Nei vamwe vanhu vachiwana zvinangwa zviri nyore, miviri rusununguko uye vanonakidzwa nezuva mazuva ese, vamwe vachinakidzwa nekukwira simba kuti vamuke mumubhedha? Hunhu hwakareba kunge uchiedza kugadzirisa chirabwe ichi. Zvinotaurwa nedzidziso kuchiitiko chikuru nhasi uye chii chinofanira kuitwa kuti ubudirire?
Kusvikira kuma80 ezana ramakore ramakumi maviri zvakatendwa kuti kiyi yekubudirira kwemunhu idanho rekusimudzira kwehungwaru hwayo, kureva IQ. Iyi timu yekutanga IQ yakaonekwa panguva yehondo yenyika yekutanga uye yakashandiswa nevaAmerican mukusarudzwa kwekunyorera: Vakanga vakatsunga vaizove chikamu chezvakajairika, uye vavanozotumirwa kuchikoro chevatungamiriri. Asi mukurumbira wepasi rese weIQ anowanikwa mumakore makumi mana nemashanu uye akatevera aine ruoko rweKanna aizenka, akagadzira bvunzo dzayo dzinotendera kuti dzibvumirane neyekupedzisira. Iyi miedzo ichiri kushandiswa nehuwandu hwemakambani mune kusarudzwa kwevanhu kunzvimbo yepfungwa uye ongororo. Ndingati mune imwe pfungwa vanoyera kugona kwemunhu kuti vawane nguva dzose muzvinyorwa zvemazuva ano uye kuti vawane ruzivo rwesainzi, kunyora zvirongwa zvecomputer, gadzira tekinoroji matsva, nezvimwe.
Mubvunzo unomuka: Ndeapi mafungiro ekugona kwakadaro kuti uwane hupenyu hwakabudirira mukuwoneka kweshoko? Haisi chete yekuita mari uye kuwana huwandu hwemagariro emagariro, asi zvakare nezve mufaro wevanhu uye kuwirirana (muhupenyu hwega, mudenderedzwa reshamwari, kubasa).
Kungwara kwepamoyo: Chii uye icho chaanopaChii chinobudirira, kana zvisiri pangangariro? Mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe ezana ramakore rapfuura, idzva rekutevedzana paradigm rinoonekwa, rakavakirwa padzidziso yeEQ - iyo nhanho yehungwaru hwepamoyo.
Kana iwe ukakumbira tsananguro, saka kungwara kwepamoyo ndiko kugona kuziva manzwiro ako uye manzwiro emubvunzi uye kugona kuvabata.
Zvinorevei? Iyo yakakwira mwero weEQ inobatsira kutaurirana, kunyanya kana yakakwirira uye yemanzwiro anokwanisa kuiswa. Munhu ane hungwaru ane manzwisisika anokudziridzwa, anogona kuendesa nyore maonero ake kune vaanoshanda navo nevatengesi kuti varege kuvakuvadza, kushora, kuronga kupokana, kukurudzira nenzira kwayo, uye nenzira kwayo. . Hunhu uhwu hunobatsira chaizvo kuzadzisa huwandu hwebasa uye mubhizinesi.
Muna 1995, chiremba wepfungwa Danilman anogadzira bhuku racho "kungwara kwemanzwiro", dzidziso itsva inozivikanwa chaizvo mumasisita.
Imwe breaktrage mumunda wekutsvagisa Eq yakava dzidziso yeTracy Bradbury kuti kungwara kwepamoyo kunogona kudzidziswa - iye akataura mubhuku rake "Ingwaru 2.0".
Nekudaro, dzidziso iyi yakamuka nezve dzidziso iyi. Ndiina EQ, unogona kunyatso kutaurirana, tonga yako pachako manzwiro uye kushora zvine hunyanzvi. Asi ko kana zvese izvi zvimwe zvisina simba?
Iye zvino vaongorori vakatanga kutaura kuti kubudirira kwemunhu muhupenyu kunonyanya kukosha nekumwe kwesimba rayo rakakosha - VQ.
Simba rinokosha uye kwainoendaZvinotendwa kuti pfungwa yekuunzwa yeFrance Psychologist Pierre Pierre Kaas, iyo yakatsanangudza VQ (Stillity quotient) sekugona kubhadharisa simba roga uye vamwe, kuitisa vanhu vari kumashure kwavo.
Kana IQ uye EQ inogona kudzidzisa uye kusimudza, ipapo vq zvakare? Chaizvoizvo.
Fungidzira muviri wako semudziyo unozadzwa nesimba rakakosha. Pazasi pechikepe mune maburi, kuburikidza neine simba rehupenyu rinotevera. Aya maburi anotukwa asina kurongeka uye kukuvara kwepfungwa kubva kune zvakapfuura zvine chekuita nevabereki, nhengo dzemhuri, shamwari, shamwari, pamwe nevamwe, pamwe nekutaurirana kazhinji nevanhu vasina kunaka uye maitiro akaipa.
Iwe unogona "chigamba" Drain maburi vachishandisa nyanzvi yekuita psychologists kana kuita kwavo kwekudzidzisa kwepfungwa, senge maitiro eHofmani, akagara, gadziriro yemuviri, gadziriro yeGestalt, gadziriro uye zvimwe zvakawanda.
Kuti ubvise zvishoma, zvakakosha kuti uzadze simba rese rakarasika. Izvi zvichabatsira kufunga kwakanaka, hutano hwakanaka, kurara uye hutano uye mutambo, kutaurirana nevadiwa. Imwe nzira yakaratidzwa ndeyekutsvaga chiroto chaicho kana chinangwa chikuru chaunoda kumuka mangwanani.
Mukusimbiswa kweiyi dzidziso muna 2010, bhuku rekuchinja reMufundisi wePfungwa dzePsychology yeSean Eykor ", umo musayendisiti, kuti zvibudirire, zvinodikanwa kuti ufare uye wakanaka, mufaro inokwezva kubudirira.
Mafungiro akanaka uye akakwirira mwero wesimba rinokosha ratidza kubudirira kwemunhu muhupenyu? Zvidzidzo zvichangobva kuitika vanoti mukuda kwedzidziso iyi. Unofungei?