwa kwaro kunobva kune pekugara hakugone, kunyange kana pekugara pangoparaka yacho isina kusimbiswa. Kana iwe uchiri kukwanisa "kunyora" jaya, hazvigone kukanganisa muridzi wawo wezvivakwa.
Mugari mukuru anogona kutengesa mugove wake. Asi nekuda kweizvi iwe unofanirwa kutanga watanga kuendesa kune vamwe varidzi, ndiko kuti, vabereki.
"Ichi chimwe chinhu chakatorwa kubva kugove kubva kugove zvinogona kunge zvisina kukwana kuti vatenge nzvimbo dzekugara dzakasiyana uye wechidiki vanozofanira kuve nemunhu mukuru kugadzirisa matambudziko aro ekugara. Semuenzaniso, Tora, tora imba kana kugara kwevabereki vako, "marina pantteleeva zvinyorwa.
