Ubushake bw'ababyeyi ni iki? Iki nikintu kidasobanutse, kigaragara nyuma yo kuvuka k'umwana no kumpatira gukora ibishoboka byose ku bubasha bwa nyina, iyaba umwana we ari we yishimye. Ariko hariho ibibazo mugihe iyo mpamvu iyi myumvire ya Mama itagaragara kandi umugore yanze umwana we. Kimwe mu bintu nk'ibi cyabayeho hamwe na Julia muto, nyina yamuhaye mu kigo cy'imfubyi kubera impamvu idasobanutse. Nk'uko umubyeyi avuga ko umukobwa yari mubi.
Inna, nyina wa Julia yatwite ntabwo yateguwe kandi igihe kirekire yatekerezaga gukuramo inda. Ariko abavandimwe n'incuti barakandaga, umwana wa Inna aragenda. Umukobwa yari afite imyaka 23. Nta mugabo, se w'umwana yazimiye. Gutwita byagenze kandi buhoro buhoro umukobwa atangira guhangayikishwa nigitekerezo ko azaba nyina. Ndetse natangiye kureba no kugura imyenda y'abana.
Umwana yavutse ku gihe. Yari umukobwa. Ariko mubyerekejeho, Inna ntabwo yari afite umunezero. Kuri we, hari ikintu kibi ku mwana. Umunwa wasaga naho ukomeye, kandi mu maso haseswa hari umunyeganyega kandi hararengewe gato. Amashitani y'umwana yari atagereranywa na nyina, afite ubwoba ko umukobwa yari afite inenge ashobora kuba atari hanze gusa, ahubwo anangwa na psyche, yaramwanze.
Nibwo buryo, Julia Ntoya (yita ababiteye ubwabo) yagaragaye ku mucyo, wenyine. Kandi ibi ni nubwo nyina ari mumujyi umwe kandi arashobora kurengana buri munsi hafi.
Benshi barihutiye guciraho iteka nyina, abandi batinjira. Ahari ibi biterwa nuko twese ducira urubanza? Ariko abantu bake barashobora kureba mubugingo bwumuntu ufata ibyemezo nkibi.Bitabaye ibyo, muri twe dushobora guciraho iteka, nk'urugero, abazamuka, kubera kutazamuka urutare ruhagaze. Ariko iyi ni amagambo yose. Ni iki cyari gifite Julia muto?
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Umukobwa yagumye mu kigo cy'imfubyi cyane, kandi arukuri, hanyuma amezi 8. Muri kiriya gihe, ntazashobora no kubona umwanya wabo, nkuko bikiri muto cyane. Umwana yashyize ahagaragara abashakanye bafite babiri mu bana babo kavukire. Ku kibazo, ku byerekeye isura y'umukobwa, Mama na Papa, basubije mu ijwi rimwe: "Ni ikihe kibi? Twese turatandukanye kandi nkumuntu, kandi umuntu ntabikora. Ikintu nyamukuru ni uko gifite ubuzima bwiza, kandi tuzagerageza uko dushoboye kugira ngo umwana anezere. "
Noneho umukobwa 11 n'ababyeyi bashya bashoboye kumwumvisha ko hagaragaye ibintu byose byose ari byo byose, ariko muri rusange birihariye. Noneho umwana wo mu nenge zigaragara, gusa ibibase, ababyeyi bateganya kuvana igihe yiyongera gato.
Hariho ibindi bintu byinshi mu bigo by'imfubyi mu bigo by'imfubyi byabayeho cyane abana batereranywe, ariko umurimo wacu ntugomba guciraho iteka mama wanze abana babo, ariko niba bishoboka, kugirango abana batereranywe arishimye.