Pandakaenda kuchikoro, misangano yevabereki ndiyo chete nzira yechokwadi yekupa ruzivo rwakakodzera kuvabereki, nekuti pakanga pasina Internet, uye foni yakanga isiri yese. Mukuvapo kwenzira dzemazuva ano yekutaurirana, kutaura nevatumwa, pamwe nekurambidzwa kwakavanzika pane kutaura zvirevo zvevadzidzi, misangano yevabereki yakashanduka kuita zvekare.
Kutanga kubva kuChintergarten, ini ndaigara ndichipinda misangano yevabereki, ndichifunga nezvazvo nebasa rake raiita. Ipapo pakanga pasina chekutaura uye nharaunda network nemibvunzo yakawanda yakada kuve nekuvapo pachako. Makore matatu apfuura, mwanakomana ari mugiredhi re8, ndakarega kufamba pamusoro pavo uye ndinodemba kuti handina kuzviita kare. Ini ndinoda kugovana nevaverengi veAdMe.ru, nei ndakagamuchira chisarudzo chakadai uye chii zvachinja kubva ipapo. Spoiler: Hapana, kunze kwekuti tsinga dzave dzakasimba uye yakawanda nguva yakaonekwa.
"Vamwe vasikana vanotaridzika kutsvedza, uye vamwe vakomana vanogara vachidya kudya kwemumwe munhu"
Vatove mu zero, vadzidzisi vanofambira mberi vakanzvenga kutaura kwako, uye kubvira muna2006, apo Mutemo "pane data" raigamuchirwa, maitiro akatora chimiro chakakura. Zvino momamwari vaAmai vanogona kuenda kumisangano vakasununguka, vasina kubata maonero anonzwira tsitsi evamwe vabereki. Panguva imwecheteyo, misangano yakarasikirwa nechinangwa chikuru. Mushure mezvose, vabereki vanonyanya kukosha pane zvese zvakabudirira zveKadha, uye kwete kuita kirasi yese. Nekudaro, zvinokwanisika kudzidza nezve maitiro kana kuongororwa kwemwana wako izvozvi chete pamusangano wega wega nemudzidzisi kana kune imwe mhando yezvinhu zvisina kunanga.
Mwanakomana wangu paakanga ari mugiredhi re8, mudzidzisi, asina kudaidza mazita aya, akati vamwe vasikana vaipenya uye vachikonzera zvipfeko, uye vamwe vakomana vanogara vachidya kudya kwemumwe munhu. Iwo maminitsi gumi nemashanu ekuti mudzidzisi uye vabereki vevasikana vakaziva kuti, maererano nekutonga, pane kutaridzika, moms naamai nevakomana vakomana vakatarisa mumafoni. Maminitsi gumi nemashanu anotevera, nepo vembere yeEhemeri vevana vevasikana vakaudzwa, vabereki vevasikana vaishaikwa.
"Vana vako havazonyore basa rekuzivisa"
Mazwi "iwe wakanyanya kupusa" usatendera kwete chete vana mumakirasi, asi zvakare vabereki pamisangano. Mumwe mudzidzisi aigara achikufuridzira, vabereki: Vana vako havazonyore basa rekuzivisa, vasingadi kupfuudza, havazopfuuri, havangabhadharwe, vese vakapfuura zvese, vakanyora uye vakapfuura. Asi uyu wekuisa mudzidzisi wekutyisa, uye anotonyanya kusimba - nei asinganyaradzi chero kupi. Fungidzira kuti template ingadai yakaitika sei kuvabereki, kana kamwe kamwe, pamusangano, mumwe munhu kubva kuvadzidzisi akati: "Ehe, iwe unogona kuzorora uye usanetseka, une vana vakanaka, ivo vanobudirira."
"Vabereki vakakurumidza kuputika kwevakaroora, munhu mumwe anozotamira maziso ake uye achawa, uye mumwe wacho anofanira kuibata"
Mudzidzisi wekutanga mwanakomana wangu aive mune ese mukadzi akanaka akangwara neanogona kushandira chinzvimbo chinzvimbo. Akapedza kugungano ranyatsogara, uye asati ararama 9 PM, hatiwanzo kutsauka. Pamusoro pevhudzi, Natalia Ivanovna vakakurudzira zvinhu zvakakosha pezvidhinha. Semuenzaniso, mukomana mumwe akamuudza kuti dzimba dzake dzakatsiurwa pamusoro pevatatu vepamusoro. Akarwa hafu yepahafu imwe chete Zvakanaka, asi nei ndiri mutsetse wekuti Troika, zuva rakaoma rekushanda rinofanira kuteerera hurukuro iyi, panzvimbo pekuenda kumba uye kuteerera mwana uyu chaiye? Dzimwe nguva Natalia Ivanovna haina kungogumira kune hurukuro. Kana akangobvunza vabereki vese kuti vaende kunzira uye kuparara kune vaviri vacho. Kupfuurirazve mumwe wevakaroorana aifanira kuvhara maziso uye kutanga kudzoka, uye imwe inodiwa kuitora. Saka takashanda pakuvimba mukati meboka revabereki. Chokwadi, mumwe mamy haana kubatwa. Zvinhu zvakawanda zvaive zvichiri mumakore mana echikoro chekutanga: Takapenda pamisana yeumwe neumwe, takapwanya mamwe mashizha uye vakanyora tsamba ivo pachavo pazera revana vedu. Zvichida zvese izvi zvingave zvinonakidza kwazvo, asi mune mamwe mamiriro, nevamwe vanhu uye nekukumbira kwavo.
