Munzvimbo yeKirov, seye muRussia seyakazara, dambudziko remhirizhonga mudzimba dzinodhura zvakanyanya, asi havasi kutaura nezvazvo. Chaizvoizvo mudunhu ravanongotanga mazana emakesi ematsotsi anopesana neTrania dzeTuransans Home, muchokwadi ivo vakatonyanya. Vakadzi vazhinji - vanoreva kuti vanobatwa nechisimba kazhinji - vanosarudza kunyarara uye kushivirira mutariro yekuti zvese zvichachinja. Isu tinoudza nzira yekuziva mhirizhonga mudzimba uye kupi kwekutsvaga rubatsiro.
"Ndainwa - uye munhu akasiyana zvachose"
Muzhinji, vakadzi nevana vanova vanobatwa nechisimba. Varume havachangogona kubatsira, kunyange kusaziva, nekuda kwekuti izvi hazvina kugamuchirwa munharaunda.
Kirovchanka Marina (zita racho rakashandurwa - approx. Ed.) Akararama nevanotsigira kwemakore mashanu, asi ivo vaive vasina kuroora. Zviratidzo zvekutanga zveHusviniro vega, Marina akatanga kuona makore matatu ekugara pamwe chete.
- Akava nehasha chete mushure mekunwa, uye shanduko yacho yaive yakapinza kwazvo. Kudonhedza mabhodhoro maviri emabhora - uye sekunge munhu akasiyana zvachose. Pane imwe nguva ndakatanga kufunga kuti aive nehunhu hwekuparadzanisa. Zvakanaka, hazvigoneke kuchinja zvakanyanyisa, "Kirovchanka akaudza.
Mushure mekudonha pane chero chirevo, mumwe murume akapindura akapinza, uye pane imwe nguva akatanga kutambanudza maoko ake: aigona kumhanyisa, semuenzaniso, kupa chikwama. Sekureva kwaMarina, pfungwa dzehasha dzakaitika panguva yavo yekutanga yekufambisa kunze kwenyika.
- Isu takamwa zvishoma uye kupokana. Akafamba akandirova nemaoko maviri munzeve. Ini ndinorangarira kuti yakafamba sei kutenderedza madziro, uye ipapo ini ndakabhururuka ndichiringirira snatch yakadaro. Ndakatanga kuomba, ndichishevedzera chimwe chinhu pamusoro pekuti haana kundibata, uye akatonyanya kutsamwira. Pane imwe nguva ndakasviba mumaziso angu, ini handina kupa chirevo kuzita zviito zvangu, kwaingova nemamwe magumo ekuziva. Ndichangotanga kusimudzira maoko angu, uye ndakazopedzisira ndatyora ruoko rwake nezvake, "iyo Kirovka yakatsanangurwa.
Mushure meichiitiko ichi, iyo cohabitant yakatendeukira kwaari nekuchenjera uye kugara ruregerero nekuda kwekuzorora kwakundikana. Asi kazhinji, maitiro ake haana kuchinja. Marina anoyeuka kunyadziswa kwetsika, achiti: Mashoko okutaurirana zvakaipa, anogadzirira uye hapana anoda.
Chete kumusoro kweiyo iceberg
Director wenzvimbo yepakati yesocial uye psychological rubatsiro nina yeershova kuti dambudziko remhirizhonga mudzimba rakavakirwa pane iyo nheyo yeiyo iceberg - chikamu chidiki chete chiri pamberi. Chaizvoizvo, idzi inhoroondo dzechisimba nehutsinye hwakawandisa, iyo nzanga inozivikanwa, kana kutenderera kwevakabatwa ne psychotherapist psychotherapist. Nekudaro, mu "pasi pemvura chikamu", maererano neyepfungwa, pane zvese zvakarongeka kudheerera kwakasiyana-siyana, kutuka, chisimba chepfungwa, hwepanyama, hwepanyama uye hwepamoyo.
