Kubaho no kurera abana bawe mugihe utekereza ko bikwiye. Ntutegereze gucirwaho iteka kuri buri ntambwe. Fata ibyemezo byawe kandi ubakoreho inshingano, umenye ko uburambe bwawe ari ngombwa, kandi bushobora gushyigikirana. Hafi yibi bivuze ijambo "Empuerm".
Ku munsi, barabizi, ibihe biruhuko byahisemo kuvugana nawe kuri phenomenon, byamenyekanye vuba aha. Imbaraga zabagore (mumbabarire, nta kirusiya kingana ikirusiya) - inzira yo kwinjira mu bagore mu bubasha, kugenzura no gufata ibyemezo mu nzego zose z'ubuzima.
Muri rusange, muri rusange, kumenya ukuri kworoshye k'uko umugore atari ibikoresho byoza ibikoresho, ntabwo ari umurinzi w'ibanze kandi atari umutakoro wo mu biro, ahubwo ni umuntu wuzuye ushoboye cyane.Iyi imbaraga nyinshi irashobora kuba itandukanye: Ubukungu (Ibi ni mugihe abagore batangiye kwishyura umushahara umwe nkabagabo bafite imyanya imwe), politiki (iyi ni iyo abagore bashoboye gufata ibyemezo bya politiki), imibereho myiza na psychologiya na psychologiya na psychologiya.
Tuzavuga ku bwoko bubiri bwa nyuma, nibwo buryo bworoshye bwo kubyumva, ariko ntituzavuga kubyerekeye abagore muri rusange, ariko tutazavuga ku babyeyi - ahubwo dukeneye ubu kongerera ubushobozi n'imbaraga ebyiri.
Ubuzima bwa Mama wu Burusiya bwa kijyambere buri kure yumwanya wimbaraga n'imbaraga, imbaraga zifasha gusa.Yabyaye mu bitaro by'ababyeyi, aho ahura n'ihohoterwa rishingiye ku nkunga, agasuzuguro, kutizerana ndetse n'ubugome. Ajyana n'umwana wavutse mu ivuriro, aho yitwa "Mama", atanga ibyifuzo byose by'ababyeyi bariho: ntukabuze, ntabwo bivuze, ntibyashakaga kwimurwa, gukora ntukurikire indyo, nibindi kurutonde.
Agenda kumurongo, aho abantu babarirwa mu magana batabamenyera bamurikira ko agomba kwicara mu rugo, kubera ko Imana yabyaye, kwibagirwa inyungu z'umuntu kandi ko yakira umunezero nyawo.
Ajya mu muhanda, aho akurura imizigo ikaze ku bikonje, amasuka menshi, ababitsi bakomeye, bahabwa umugabane we w'inama zidahuye no gucirwaho iteka hamwe n'umwana. "
Ikintu cyumvikana, ntabwo umubyeyi anyura mubice byose byashyizwe ku rutonde bw '"igihe cyiza", ariko biragoye kubona ibyo ntanumwe murimwe utazakoraho.
Muri iki gihe cyose, umugore ni uyu mugore wa hypothetil wo mumateka yacu - yumva amerewe nabi.Yumva adafite agaciro, nto, irangi, ikibi, icyaha, intege nke kandi ntamuntu ukeneye. Afite ubwoba kandi ararakaye, ararambirwa, atsinda amenyo, atsinda amenyo yose, amavuriro na "mimocroodils" n'ibitekerezo byabo bifite agaciro. Atangira kwishimira ibyo "atatsinze," ni ubuhe "buryo bwahanganye," kandi muri rusange - mbere yuko hatabaho ibikoresho byo gukora ibikoresho, kandi nta kintu na kimwe cyarokotse.
Birashobora kuba inkuru itera imbere kandi yigisha kubyerekeye abantu bigorana kandi bakabakomera cyane, ariko mubyukuri bihinduka inkuru zibabaje mu ruziga no guhatira abantu batiyumvamo - ubwabo nabandi Nuyumva kandi bituma barokoka buri munsi, kandi ntibabeho nkuko babishaka.
Hano niho amafaranga yinjira mu buryo bumwe butuma abagore bumva bafite icyizere kandi baruhutse mu gihe cyo kubyara. Ijambo "gushyirwaho ubwa gatatu" - "kubyara, ryahawe imbaraga" zatanzwe muri ANDAI O'raili - umuganga wa filozofiya, umwanditsi wa filozofiya, umwanditsi na Porofeseri mu bijyanye n'ubushakashatsi bw'ubushakashatsi bw'umugore.
Mubikorwa byabo, yagereranije "yahumekewe", "yahumetswe n'imbaraga" Ububyeyi bw'Icyitegererezo cy'abakurambere y'ububyeyi, bukwirakwira mu isi ya none. Nk'uko bya nyuma, nyina niwe muntu nyamukuru ushinzwe umwana, kandi ategekwa kumwitaho kugeza mu myaka runaka, ariko icyarimwe na we agomba kuba "mwiza", - ni ukuvuga ko habaye ibyiringiro ko sosiyete iyigaragaza.
Nibyiza, urabivuga, wibarutse "wowe ubwawe", konsa, ntugasinzira nyuma ya saa sita, atari nijoro, ujye mu majyambere, ugendane na gare ya buri munsi, kandi icyarimwe, kugendera kuri "kubyara". Ifishi, reba neza, utitotomba kandi wishime ubuzima.
