Nyanzvi dzakabata mayedzo maviri
Nyanzvi dzinobva kuYunivhesiti yePennsylvania yakaita kudzidza kutsva, iyo yakaratidza kuti vana vakasindimara uye vachipfuurira kana vabereki vakapindira vashoma mumatambudziko ekugadzirisa matambudziko. Mhedzisiro yekudzidza yakabudiswa mumagazini yekudavirira kwevana.
Vabereki vanogara vachida kubatsira vana vavo - vanoratidza kuti, kuraira, kupa mirairo maitiro ekuita zvirinani. Asi dzimwe nguva kupindira kwakadaro kunoita kuti vana vabate kuti vagadzirise mabasa akaoma nekukurumidza, nyanzvi dzakaziva.
Nyanzvi dzaiita mayedzo maviri. Mune mumwe wavo, makore mana uye anoronga makore mashanu akakamurwa kuva mapoka uye akavaratidza maitiro ekugadzirisa puzzle puzzle. Ipapo vana vakakumbirwa kuti vagadzirise basa ravo ndega. Mune rimwe boka, vakuru vakabatsira vana kuunganidza maoko nemaoko, uye mune mamwe - mazwi akatsanangurwa kuvana, zvakanakira kuita sei.
Kana wapedza kuedza, vana vese vakapihwa bhokisi rine puzzle, iyo yakaiswa chisimbiso ne glue. Izvo zvaive zvisingaite kuvhura iyo. Vana vakuru vakabatsirwa nemapuzzle, vakaratidza kutsungirira kushoma uye kutsungirira pane kuzvimiririra kubva kune rimwe boka.
Mukuyedza kwechipiri, vana vezera rimwe chete vakatumirwa kuboka iro vakuru vakatora danho remazambiringa pachavo. Mune rimwe boka, vakuru nevana vakagadzirisa basa racho. Vanyori vechidzidzo vakacherekedza kuti vana vanononoka kufarira sei basa racho vasati vatora danho riripo mumaoko avo.
Takaona kuti vana ivavo vane vabereki vanowanzo kupindira mumhinduro yemuzinga vadiki vaishamwaridzana. Kudzidza kwechipiri kwakaratidza kuti kana munhu mukuru atora basa rakaoma, mwana ari mubasa rinotevera anopiwa nekukurumidza - achienzaniswa nevana vakaita vakuru kuti vagadzirise puzzle vari voga.
Akaudza chinyorwa cheVabereki Dr. Psychological Science Julia Leonard.
Masayendisiti akauya kumhedziso yekuti kana vanhu vakuru vasingakanganisire nenzira yekudzidza, vana vanokudziridzira kutsungirira.
Nemhedzisiro yePennsylvanian nyanzvi, psychologist yakabvumirana uye muvambi weanotarisirwa mubereki Institute Chirongwa Robin Klovits:
Vana vane chishuvo chekuzvarwa kuti vabudirire mumabasa uye kuita kuti zvese zvinorongwa sei. Asi ivo zvakare vane chishuvo chekuzvarwa chekufadza vabereki vavo.
Naizvozvo, mubereki achipindira, mwana anogamuchira chiratidzo chekuti mhedzisiro yacho yakakosha kupfuura maitiro - iyo yakakosha kupedzisa basa racho, uye kwete kudzidza chimwe chinhu muchirongwa ichi.
"Kana vana vanzwisisa kuti mhedzisiro yekupedzisira yakakosha kudarika maitiro, saka ivo vane zvisingafarire kuedza chimwe chinhu chavo," akawedzera muzzle.
Robin Klovitz Vabereki kuti vazvitsanangure iye, izvo zvinonyanya kukosha panguva ino - mhedzisiro yakanaka kana maitiro ekudzidza, uye kana iwe uchikosha kuti upe mwana wako rusununguko zvakanyanya kudzidza uye kugadzirisa mabasa iwe pachako. Kana iwe usingakwanise kukanganisa maitiro, wobva warumbidza uye utsigire mwana - izvi zvakare rudzi rwepakati pane zviitiko zvake.
Zvakare, chiremba wepfungwa akataura nezve kumwe kugamuchira - pamberi pechimwe chinhu chekuudza mwana, kuverenga kusvika kugumi uye kuzvibvunza kana iye akakwanisa kuita chete kana ukamupa imwe nguva yakawanda? Kana iwe uine chivimbo chekuti mwanasikana wako kana mwanakomana wako haasi mauto, ndinoshingairira. Vana vese vanoda rutsigiro.