- Haasi munhu wese anoziva kuti chero kumanikidza, kupindira kune rusununguko rwehupenyu, kutendeka kwepanyama uye kwepfungwa kuchisimba. Kutuka uye kunyadziswa kwekuremekedzwa ndeyechisimba chepfungwa. Kana yakavharwa pamba, vakatora foni uye zvese nzira dzekutaurirana uye vakati "ramba ini", chiri chisimba zvakare. Uye hazvina basa, kubva kune vavariro dzipi, "Nina Yershova Zvinyorwa.
Nyanzvi ine chivimbo chekuti mhirizhonga ndeye cyclical, uye kana zvakaitika kamwe, ichadzokorora zvechokwadi. Mushure mekutsamwa, "nguva yeuchi" inouya, inomanikidza munhu akabatwa kusava nechokwadi kuti chii chakaitika. Ipapo hukama hwacho hwakaoma - uye nechisimba zvakare. Panguva imwecheteyo, nguva dzehutsinye dzikaita nguva refu, uye iyo "mbou", pane kudaro, yakaderedzwa.
Nei uchimhanya uchapupu munharaunda?
Nina Yererhova anotaura kuti kushushikana munharaunda kunoumbwa nemirau yezvehupfumi uye yezvematongerwo enyika. Semuenzaniso, murume akashanduka asingashandi, uye mukadzi anoda mari kune zviri mukati memhuri. Kubva pasingakwanisike kuchinja mamiriro ezvinhu, murume achaitira hutsinye kune avo vari padyo nevana, mudzimai wake kana iye asina kusimba.
Izvo zvinokanganisa mamiriro uye media umo iyo nhau yekudyiwa kazhinji inoyeuchidzwa nemishumo yematsotsi. Zvinoita sekunge kuti mhirizhonga yakanyorwa uye yakajairika, saka izvi zvakajairika, vakati Ershok.
Cinema, maererano ne psychologist, inopawowo nyaya yacho. Nina Yerershova inokamura mafirimu mumhando mbiri: "Iyo inonzi TV Series nezve rudo" uye vanoona pamusoro pemapurisa, zvizere zviitiko zvechisimba. Muchirungu cherudo, zvakare, kune chisimba: zvehupfumi kana zvepfungwa kana zvepfungwa, asi zvakavanzika kuseri kwemufananidzo wehupenyu hunofadza, hupfumi.
Chat bot kubatsira vanobatwa nechisimba
Sangano rose sekuremekedza kwese kunoreva mhirizhonga mudzimba. Kana muchirongo chinotevera ruzha uye nyonganiso, havasi vese vanoenda kunonzwisisa. Sekureva kwaNi Yerershova, inosanganiswa neyetsika stereotypes. Semuenzaniso, zvinotendwa kuti murume ari Hongu mukadzi mumwe chete naSatani uye kuti hazviitike mukati memhuri, hazvinei nazvo. Kune rimwe divi, izvi ndizvo zvakaitika kuvanhu. Semuenzaniso, vavakidzani vanonzi mapurisa, murume wake akapihwa mari. Ipapo vakaroora vakayananiswa, uye vane mhosva vaiva vavakidzani, nekuti chirango chacho chacho chaifanira kubhadhara kubva kumhuri yebhajeti.
Kazhinji, zvibayiro izvo ivo pachavo havabhaririri rubatsiro kubva pakutya vadiwa, nekuti vana, kubva pakunyadziswa kuti zvakaitika kwavari, kubva pane imwe mhosva. Naizvozvo, vazhinji nezvezvakashata zvavo kutaurira vasingazivikanwe mumagariro. Izvi zvinongedzo zvave chinhu chekudzidza kwesainzi kubva kuVyatga uye Tomsk University.
basa iri uye kuziva rapanzvimbo dambudziko akasunda nzvimbo socio-mupfungwa rubatsiro kune pakusikwa vakanciq Chat Bot. Iyo sevhisi inovandudzwa nekutsigirwa kweiyo potanin nheyo. Nepo ichitangwa muedzo yekuyedza. Iyo sevhisi inogamuchira meseji dzisingazivikanwe nezvechisimba uye unotumira zvinyorwa uye zvekutaura nezvemayanzvi kune vaunotangira rubatsiro.
