Amashuri yuburinganire bugezweho aratandukanye cyane nibyabaye mumyaka 50 ishize, kandi ntakintu nakimwe mubihe byashize kandi ntakintu nakimwe cyo kuvuga. Itandukaniro nuko abakobwa bambere barezwe nk'abagore b'ejo hazaza na ba nyina, n'abahungu - abagabo, babunganira n'abacukuzi.
Ikibazo nikihe
Noneho ubu nta tandukaniro gusa muburere bwabahungu nabakobwa. Abana b'ibitsina byombi biga bimwe, babajije kimwe kandi kubwibyo, abantu bafite imico imwe no kwimurwa bagana indangagaciro zabagabo ni nkigisubizo.
Ibi byose muri iki gihe bihabwa abahungu be nabahungu, nabakobwa. Kandi ikigaragara ni uko intego nyamukuru zubumenyi bugezweho ari intego, kwiyemeza, ibikorwa, ubushobozi bwo kwinjiza, kurengera, kurengera amarushanwa, kuba umuyobozi. Ibi, byanze bikunze, imico ikenewe cyane itanga icyifuzo kimwe cyingenzi mubuzima bw'ejo hazaza nacyo ni umugabo, kandi umugore azakora ku birenge kimwe, ariko kandi yita ku muryango - ubuzima, abana.
Kandi hano ibibazo byumugore bitangira - kubi byose, aracyaryama, tubyara kandi tubyara umwanya ku mwana mugihe ari muto. Muri iki gihe, umugabo afite umudendezo kandi akora cyane mu kugera kuntego zayo. Kandi kubagore, ikibazo kikabije nukubera ko ntamuntu uyigishije kuba nyina gusa, umupfumu, umugore.
Kubwibyo amakimbirane, nibibazo nkibidashaka kubyara, kumara umwanya mubuzima no kumubiri kumubiri kubangamira umwuga. Cyangwa umugore aba mwiza kandi afite imikorere yumwimerere yumugore. Ku rundi ruhande, abantu na bo barahindutse: KNYomeVament yaburiwe irengero, kugifana, kurinda abagore nkumufatanyabikorwa udakomeye. Byose byabaye ngombwa - baracyahwanye.
Ko ibyo ntibibaho, ni ngombwa kumva ko uburere bw'abakobwa n'abahungu bagomba kwegerejwe mu buryo butandukanye.
Uburyo bwo Kurera Abahungu
Kubagabo b'ejo hazaza, ireme nyamukuru ni inshingano. Agomba kumenya ko abagize umuryango we bazaterwa nimyitwarire ye cyangwa ataribyo. Umuhungu kuva mu bwana agomba kugira uruziga rw'amabwiriza ahuye n'imyaka ye n'amahirwe. Kandi ugomba kwigisha umuhungu wawe kubisohoza nta byibutsa. Umwana agomba kumva afite akamaro, bifite ireme kandi, byanze bikunze, kugirango akire murakoze.
Witondere kubona umwanya wo kubona amahirwe yo kwibanda gusa, kandi atari muri siporo n'imyidagaduro gusa, nko kuroba, ahubwo no mu bibazo byo mu rugo. Niba utigisha umuhungu wawe gutsinda imisumari, bizagomba guhindura umugore we, bizagaragara neza kutagira uruhare mubyishimo mumuryango.
Uburyo bwo Kurera Abakobwa
Hamwe nabakobwa byoroshye. Bakwiye gukundwa gusa kwihisha byinshi, kandi ntabwo ari kubintu bifatika. Kandi, cyane cyane, ntabwo aritira imiterere yimico n'ibyifuzo byashyizweho: Ubufasha, guhugura, kuzana umunezero. Ariko akwiye kubona urugero ruva mubagore bakuze mumuryango - Nigute ushobora kuba nyirabuja nkunda Mama.
Ntigomba kuzana mu mukobwa "umuhungu", kumutera inkunga yuko ahora afitiye ikintu, agashyiraho ibibujijwe bitari ngombwa kandi akanegura niba hari ikintu kidakora.
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