Muzvinafundo Gumivsky, uyo muzana ramakore rapfuura akanyora basa resainzi pane psychology uye hunhu hwehunhu hwevaAvidchology vateresi, vakataura izvi: "Kana munhu waunoita naye, mumwe wehupenyu hwako, kana ari Uye purofesa uye kana aine makore makumi matanhatu okukura, musamurega ari oga nekuunganidza kwake! Muyedzo wakakura kwazvo. "
Nyanzvi dziri kutsvaga kurwiswa pabonde mune zvese, funga kuunganidza chimwe chinhu chakafanana nekubhadharwa, izvo zvave zvichikosha munguva dzekushanduka-shanduka. Pane imwe nguva yehupenyu hwake, anenge munhu wese anogona kuunganidza chimwe chinhu. Kazhinji, vana pa7-10 makore vari pasi peiyo mutambo uyu. Ipapo vazhinji vanofarira kuunganidza vanonyangarika, asi dzimwe nguva vanowanika zvakare. Izvi zvinowanzoitika muvanhu vanopfuura makore makumi mana. Masayendisiti anobatanidza maitiro akadaro nezvinoita kuti: Kuchiva kwekuunganidzwa kwechinhu kana munhu achiri kuziva zvido zvake zvepabonde uye ari kuedza kutsiva chero chinhu chekuunganidza chero zvinhu, kurira kwavo .
Kazhinji, kuda kwemuunganidzi uye nerudo nerudo zvakajairika, ichi chimwe chinhu chisingaonekwe, chisinganzwisisike, chokwadi chekuti munhu asina chokwadi haana kunyatsonzwisiswa. Imwe neimwe diki inocherechedzwa nekuunganidza hazvizive kuti godo ripi rinonzwa kuti dzimwe nguva hungwaru dzimwe nguva kuvanza nyaya yezvinhu uye kuzvifarira mukusurukirwa kwakazara. Hukama pakati pemuunganidzi nemakopi eunganidzwa wayo haasi yakawanda kwazvo pane iyo nhanho yepfungwa, yakawanda sei panguva yemanzwiro. Vateresi vazhinji vakabvuma kuti vanonzwa zvese, vanonzwa kuti anovadaidza sei, uye akafunga kuti muunganidzwa wacho unogona kupinda mumaoko evanhu, anoderedza vanhu vakadaro vanopenga. Zvakakodzera here kutaura kuti chishuvo chekutora imwe kana imwe kopi kubva kune hunhu hunoshingaira kwakakura zvekuti dzimwe nguva vanoenda kune izvi nemhosva iyi.
Sekureva kweAmerican Psychologist Richard Gotlab, kuda kuunganidza kunonyanya kukanganiswa nevanhu vachiri vadiki kana paujaya hwake, vakapukunyuka kutengesa kana kurasikirwa nevadiwa vavaishamwaridzana navo. Kuitika kwakamutsa kutya kwekuvimbika kwekuvimbika pakati pavo, nekudaro nekuwana chinhu chisingamboregi uye nekunyangarika, ivo vanowana kudzikama, kuvimba uye kuvimba uye kutonga kwakazara.
Izvo zvinhu izvo zvinounganidza imwe kana imwe zvinounganidza zviri kupupurira kune fungidziro dzayo, kunyangwe kana dzimwe nguva dzisingazivi. Saka, mabasa ehunyanzvi anounganidza vanhu vanokahadzika kusarudzika kwavo kwekugadzira. Vakakurumbira autographs kana zvinhu zvekuti vanozove vanozombove veSelborbbritis vadiki avo vanoda kunzwa kubatikana kwavo mune chimwe chinhu chakakosha, chikuru.
Chimwe chinhu chevanotorerwa - chishuvo chavo chekusimudzira, zvakarongeka zvinhu zviripo, zvivake mune imwe mhando dzevatevedzeri uye kuita kuti dzevhi dziite kunge yakazara sezvinobvira. Saka, kana, semuenzaniso, muenzaniso wekupedzisira hazvigoneke hazvigone kuitika, uye nekuzara kwemufananidzo unoshaya chimwechete, zvinogona kuve kudonha chaiko kumuteresi.
Nyaya yekuda kwemuteresi wega wega chinhu chakasiyana uye chakafanana nezvimwe zvinhu zveakateedzana panguva imwe chete. Ndosaka muzivi akakurumbira jean bodriár achienzaniswa neunganidzwa pamwe nehuku, uko kushamwaridzana uye kusevha kwakanyatsotarisana. Mhedzisiro yematehwe akawanda munharaunda inoratidza kuti vateresi vazhinji vemabhuku vanoramba vachitora nhevedzano, kunyangwe kana mamwe mabasa ezvisina hanya zvachose. Pano pano haisisiri zvakanyanya mukukosha kwebhuku, zvakadii kuti zvinova kuwedzera kwemutsara pasherufu mubhuku.
Panyaya iyi, ini ndoda kuunza muenzaniso unonakidza. Nyanzvi yeAmerica, ADVIL BIBLIOPILE, netsaona yakaziva kuti New York mutengesi isa bhuku rinotengeswa, rakafanana neiyo iri mubato rake uye inoonekwa seyakajairika muenzaniso. Iye akabva pakarepo, akauya kutaridzwa, akatenga chinhu chakataurwa, akakoka Baiff, mukuvapo kwake akapisa kutenga ndokumanikidza nyanzvi yekukwevera kuparadzwa protocol. Ipapo gwaro iri rakaiswa mubhuku rake, riite rakasiyana nemamwe, ndokuenda kunorara nepfungwa yekuita.