- Mubvunzo unoramba uchiita zvinotevera: Ramba uchigara pamwe kana kugadzirisa dambudziko nenzira dzakasiyana. Hazvibviri kuchinja maitiro emumwe munhu, tinogona chete kuzvishandura, uye nekubvunzana kwesychologist, Psychotherapist anobatsira mune izvi, "Nina Yershova Zvinyorwa.
Iyo psychologist zvioni zvekuziva kuti chat chat inongova nhanho yekutanga mukugadzirisa dambudziko. Anoita basa rekuzivisa, asi nyanzvi chete inogona kupa rubatsiro chairwo.
Mhosva uye Chirango
Muna 2016, apo Mutemo paMutemo wekurohwa wakarohwa, mazhinji emhosva mumhuri akapinda mukutsvaira kwekutonga uye akawira pasi pechinyorwa cheRussia Federation.
- Gore rega rega pane chinyorwa ichi tinoita anenge zviuru zvitatu protocols maererano nevanhu vakatanga kurohwa, ndiko kuti, vakakonzera kurwadziwa kwemuviri pasina mhedzisiro. Uku kungave kusiri chete kukakavara kwemhuri chete, asiwo kupokana pakati pevavakidzani, vaipfuura, vaipfuura, - vakacherekedza musoro weDunhu rakabvumidzwa mapurisa emubatanidzwa weDunhu reKirov, Mikhail Koochilov.
Kuti uwedzere kuonga kwekurohwa mukati megore, mhosva yemhosva iri pasi pehunyanzvi. 116.1 yemutsotsi kodhi. Nekudaro, chirango chakapfava chakapfava - yakanaka yezviuru zvinosvika zviuru makumi mana, zvinosungirwa zvinosvika makumi maviri nematatu kusvika maawa makumi maviri nemana, kubata kwemwedzi mitanhatu kana kusungwa kusvika kumwedzi mitatu.
Kuenzaniswa nezvikumbiro chaicho kumapurisa, Latent (zvakavanzika - Mupepeti.) Mhosva dziri mumhuri-yemhuri pane 3-6 times zvimwe.
Marina haana kumbobvira akwiramo kumapurisa, maererano nemusikana, haana kana kufunga.
- Pamwe, ini ndakanga ndisingade kupambadza hupenyu hwake nezvinyorwa zvemhosva, uye zvirokwazvo hazvisi zverufu kana chimwe chinhu. Tine mafungiro eRussia, sezviri pachena, anokakavara.
Marina akaedza kakawanda kubva mukudzvinyirira kumba, asi akanamata nguva dzese kuti aregererwe uye ataure kuti hazvingaitizve. Makore mashanu chete gare gare akawana simba rekubva zvachose. Kubva ipapo, makore anenge manomwe apfuura, Marina akaroora, akabereka vana vanasikana vaviri.
- Mumwe munhu haafaniri munhu anoshivirira. Vakadzi, semutemo, vanotenda kuti akarova kamwe - kanganwira, zvimwe haazoitike zvakare, "anodaro Mikhail koochilov. - Kana mukadzi akakwidza nyaya yokurapa, ruzivo kwatiri ruchauya, tichazviziva nezvazvo. Asi kana akati, Akarohwa netsaona, tsaona nekukuvara kwake mumuviri, uye chiremba anotenda kuti izvi zvinogona kuve nyaya isiri ye-nzira, saka hatisi kuona chokwadi ichi. Pano, basa rekupindirana uye vaongorori vePDN - kuti vazvione, taura newawakabatwa, nevavakidzani, kumwe kunhu, kune kumwe kungaona nekukuvara kwemuviri mumunda wechiso, maoko, mapfudzi. Ipapo isu takatanga kuitisa kuongorora.
