Ababyeyi ni abantu bateye ubwoba. N'ababyeyi b'abakinnyi baracyari babi. Hagarara, wari urwenya!
Vuba aha, Alina yantaye kumujyana kugirango amenyekane. Kandi byampaye gutekereza cyane. Byinshi. Nkibisanzwe, kuri wewe kuruta Alina. Tujya mu itsinda rya No: kabiri mu cyumweru. Kuberako njye ubwanjye, nta myifatire ya siporo. Nize skate yari asanzwe kandi sinakunze rwose. Kubwibyo, nishimiye ko Alina azokwigira kare, yo inyuma amujyana.
Hariho abana benshi mu ishuri, umutoza ni mwiza, ababyeyi bari bicaye kuri podium - barahari. Kandi numukobwa wanjye ulyana nabo barahari. Kandi nibyo twibwira (hafi Ulyana, birumvikana ko bidashoboka kuvuga, ariko kubwimpamvu zimwe nzi neza ko azamfata):
Ababyeyi ni abantu bateye ubwoba. N'ababyeyi b'abakinnyi baracyari babi. Hagarara, wari urwenya! Nubwo, nko muri urwenya rwose, hari urwenya.
Kubwimpamvu runaka, birababaje gusa kubona birababaje ababyeyi banjye bafite Baula nini kubana (Iri ni ibuye riyobora abana mu mashuri inshuro 5 mu cyumweru, nicaye kuri bo kandi inararibonye, kuruta umwana. Gutanga inama zifata abana b'imyaka itatu kugirango baduhinyure, bakomeze kubafotora, no kuganira, nkuko abana babo badakora. Birababaje kubireba byose.
Kuberako bigoye. Biragoye kubaho ubuzima bwawe mugihe 24/7 bigakorera ubuzima bwabandi. Kandi ndashaka gukora ubwo buzima bwabandi. Ubeho ubuzima bwumwana. Nibyiza, ninshingano gake, urashobora guhora uri muburyo bwiza bwindorerezi kandi ntugerageze gushya kandi biteye ubwoba.
Urashobora kumenya byose mubitekerezo ugasobanurira abantu bose, nkibyo, icyarimwe ntugatere skip wenyine. Urashobora kwihagararaho no guhangayikishwa numwana wawe kandi ugatanga inama, kandi ukamutuka, nubwo atumva. Kuki, by the way? Runk nini, abana kurundi ruhande rwibihagararo - kuki hagira inama igihe cyose kandi batsindira umwana?
Ndabireba byose - niba utwaye uruhinja rwabana inshuro eshanu mu cyumweru, ushyira skate, amasasu yose (ibi biroroshye ku bunini bw'imifuka yanjye) noneho nakuyeho byose, hanyuma ukureho byose, hanyuma ukureho byose, hanyuma ukureho urugo, nukuri bisaba ubuzima bwanjye bwose. Kandi urashaka / ntukifuze utangira guhindukirira umwana. Kuberako ukora ikindi kugirango byose. Ongeraho kuri ukundi kwishura aya masomo kandi bigaragara ko ubuzima bwose bwashyizwe kuri.
Kandi biragoye kunanira. Kuva ikindi kintu kinini kiza, intsinzi yumwana.
Niba umwana wawe abonye ikintu, niko ... ashyuha. Kandi aratera imbaraga, kandi arashimisha, kandi yuzuza imbaraga. Kandi uriteguye kuzunguruka imisozi kugirango ukumve iyi myibone. Uyu ni umwana wanjye, kandi arakonje! Kandi ndakonje, kuko mfite umwana nkuyu.
Vuba aha, iyo mbonye umwana ufite impano, burigihe ndamureba inyuma yanjye - ninde uri inyuma ye? Ninde ukorana na we, ninde ufasha, uyobora? Kandi iyo mbwiye - ni ubuhe bwoko bw'umwana bukozwe neza, ibintu byose birahinduka, - ndavuga, - oya, tegereza, Mama arangije. Kandi wenda ndetse, mbere na mbere, wakozwe neza, kuko yamufasha, aramuyobora, arahumekezwa, arahaguruka, akora neza hamwe ... hano birakozwe neza. Ubwa mbere we hanyuma umwana.
Ikigaragara ni uko namaze gukura, ariko ndababaye kuri Mama. Kuberako akazi kabo katagaragara, kuberako bahitamo umwana aho ubwabo, cyangwa kuberako bafite umwanya kandi umwana azatwara ahantu hose, kandi akabana n'inyungu zabo bwite. Kandi ntamuntu ushyira urwibutso mubuzima kubwibi.
Ndashaka ko buri mubyeyi agira amahirwe yo gutanga umwanya. Kuroga muri societe, amategeko, umuryango, abavandimwe - na bose. Ivuka ry'umwana no guhindura ubuzima bwose, kandi akenshi kugirango bikomeze igice cyabo n'inyungu zabo, ukeneye ubufasha cyangwa no kubura gucirwaho iteka cyangwa kwivanga. Ntabwo ari mumagambo, ahubwo ni mubikorwa. Birashoboka, kandi ntuzashora ibintu byose mumwana.