Misangano pazuva rimwe: Chikoro chakagadzikana, kwete vabereki kwazvo
Kamwe chete mangwanani pandinononoka kumusangano. Mota yaifanira kuisa metres kwemazana matatu kubva kuchikoro. Paanenge achimhanya murima pane yekunyungudika yechando, yakawira mune imwe mhando yedenderedzwa, akagogodza makumbo ake. Uye zvese nekuti "kuve nyore kwenyika" chikoro chakafunga kuita misangano mumakirasi ese pazuva rimwe, ikozvino mota dzevabereki vese vechikoro dzinogara mumugwagwa wese. Mukuwedzera, mune dzimwe mhuri kune 2-3 vechikoro, uye amai chete vanofamba paungano, iyo isingakwanise kupaza mumakirasi matatu. Kazhinji, chisarudzo ichi chekufunga chekuonekwa kwababa hakuwedzere chaizvo.
"Uye ndiudze zvakare masero mangani kudzokera?"
Pandakanga ndichiri kuenda kuungano, nguva yavo inowanzowedzera vabereki vaPetrosyan, pamwe chete nezvisinganzwisisike kana kuti vana vekutanga kwazvo nababa. Mimwe mibvunzo yakafanana mudenderedzwa re101 ("U ndiudze zvakare, masero mangani ekudzokera?"), Majee asina kukodzera uye "zvinokosha" chinhu chakakosha chevamwe musangano chero upi zvake. Uye kana mukutaura iwe uchikwanisa kumhanyisa zvese zvisinganzwisisike uye zvisingakoshi, ipapo kumusangano, uve nemutsa, gara uye uteerere.
"Hadzina mavara sei?" Zvakanaka, iwe wakagadzira! "
Mwanakomana wangu paakatendeuka kuchikoro chitsva, ikoko kwemakore mazhinji mibvunzo yese yakagadzirisa chidiki chidiki "chevabereki" vanoshanda. Imarii yekushandisa pazvipo zveGore Idzva, maitiro ekutakura zviitiko zvekunze, etc.Vakagadzirisa, vachisiya kumisangano yakagadzirirwa. Pandaimbove, ndakafuridzirwa nemuenzaniso kubva kuInternet, zvakapihwa panzvimbo pekutenga maruva musi waSeptember 1 kuti ushandise mari yerudo, ndakaseka. Ndakaona kuti kuravira kwangu kusabvumirana nezvinodiwa ne "Kutonga kwepamusoro", kungave kusarudza kwezororo rinotungamira, kushongedzwa kwekirasi kana zvipfeko kune konsati. Panguva imwecheteyo, ini handina basa neizvi zvese, zvakakosha kuronga shanduko uye kuputsa komiti yeVabereki.
"Kirasi haidi kudzidza! Madzishe Emasvomhu Anonyunyuta nezvevana "
Nei mamiriro ezvinhu apo vadzidzisi vachinyunyuta nevabereki vasiri pamubhedha wemunhu uye Hooligans, asi kwekirasi yose, vava zvakajairwa nemakore achangopfuura. Kunyangwe achiuya kumusangano uye achiti: "Vana vako havaite basa ravo remumba, nekuti vamwe vadzidzisi hapana matambudziko akadaro. Neimwe nzira pamusangano wegiredhi regumi nematanhatu, mudzidzisi mutsva wemasvomhu anovhura musuwo uye anozivisa kuti: "Vana vako havadi kudzidza zvachose, hapana munhu akanyora matatu, iwe unofanirwa kuita chimwe chinhu." Vabereki vese vanozvitutumadza kubva pakutsamwa, asi vanyarare, uye pano mumwe baba vakanyarara chinyararire: "Chii chekuita zvekuita ndiko kuchinja vadzidzisi." Mudzidzisi anoita kunge akamunzwa, asi ndinobvumirana naye zvizere naye. Ini handinzwisisi kuti nei kubva kwandiri, mubereki, anoda kuzadziswa kwebasa rezvidzidzo, uye ini handidi kushandisa nguva yangu, ndichiteerera kune izvo, zvinoitika, zvakaipa vana vedu vese.