Sezvo Mikhail Skchilv akatsanangura, art. 116.1 Zvematsotsi eRussia Federation inyaya yekupomerwa kwepamhepo, ndiko kuti, kana munhu akabatwa asingade kukwezva muridzi wemba, ipapo mapurisa haangamboita chero chinhu. Nekudaro, nyaya idzi dzakatambura nevana, hukama hwakakosha, uye mune idzi kona mapurisa ane kodzero yekumutsa mhosva yemhosva pasina chishuwo chevabereki.
Panguva imwecheteyo, kunyangwe kana chikwangwani chakakwidza mhiri kumapurisa uye vakanyora chirevo, chinogona kupa nyaya, uye pane zviitiko zvakawanda zvakadaro.
- Zvinyorwa 116.1 ("kurohwa"), 117 ("kushungurudzwa") uye 119 zveiyo mhiri kwematsotsi eFederation ("kutyisidzira kumhondi") makomichi nekudzivirira kaviri. Ndokunge, ivo vanodzivirira komisheni yemhosva dzakakomba - zvichikonzera kukuvadza unorwadza kuhutano uye kuponda. Isu tine mukana wekudzivirira mhosva iri padanho rekuwedzera kana kushoma diki kukuvara mumuviri. Naizvozvo, isu tinopa munhu akabatwa kuti anyore kukohwa mukati memazuva gumi apo pane cheki iyo yaanoda kukwezva anokanganisika uye anoomerera pane izvi. Kana asingade, anonyora chirevo chekupikisa pamusoro pekuyananiswa kwemapato. Kazhinji vakadzi vanokakavara nemhinduro yavo pachokwadi chekuti vakauya nemurume wake uye vakangamwira, "anodaro Mikhail kokotov.
Nekudaro, iyi tsika inoshanda chete kune mhosva dzematsotsi. Nekutonga kwekutonga, iye anenge akanganisa acharamba achiruramisirwa. Kana paine meseji pamusoro pekurohwa zvakare, saka cheki yacho inoitwa pasi pechinyorwa 117 yemutsotsi yeRussia Federation ("kushungurudzwa"), zvichikonzera kurwadziwa mumuviri kune mumwe munhu kanopfuura kaviri. Muna 2020, nyaya 274 dzakange dzakatangwa, uye mhosva makumi matanhatu dzakaitwa kuvana.
Hapana kurwadziwa - hapana mhosva
Mikhail Jochlov. Mufananidzo: UMVD muKirov Dunhu
Vese vaya vakaita mhosva kumunda wemhuri uye hukama hwepamba, kusanganisira mune dzidziso dzekutsvairwa nezvekuramba kunoitwa kwegore nekuda kwemhuri nevanodzimba dzimba.
"Kufunga nezvechivi kunouya mumhuri iyi, kutarisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu, anodaro nevavakidzani," Mikhail Schelokokov akatsanangura. - Dzimwe nguva vavakidzani vanoziva nezvemhuri kudarika hama dzepedyo vasingagare navo. Kana mugore pasina mashandisirwo, hapana kutyorwa, wobva wabvisa kubva mukuzvidavirira. Kana chokwadi chiri, isu tinofunga, kutungamira kana kupara mhosva iyi, uye kune rimwe gore tinoisa account.
Zvese kutyorwa kunogona kutaurwa kumapurisa. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti uzive kuti mutoro unouya chete kana munhu arikusangana nemuviri.
- Tiri kutarisa zvakadaro. Kana munhu akasangana nekurwadziwa, saka kune kutyorwa. Kana isina kuedzwa, saka hapana chidzidziso uye chinosarudza kubviswa kwekugadzirwa, "iyo yakavharidzirwa.
Mapurisa anofona paKirovska kuti arege kunyarara kana iwe uri kuona chiono chechisimba, uye kutarisisa kwakapihwa kune zviitiko nevana.
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