Mbere ya byose, "abana bacu" ni abantu. Ababyeyi, ba nyirakuru na basogokuru, aba ni abarimu n'abana bakuze ...
Hano hari ikizamini gikunzwe: Tekereza ko ugenda muri lift hamwe numushoramari ushobora kuba umushoramari, kandi ufite umunota umwe gusa kugirango ubyigirire mu mushinga wawe: imibare imwe gusa yo kuyishishikariza umushinga wawe: imibare, ibipimo, igitekerezo cyaka, chip "idasanzwe. Noneho tekereza ko mugihe kimwe ukeneye kubwira umwana wawe. Uravuga iki?
Nize gusoma imyaka itatu, funga Rubik's cube kumasegonda 30, yatsindiye ibinyabuzima ku mikino Olempike ... Ariko umwana wawe ni umwana wawe? Nigute wasobanura amagambo mumatama iyo amwenyuye? Kumva urwenya. Impumuro nziza. Ndetse n'ubwenge, impuhwe n'ubushobozi bwo gushyigikira. Fantasy. Cyangwa rero ibyiyumvo iyo asanzwe ari metero mirongo cyenda, kandi washyinguwe mu gituza, kandi ntabwo unyuranye ...
Iyo ugerageje kuvuga kubyerekeye umushinga "abana bacu", ibyiyumvo nk'ibyo biravuka. N'ubundi kandi, uyu mushinga ntabwo ari amakuru, amakuru, impuguke cyangwa ubumenyi. Ntabwo ari imibare n'ibipimo. Ntabwo umubare winyandiko zatangajwe. Nubwo ari ...
Ariko nanone, mbere na mbere, "abana bacu" ni abantu. Ababyeyi, ba sogokuru, uyu ni umwarimu n'abana bakuze. Kandi twese dutandukanye cyane kuburyo rimwe na rimwe bitumvikana uko twese tubana mumwanya umwe. N'ubundi kandi, twizera ibintu bitandukanye, tuba muburyo butandukanye muri buri wese muri twe imico yacu, uburambe bwubuzima kandi byukuri, reba uburere. Bishoboka bite?
Igisubizo cyerekana. Byose biduhuza natwe - urukundo rwabana bacu. Icyifuzo cyo kubashimisha. Icyifuzo cyo kuba ababyeyi beza. Cyangwa inzozi z'abana n'umuryango, kubyerekeye uburya bunyangamugayo, bwo kubahwa dushobora kuguma ubwacu.
Twese turashidikanya kandi dushakisha ibisubizo kubibazo byawe. Cyangwa guharanira kugabana ibyavumbuwe nubumenyi. Turashaka kuvuga kubyerekeye urukundo rwabo no kwishimira abana. Muri ayo byiyumvo, amarangamutima no gushidikanya ko umushinga "abana bacu" bavutse kandi ukura.
Ntabwo dukurikiza ingengabitekerezo runaka, ntitwatware "umucyo w'ubumenyi mu misa", ntukigishe abandi kuba ababyeyi bakwiye, ntuzamure kandi ntunenga. Ahubwo, turimo gukora wenyine, wige kwiyubaha hamwe nabandi. Duharanira gukora umwanya aho ijwi iryo ariryo rishobora kumvikana.
Birumvikana, kumushinga "abana bacu" Hariho amategeko amwe n'abonga. Turwanya ihohoterwa muburyo ubwo aribwo bwose kandi ntituzigere dutangaza inyandiko aho ibihano byumubiri, agasuzuguro k'undi muntu cyangwa kutubaha birakwiriye. Kandi ntidukunda inforkor ijwi no gucirwaho iteka.
Umwana kurera ni art, akazi, urugendo rurerure nigice kinini cyubuzima bwababyeyi. Nta muhanda ukwiye cyangwa igisubizo kimwe cyiza. Ubu ni inzira ahoraho aho abana bahinduka kandi natwe ubwacu.
Kandi ni ngombwa cyane kwiga gutega amatwi wowe ubwawe hamwe nabana bawe. Fata neza ko isi ikikije idahora yujuje ibyifuzo byacu. Kugirango inshuti nziza zirashobora gutandukana nuburyo bwawe bwo kurenge. Icyo utagomba kurwana kubera amabere, kugaburira cyangwa kwiga murugo. Kandi ko nubwo hamwe na Mama yakundaga rimwe na rimwe bigoye kubona ururimi rusanzwe.
Hamwe ninyandiko kumushinga "abana bacu". Gusinzira guhuriweho cyangwa uburiri butandukanye, konsa cyangwa ibikoni, pepiniyeri cyangwa kuri decised kugeza kumyaka itatu. Ibi byose nimpamvu yo guhana isura isa, shakisha ibyo abandi batekereza kandi bifata icyemezo, ntabwo arimpamvu yamakimbirane. Buri mubyeyi kandi buri papa afite uburenganzira kubitekerezo byabo namahirwe yo kubigaragaza.
Dutangaza inkuru zerekeye gutwika kwababyeyi, kuko ntabwo ari amarangamutima yumuntu umwe, ahubwo ni amahirwe yo gutekereza kubibazo kubatahuye nayo. Amahirwe yo gufasha umuntu ushobora kubabarira iruhande rwawe.
Inyandiko yukuntu umwana yize kuvuga indimi ebyiri atari amahirwe yo kwerekana ubwibone bwe (nubwo nikihe kibi ki cyo kugaragariza ibyo?), Ariko kandi kungurana ibitekerezo, ibitekerezo kubantu birashoboka ko bashaka .
Twakusanyije ingingo zikomeye kandi tuvuga ihohoterwa rikorerwa mu ngo, uruhare n'uburenganzira bw'umugore muri sosiyete, kubyerekeye ubutane na Alimoni. Kuberako nanone igice cyubuzima bwacu. Ibi nibibazo byahuye nabyo benshi. Kandi nibigize igice kibabaje cyubwana bwabana benshi. Vuga ibibazo nkibi, kugirango umenye ko bibaho - intambwe yambere igana ku cyemezo cyabo.
"Abana bacu" - Ahantu ushobora kwerekana kandi ntutinye ko inkuru yawe itameze neza. Aho abantu babarirwa mu bihumbi abantu kuyisoma, nubwo utari umunyamakuru, atari umwanditsi si Blogger na batoroshye nini. Ahantu ushobora kubona ibisubizo kubibazo no kubona inkunga.
Kandi ntituzarambirwa no kubashimira kuba turi kumwe. Kuberako gushaka ubutwari bwo kwandika no kuvuga ibyawe. Ntutinye kuba wenyine. Gushidikanya kandi ushake hamwe natwe. Kora umushinga wacu kandi uhari.
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