Mu buryo butandukanye na we, umugore uhari mu bundi buryo bwo kubabyeyi nuko ariryo ngabo nyinshi, "yahawe imbaraga," ntabwo ifatwa na societe nk'umugereka ku mwana, ariko ni umuntu wigenga ufite uburenganzira bwo gufata icyemezo Ibyemezo byamenyeshejwe, biyobowe nimyizerere ye y'imbere kandi icyarimwe kugirango wubahe kimwe nabandi bantu bose.
Ntatinya kuva mu rugo rw'umwana nta ngofero ku munsi w'izuba (kutitana gusa, ahubwo azi ko nta muntu uzatinyuka kumuciraho iteka), nta kibazo cyo gutinyuka kumuciraho iteka), nta kibazo, kigaburira umwana n'amabere aho biri Yonosoye, ntukagire kwicira urubanza, hamwe na jeans nkeya kuri we, amajipo angana na we, kuko "kogosheshaga" ntabwo biteganya kugaruka - kandi nibisanzwe. Yizeye muri we, ntatinya kurenga ku buryo bwe, kandi nta mpamvu yo gushimangirwa ku bandi bagore, kuko yihagije kandi yinyuzwe n'ibyemezo byabo.
Waba uzi igikonje cyane? Umuntu wese muri twe arashobora kuba umubyeyi kandi agafasha abandi bagore muriyi nzira.Kugira ngo dukore ibi, dukeneye ibintu bibiri byitwa kutabagirana: Ugukoresha hamwe na Muzigude (sawa, ibintu byose birasobanutse hano: mu kirusiya ni mushiki wawe). Bifitanye isano, kuko bigoye cyane kumva imbaraga nicyizere mugihe uziko ntawumwe kuri wewe. Byinshi cyane mugihe uzi neza ko ufite urukuta rwabantu bahuje ibitekerezo bazagutera inkunga kandi bakagufata uko uri.
Uru rukuta ruturuka he?Kuva mumishinga yo guhanga no gutanga amakuru yaremewe kugirango bashimishe ababyeyi kugaragara kubatera imbaraga no kwishimira icyo aricyo (urugero, hano, nibyo).
Duhereye ku magambo rusange ko gushyigikira kumugaragaro ababyeyi n'uburenganzira bwabo bwo kuba ba nyina bashaka kuba - kandi ntakibazo, bafite abari bateraniye muri miliyoni magana atanu cyangwa magana atanu.
Kuva mubitekerezo bishyushye kandi byemera munsi yimyanya nubutumwa bwabagore bashidikanya cyangwa kwishinja.
Mu nama hamwe nabakobwa bakobwa nibiganiro bivuye ku mutima kubyerekeye akamaro kuri wewe. Kuva mu isafuriya y'isupu ishyushye, yazanye urugo n'inshuti, uherutse kubyara.
Duhereye ku gitekerezo cy'umugore uhangayitse ugerageza gutuza umwana mu ndege yuzuye. Uhereye ku mubyeyi usobanuka uhura na nyina ugerageza kuganira na Toddler, ugenda hasi. Dukurikije ubufasha bwa Mama ufite gare, ninde ukurura cyane ukoresheje urubura.
Inkunga hamwe nubushobozi bwimibereho bugizwe nibintu bito, ariko amatafari mato adufasha intambwe imwe yo kwegera kuba umubyeyi wo muri sosiyete yacu yumvaga afite akamaro, agaragara kandi afite agaciro kandi afite agaciro kandi afite agaciro kandi afite agaciro. Abantu bakora by'ingenzi (kimwe mu by'ingenzi, mubyukuri) abantu bahisemo, abantu batanze amahitamo bashyigikira kubyara - ibi ni umurimo ukabije, akenshi udashima kandi watagaragara.
Nibyo, biragaragara ko ibyo byose ari ibintu bito, kandi biragoye kuvuga kubyerekeye Empage yawe ya none kugeza isosiyete izahangayikishwa nurwego rwa sisitemu. Kubera iyi mpamvu ibidukikije mijyi bagomba kuba gicuti kuko strollers, cafés na ndangamurage - gicuti kuko bonsa, ibitaro kubyara n'abaganga - gicuti kuko gore, n'abakoresha bagomba guhagarika kuvangura abagore, kuko nyina cyangwa magambo gusa bashobora kuba bo. Iki nigisubizo kinini cyimpinduka, kubwibyo ni ngombwa kurwana, ariko ntizizabera rwose.
Kandi hariho ibintu bishobora gukorwa nonaha - gusa gufashanya, kuharanira inyungu n'imbaraga kandi twumva ko umubyeyi atari umuntu wihishe inyuma yumwenda, ntabwo ari ukugenda Mu nzu kandi usabe imbabazi kuri tereviziyo yose, n'umunyamuryango wuzuye, utabamo iyi sosiyete, by, ntabwo bwari kuba.
Kandi rero (kumunsi ubwabo, uzi icyo kiruhuko) turashaka kwifuriza ababyeyi bose ubutwari n'imbaraga zose.Impugura, ubwibone, kwihangana no kwigirira icyizere. Twifurije buri wese muri twe imbaraga nyinshi kugirango tubasangire nabandi, tubike mu gishanga no kurwanira ko uburenganzira bwacu.
Imbaraga z'abakobwa!
Uracyasoma ku ngingo
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