Abagabo ba none mubyukuri barashobora kumva ko bakeneye abo bagore. Baremewe bidashira, amarangamutima, ukunda ubusa nubwibone kandi bitamenyekana byoroshye. Kandi abagore bose bari biganjemo imbabazi. Umufuka wubunini kuri bo ni ushyira imbere mugihe uhitamo ikisate cyubuzima. Ni muri urwo rwego, akenshi umugabo wubaka umubano, bashaka kumvira ukuri, bamenya uko bakeneye umugore.
Icy'ingenzi ni ukubera iki ugomba gutangira, amaherezo uhagaritse kwizera amagambo y'abagore no kwitondera ibikorwa byose nibikorwa. N'ubundi kandi, abagore bafitanye umubano n'abagabo yazanye gukoresha amayeri asanzwe ya marketer. Basobanura, cyangwa aho kubahiriza abagabo ko badasanzwe, gusa kandi umwihariko ku isi. Yibwira kuri we niba ari mu mwijima, hamwe no kwinezeza no kwiba. Umugabo atangira kubana numugore ushimishije kandi irari, nkaho ari ubwoko runaka, ikintu cyambere, ikintu gitandukanye nisoko ryatanzwe. Atangira rwose kumaboko kugirango yambara uwo bashakanye, atanga byose. Ariko igihe, gusenya, kutitabira ubutumwa no kwangirika kw'imbaraga biza. Ibi bibaho kubwimpamvu imwe yoroshye - Kugaruka zeru. Kandi hariho imyumvire idasanzwe yubuntu bitari ngombwa cyangwa irungu.
Nigute ushobora kumenya uko ukeneye umugore mubyukuri? Hariho inzira imwe yoroshye - saba ubufasha gusa. Mubisanzwe, umugabo nukuri mugihe imbaraga kubizavamo kandi zibera mubuzima bwumurongo wirabura, kubangamira guhungabana. Kandi umenye amafaranga yakoreshejwe ningengo yiteguye kugenda igice cya kabiri kuri wewe.
Niba umugore ahinduye umugongo akanga kurambura ukuboko kwifashisha, urebye ko ari ngombwa cyane kuzigama umutungo wacyo ku kintu cyingenzi, ni ukuvuga kuri we uwo ukunda, ikibabaje ntimukeneye. Ukoresha gusa kandi birashoboka ubwibone, uri mwiza gusa, cyangwa ahubwo, kugeza ubu. Ariko menya neza ko bidatinze bikuraho.
Niba uri umuntu wumuhanda, yiteguye kwishyura nkuko ukunda kugufasha no kugukura mu gishanga. Ntabwo mvuze imyanda yibintu gusa, ahubwo ni ibyerekeye imbaraga muri rusange. Mubikorwa byubufasha burashobora gukora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose - kwitaho, inkunga, gusobanukirwa, neza, no gushyigikirwa ibikoresho ubwabyo. Ubu buryo kugirango tumenye uko ukeneye umugore mubyukuri umugore agira akamaro rwose.
Komera ku mugore uhora witeguye kugutambira hamwe n'umutungo wawe - Umva, azagutera inkunga, ashyushya kwitondera, kandi wenda ko rimwe na rimwe uzanyura mu mahame yayo, nk'uko abyumva, niba atari we.
Urakoze kubitaho!
Isoko