Haisi chete vaterengi vari kuedza kugara uye kuzere, asiwo vanhu vanotambura nekutambudzika kushungurudzika. Nekusaziva kusingaperi kwehupenyu hwako, kuita mamwe manhamba ari nyore (kugeza maoko, kusimuka matanda patafura, nezvimwewo) vari kuedza kukurira alarm iyo ingangogara ichinzwa. Vanhu vazhinji ndezveizvi uye vari kuita mukuunganidza - kukunda kuzvidya moyo, kuwana rugare. Kuve nekuunganidza kwake chaiko kunosuma imwe odhi mukuvapo kwavo, iyo inoita kuti zvive nyore kuwana kunzwa kwemhirizhonga iyo iyo mamiriro ezvinhu akapoteredzwa anonyatsonaka.
Munharaunda maCommenti inyika yose iyo yave yakanyanya kunamata kune vatendi, vausingazive. Dzimwe nguva zvinosanganisira hunhu husina kujairika, dzimwe nguva kunyange izvo zvinonzi marginalized. Semuenzaniso, injiniya yakajairwa yakatarisana zvakakwana nejasi remaoko ehurumende yeGerman yeiyo yegumi nezana ramakore uye vanogona kutaura chaizvo kuti ndeupi rudzi rweimwe kana imwe yadzo. Murimi anobva kuOhio ndeyechokwadi connoisseur ye icon pendi, iye nemaune neyekutarisa chete kusiyaniswa neRyazan Manera kubva Novgorod, nezvimwe.
Pasinei nenyaya yekuti vanoverengwa vanonyanya kuvharwa uye zvishoma eccentics, vanomanikidzwa kutaurirana, uye dzimwe nguva kana kuenda kunyika kuti vadzore misangano yavo. Pane mafungiro ekuti muteresi anozoona kushamisika kwekufarira uye anogara achinzwisisa, kunyangwe musiyano muWorldview. Saka, semuenzaniso, Mutungamiri weUS Roosevelt kamwe wawana nzvimbo yeSoviet Union uye kuti musangano wayo wepamutemo nekuda kwekuti Commissar yeLitvinovha kubva pachiitiko chechiitiko chakatendeukira kuchiitiko chevatambi vaviri vanofarira. , sekunge vana, vakazvirumbidza mumwe nemumwe pamberi peumwe neumwe. Nezvaunounganidza.
Semamwe mapoka emagariro avekuzvivharidzira, vaterengi vane zviratidzo zvavo. Nekudaro, hazvibviri kumiririra nepfungwa imwe kana chimwe chinhu mukuunganidza kwake asati aenda mune iyo nzvimbo (kunyangwe kana ramangwana racho ratove rakatorwa uye rakagadzwa).
Vateresi chaivo havatamburi nenyota yekubatsira, kunyange vachishandisa mari yakakura pakuda kwavo. Semuenzaniso, kana munhu ane nyika ine zviuru mazana mashanu emadhora, muunganidzwa wawo wakakodzerawo, saka uyu haazi muteresi zvachose, asi munhu anodyara. Sekureva kwaProfessor kubva kuUnited States Russell Protein, maitiro evatambi vanofarira vanoita zvakawanda zvakafanana nemaitiro avanhu vari kutambura neancotic uye, kunyanya, kupindwa kwemakemikari. Panguva yekutenga kopi inotevera, vanonzwa kufungidzira, iyo yakafanana nenyika yeNarcotic kudyidzana. Panguva yekutsvaga kwechinhu chakarurama, kuziva kwevanhu vakadaro kwakaderedzwa, kuda kwakaita sekunge kurara, nekuda kwekuwana izvo zvinodikanwa, vazhinji vakagadzirira zvese.
Vanokoshesa vateresi
Dzivisa kuunganidza kazhinji zvinhu uye, kunyanya, zvinorwadza zvakanyanya, kuunganidza kuunganidza rudo zvakanyanya kupfuura vanhu. Munzvimbo yematare yehunyanzvi vehunyanzvi panguva yeSoviet Union, iyo inotevera ngano yakaenda. MuOdessa, Philatilist akakura aigara munguva isati yasvika, iyo yakakwanisa kuunganidza huwandu hwakasiyana hwekuunganidza mabrambiro. Mukadzi wake aive muJudha. VaGerman pavakasanganiswa muguta, uye nhume chaiyo yavakatanga kuvaJudha, mutumwa werimwe revanhu vepamusoro akauya kumurume uye akapa magwaro, anogadzira magwaro emuteresi, izvo iye Unogona kugara chinyararire uye nekuenderera, mukudzokera kumuunganidzwa wake.
Muchiratidzo chekukomba kwezvinangwa zvacho zveChin, vakapa rondedzero yemakero, maererano neiyo "yekutanga" maJuda vairarama mumutongo wakafanana weGerman. Muunganidzi akafunga usiku hwese, mangwanani akatenderedza kero uye akagutsikana kuti German yakanga isiri nhema, uye ... yakaramba. Mukadzi wake akazopfurwa, uye kuunganidzwa kwakafa - iye akarega kuzadza, nekuti vese vateresi vevateresi, vakadzidza nezve izvo zvakaitika, vakaramba kubata nemurume uyu.
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