Kwemakore 11 ndaizoshandisa mazuva mashanu ehupenyu hwako kumisangano yechikoro
Mwanakomana paaive mugiredhi re8, musangano wevabereki zvakaitika pakutanga kwegore rechikoro. Kukurukura nezvechikoro chiri kuuya (ndinoda kuwedzera "zvisina maturo"). Yedu inotonhorera, maererano neyako yakajairwa, yakadhonza kirasi yakafanana. Gore zvisati zvaitika, baba mumwe chete kubva pa8 "B", mauto, vakaunza cuisine kune nhandare yechikoro uye vakapa pilaf, yaive yekuda. Isu gore rino tinofanirwa kurasikirwa ne "bashchki" mhino. Vabereki vanoshanda vakakurukurirana, maitiro ekurongedza nhandare yemifizi munhandare yechikoro, ndakaedza kuverenga kuti gore randinoshandisa sei pazvinhu izvi zvakanaka mupfungwa idzi. Izvo zvakaitika kwemaawa gumi nemaviri pamwe nemugwagwa munzira mbiri idzi. Ndokunge, mumakore 11 ndaizoshandisa maawa 132 ehupenyu hwangu hazvisi pachena kuti chii. Uye ndakafunga: zvese zvakaringana.
"Uye kana vabereki vese vakamira kuenda kumisangano?"
Musangano unotevera, uyo wakazvipira kumhemberero yeGore Nyowani, ndakasarudza kusafamba. Kuongorora Ndinoziva uye nokudaro, hapana matambudziko neMwanakomana wangu, kana iwe uchifanira kusaina chimwe chinhu - chinotumirwa nemwana, ruzivo rwakakosha ruchanyorerwa mukutaura kwemubereki. Kushaikwa kwangu, zvinoita, hapana munhu akaona. Isu kazhinji hatisi chaizvo - hafu yevabereki vanouya nguva zhinji. Pakupera kwegore, mudzidzisi wekirasi aive asina kuchena: "Nei usiri iwe pamusangano? Hauna kurwara? " Ini ndinopindura kuti aiwa, ini handioni pfungwa yacho. Uye kurapwa pamhoreti nei. "Uye kana vabereki vese vakamira kuenda kumisangano?" - akabvunza mudzidzisi. "Ipapo, zvimwe, iwe ucharega kuvashandisa," ndakadaro. Vhiki yakazotevera ndakadaidzwa kumutungamiriri. Mukadzi asina kunyatsoomesa weSoviet akatanga kutsanangura kuti iyi ibasa rangu revabereki uye, kana ndikaramba kuzviita, chikoro chichamanikidzwa kuzvitaura. Kutyisidzirwa kwaive kusine chinhu - hapana mutemo wakadai unomanikidza vabereki kuti vapinde misangano. Naizvozvo, hakuchavi nanhasi nekuramba. Ini ndakanyatsotsanangura mutungamiriri, nei ndisingauye kuungano.
Kweaya makore matatu, ndakaona kuti mamiriro emhuri ari kudzikamisa. Kare, ini zvakadaro, ini ndakaunza chikamu cheimba chisina kunaka uye dzimwe nguva ndakatanga kuyambuka mwanakomana wangu: "uye anna Mikhalovna anoti hausi kuita basa remumba, uye svetlana nikolaevna anogunun'una kuti pane zvidzidzo mufoni, nezvimwe" nezvimwe "nezvimwe" nezvimwewo " Ehe, uye zvakawandisa, mamiriro ataurwa mushure megungano aive asina kunaka: nevazhinji ini handibvumirwi, chimwe chinhu chinonyangarika, asi haugone kukanganisa, iwe uchiri kugara uye kufunga kuti ndakabvisa iwo musangano uyu neshamwari . Iye zvino kusawirirana uku kwakabuda muhupenyu hwedu. Ruzivo rwese rwakakosha mutungamiri anotonhorera anokanda mubereki kutaura. Kana ndichida kutaura nevamwe mudzidzisi mumwe - ndinoenda kuchikoro. Mari yandinodudzira kumepu. Kwenguva yese ino, ini handina kumbonzwa kuti ndasuwa chimwe chinhu chakakosha. Panguva imwecheteyo, zvinofanirwa kucherechedzwa, ini handirambe kutaurirana nevamwe vabereki zvachose. Murume wangu uye ini ndinoshanyira makomisheni uye "kunakidzwa kunotanga", pabasa pane zvechikoro disces, tinoenda kunzendo dzinotonhorera. Misangano yevabereki, ndinotenda, ndakatendeka uye munguva pfupi iri kutevera kungave kuchanyangarika zvachose, kana kuenda kune iyo online fomati.